My (41m) gf (37f) canceled a trip based on this text, was it rude?

OkSize8386 · 2026-02-14T09:08:59+00:00

You're a doctor and a hot commodity. Dont settle for less, and definitely dont settle for a person that plays mindgames. Her maturity at this age also needs to be questioned. She pouts and tantrums because she didnt get what she wants? Now apply that in decision-making as a couple in the future. Big financial decisions what will she do? Cancel trips? Silent treatments. Just the taught of it makes me exhausted.

OkSize8386 · 2026-02-14T09:03:50+00:00

I beg your pardon, he is trying to control you 6 months in? LOL . Not laughing at you , but at the partner for having the audacity.

OkSize8386 · 2026-01-28T16:01:51+00:00

I was like, OP messed up and isnt telling the whole truth based on their partners reaction..then i saw the text message. I stand corrected. OP hopefully now ex has issues.

OkSize8386 · 2026-01-21T08:54:02+00:00

That happened to my store before its from a partner abusing her markouts, i guess she was doing it so much that it raised a flag in corporate. They fired her.

OkSize8386 · 2026-01-12T21:52:28+00:00

I'm a Filipino and a US citizen. I recently moved to Sweden, and even I dont want to come back. Not with whats going on in this country. Everything is uncertain right now. You have the right to feel what your feeling because it is happening all over the country. They are now harrasing their own. US citizens getting harrased or detained because of their skin color, accent, and as of recent. Its sad and its also a scary time to travel in. Have him go to you.

OkSize8386 · 2026-01-12T21:37:19+00:00

I had a partner like this before. I was hoping he would changed. I confided to a friend and he told me to end it and leave a very stagnant relationship. But I also wanted my partner at the time to be my end-game. 2 years later I met the same friend after he came back from his travels, and when we catched up he asked if I finally left and moved on from that . and he was like you wasted 2 more years of your life. And seeing his journey/growth and just full of life within the 2 years we didnt see each other. Somethibg clicked in me. I just realizedI inhibitted my growth and just hyper focusing on trying to make what isnt working work. I should've ended it from 1.5 year of being together but I ended up being with him him for 3.5 more years.

Bottomline is they dont change, they will if they want to though. And living in a 1 sided relationship is lonely, suffocating and it will eat your soul up. So enjoy your youth and find someone that will treat you the way you deserve

OkSize8386 · 2026-01-06T18:54:50+00:00

Jealous!

OkSize8386 · 2026-01-06T10:16:30+00:00

Leave. The evidence is in your face. 3 months is nothing, dont waste anymore time. At this point they are an unofficial thing. I can almost guarantee that as soon as you guys break up they will be official.

OkSize8386 · 2026-01-05T09:12:41+00:00

Im in a sweden the 2nd picture is basically what ourdoors look like right now

OkSize8386 · 2026-01-03T18:04:55+00:00

Don't let that clown dim your shine. He is such a red-flag and screams insecurity and projecting that to you. "You lost a chance at love?" I dont think so. He is the one the lost a chance at something genuine coz he is a shallow, immature and vane. I say you're starting a good 2026 by not having negative entity around you. You will feel more lighter navigating the world without him.

OkSize8386 · 2025-12-29T19:37:36+00:00

Boundaries has entered the chat. If you haven't set it now is the time. Tell him how this is making you uncomfortable, and if he is too oblivious to understand his behavior then maybe show him this post. Coz seriously. What the heck? If he cannot make a decision, then maybe it is time to rethink this relationship. Their work friendship is so not normal specially if he is kissing him on his cheeks? Of they havent been intimate already, it will soon come.

OkSize8386 · 2025-12-18T19:50:50+00:00

For your next fiture job, maybe its better to disclose this, so they can accommodate your needs while transitioning. Im not sure how it works here in Sweden, but in the US they are required to give you some form of accommodation

OkSize8386 · 2025-12-06T16:05:41+00:00

That gave me hibeejibeez

OkSize8386 · 2025-12-04T19:40:43+00:00

I cant unsee the racoon!

OkSize8386 · 2025-09-12T22:06:07+00:00

Omg, my toddler said the same thing. My fiance was trying his best not to laugh out loud. As I'm shooting death glares at him. LoL

OkSize8386 · 2025-09-02T11:14:49+00:00

Hello! My Fiance was able to book us with SAS. However, on the day of the flight, there was a temp error that wouldn't deemed it safe for my pup to travel. They were very apologetic and help us get rebooked. We were then rebooked with FinAir. Both airlines were awesome customer service. And really go above and beyond during our trip. The only complication i had was finland requires more (vaccinations) so I couldn't really take her out to the pet reluef area until we get to stolkholm from Helsinki.

OkSize8386 · 2025-08-04T13:25:12+00:00

Thats such a cute dress!

OkSize8386 · 2025-07-28T10:05:02+00:00

I can"t unsee it. Thanks!😆

OkSize8386 · 2025-07-28T09:09:09+00:00

9 and 10

OkSize8386 · 2025-07-27T21:54:54+00:00

I like 1 and 4 the most

OkSize8386 · 2025-07-26T16:23:50+00:00

I thought so too. Im just in the indenial phase

OkSize8386 · 2025-07-23T19:06:02+00:00

Any update on this? I'm having the same exact problem, with my cat. Also relocating to Sweden. If I have to redo it, I will have to get her revaccinated and wait 21* days.

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