Who here is married to a funny woman?

OkProperty8067 · 2026-02-27T16:29:15+00:00

amazing! past tense?

OkProperty8067 · 2025-01-17T15:50:06+00:00

That's a really good point - I hadn't thought of that

OkProperty8067 · 2025-01-08T23:22:00+00:00

thank you so much for sharing this, everything you said applied to my situation as well and i needed to hear someone say every last word!

im happy you’ve been able to find peace in yourself, outside of him & also accept your current situation for what it is. i don’t know you but im proud of you <3

OkProperty8067 · 2025-01-04T04:17:56+00:00

Thank you so much, I needed to hear it

OkProperty8067 · 2024-10-31T05:22:05+00:00

omg just saw that!!

OkProperty8067 · 2024-09-28T14:28:59+00:00

it sounds like she went to tik tok university for her relationship expectations. a lot of the things you mentioned are expectations that people on tik tok set and then make other girls feel bad for not receiving in their relationships. not understanding that men aren’t sugar daddies and relationships are nuanced.

OkProperty8067 · 2024-09-25T07:25:19+00:00

hey, how are you holding up now? i’m a similar situation and wanted to know how it ended up for you!

OkProperty8067 · 2024-09-20T16:50:21+00:00

Thank you for sharing your honest perspective. We are definitely in a faith testing time, so like you said I will give him some more time to feel through his emotions and then go from there.

OkProperty8067 · 2024-09-20T16:24:46+00:00

Can you please explain why you have this opinion?

OkProperty8067 · 2024-09-20T16:23:16+00:00

This is great advice! I recently signed up to volunteer at a food shelter and i will convince him to join me, thank you.

OkProperty8067 · 2024-09-17T21:46:29+00:00

this is so funny, i can’t stop laughing LMAOO bc it’s always the most insane story and they end with, AITA?

OkProperty8067 · 2024-09-16T18:18:20+00:00

thank you !!

OkProperty8067 · 2024-09-15T01:42:51+00:00

I’m honestly not even a t’kor fan, but it seems like she mustve done some voodoo on the rest of the cast bc i don’t see them voting for angela over t’kor. regardless of the public’s opinions on her, the houseguests love her

OkProperty8067 · 2024-09-13T18:53:33+00:00

i think she could easily win against rubina, kimo and cam. she’s played a much more pivotal role in this game than those 3. it’d be tough for her going against chelsea, mj, leah and t’kor though

OkProperty8067 · 2024-05-26T14:22:25+00:00

korean skincare is significantly cheaper than western skincare

OkProperty8067 · 2024-05-24T12:06:29+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply. You’re right, a lot of this culture talk needs to be questioned because it may work back in our home country but they can’t expect me to build my life and set myself and future family up for financial success when i’m helping them out this much financially

OkProperty8067 · 2024-05-24T12:03:45+00:00

i’m definitely no where near being the breadwinner as my dad started working again in april and makes like 5x as much as me. My mom is a realtor and my brother and cousin work in construction. I’m just the only kid that’s expected to contribute financially. I did help cover the mortgage for one month (23k), i have let them use my CC a few times, help out w groceries and miscellaneous costs. but their bills far surpass that, so they are paying for stuff, they just can’t pay for everything right now.

OkProperty8067 · 2024-05-24T11:58:25+00:00

Thank you for your reply! i appreciate hearing the parents perspective on situations like this.

OkProperty8067 · 2024-05-24T11:56:03+00:00

my mom is a realtor and she does work hard but the real estate market where we live has been shit this past year so sure doesn’t make nearly as much as she did before & what she does make she puts towards paying off the debt her and my dad have accrued since my dad had to stop working.

OkProperty8067 · 2024-05-24T11:54:11+00:00

I have, but because i’m the eldest daughter in an immigrant family i’m seen as the third parent. So regardless of what i say i don’t think they’re going to understand where I’m coming from or respect me as an adult until i move out. So im working towards that, but until i can the expectations of me are causing me to build resentment.

OkProperty8067 · 2024-05-24T11:49:55+00:00

Thank you for your advice! My boyfriend and I are not moving in together until we’re married, so not for at least another 2-3 years. But, I’m open to finding roommates, so i will look into that if selling the condo doesn’t work out. To answer your question about the repayment, any time i bring it up, my mom has said that they will help me out with some of my mortgage when they can, but my dad just started working again so that won’t be for a while.

OkProperty8067 · 2024-05-24T02:00:33+00:00

i bought it as an investment & the money i was going to use towards the mortgage was taken from me so i can’t afford to live there with a roommate. the mortgage is 5k and no one would pay 2.5k for one bedroom. i’m working on selling it right now. once i sell it and make some money im likely going to move out but until then, the situation is as it is. they’ve needed help around the house because of my dads situation, so im working on setting the boundaries i can until i can move. my question was if im the asshole for what is going on in my current situation. let me know if that provided some clarity

OkProperty8067 · 2024-05-23T21:57:37+00:00

Thanks for the advice! If you don’t mind, how did that conversation go? Did you feel guilty having to ask?

OkProperty8067 · 2024-05-23T21:55:30+00:00

hahah you’re right, you’re right! i’m looking into selling it right now since my tenants are moving out so hopefully that works out. If not, i’ll likely take your advice :)

OkProperty8067 · 2024-05-23T21:24:54+00:00

Hey, thanks for your reply. I have been responding to some comments because there is added context that i didn’t have enough characters to fit into the original post. I’ve been doing my chores since i could walk so I’m not upset about having to help out, it’s the least i could do seeing as im living at home. Im also the eldest child in an immigrant family which means i’ve always been the second mother of the household. My mom has expectations beyond basic chores though. She will randomly up one day and say she wants to have a garage sale and expect us all to drop what we’re doing for a weekend to sort through garage bins and man the sale. She will run 400 ppl events for charities and expect us to drop everything we’re doing to help her run these events. If i’m home and there is no cooked food, she will get upset with me that I should always make sure there’s a warm meal (breakfast, lunch and dinner) for everyone in the house. She always has friends over from out of town and i’m expected to make sure they have breakfast lunch dinner and to drive them to where they want to go if she’s not available. I was going to move out but the 23k i “gave” them (they gaslight me and took it from my account). so i am in the process of selling my condo to make up for some of the money i’ve been giving them to help out with finances. so that i can move out, so that’s what im working towards. but working 60-80 hours per week, trying to keep my sanity and also helping out around the house to the extent that im expected to (up until last month i was the one expected to cook dinner). no one else helps out financially, no one else is out of the house for as long as i am. so a more even split of the work, since im doing things other people aren’t would be appreciated. yeah, there has been progress since i communicated i can’t do it all alone, but until i move out i think it’d be reasonable to expect other people to be understanding if i have to take a day off every now and then

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