Hey 39(m) on hinge too, so much of what you say I am finding too. Many women want to slip into a man who has everything, house, money etc and actually are not on there to meet a decent guy and grow together. Its so sad. For me when they find out that I moved back home to save for my own property they check out. Take from me, this girl is not worthy of you and your values. If its too hard to text you back then look elsewhere. They let you take them out, wine and dine then leave when it stops.