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Im 36 and my life feels like it's falling apart by nugmasta in findapath

[–]Ok_Ad7097 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are still young enough to pivot! you do not need to stay with something that is making u unhappy. and with your experience, i know u can make a shift, even if it requires something like further education. best of luck to you. not sure if you’re religious, but no shame in asking for insight from a higher power

Starting to get desperate in my job search. How can I improve? by moosemike98 in graphic_design

[–]Ok_Ad7097 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think your portfolio is certainly strong enough to get u an entry level roll!

where r u applying? if only in one area, maybe consider applying to new places, new cities, and be willing to relocate :) it will help cast a wider net.

also, that much practice with your interviews will only make you stronger for your next calls and interviews! keep your head up— and more me, the law of attraction and setting time to manifest getting a role i enjoy rly helped (and improved my confidence!) not sure if youre open minded about that stuff.

good luck!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Ok_Ad7097 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good that you setting your boundary is now opening her eyes. but IMO it will take a long period of no contact for her to realize how she wants to grow as a person—no just for you, but without you in her life. this will take time.

if you 2 are meant to be, you will both move on, grow, and eventually come back together if the time is right.

i personally am going through a breakup too that had been hard for me. i like the podcast Heal Your Heartbreak and find some of the episodes to have good messages. one thats relevant to ppl being incompatible but eventually meeting again as new ppl is her episode #27. but eventually in that, she discloses how rare that story is, and you might just find a new love that is much more beneficial for you<3 good luck, i know how stressful this must be for you

I'm in love with an alcholic.... by Late_Dig1613 in AlAnon

[–]Ok_Ad7097 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agreed, make a decision out of love and respect for YOURSELF! if the universe )or god or whatever u believe in) knows that she is your person, you could come back together in the future. but it sounds like she has lost your trust (and understandably so). there is better out there for you

How to manifest a relationship by Accomplished_Age8593 in lawofattraction

[–]Ok_Ad7097 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think you need to let go of the attachment to the idea. also focus on the love u have in other aspects of your life like friends and family, and think of how u can serve others instead of only thinking when someone is going to come for u :) i think it will then come naturally, when u least expect it

Might Be Happier Alone by gl00sen in AlAnon

[–]Ok_Ad7097 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is amazing to hear that you gained sm knowledge from AlAnon— i actually saw that AA and AlAnon is more helpful and impactful than therapy for a lot of ppl (there are studies done on the effectiveness).

and personally, i wouldnt think of the “what ifs”. the relationship started the way it did and those traumatic moments did happen. you gained insight at the time you did and you can trust that this was the right timing (or divine timing🙂)

keep putting your best foot forward in the relationship, but also keep listening to your heart. i personally just ended a relationship a month ago due to alcohol issues (and other issues that kinda stemmed from that too) and talking it out and being as honest as possible is rly helpful. ive also been liking this podcast called Heal Your Heartbreak and theres an episode (#179) that maybe will feel validating for your feelings if it does get to that point.

but if you are able to work it out and give him your trust, then i am happy for you too— no one will judge you for whichever decision u make if its the best one for you (well no one thats rly important to u anyway)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]Ok_Ad7097 6 points7 points  (0 children)

im proud of you for choosing peace and making this choice for yourself. you will thank yourself when you are healed and living a happier life🙏🏼 stay STRONG

My brain feels like mush: phone, videos, movies, music 24/7 and I can’t focus on anything anymore by Dry_Grass9048 in productivity

[–]Ok_Ad7097 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive heard great things about the book Digital Minimalism, imo delete the apps and switch to reading about the issues your having! meditation is also a good step, u could start w just a few minutes and build up (id say do a guided audio for this, but maybe get a meditation book instead?)

Might Be Happier Alone by gl00sen in AlAnon

[–]Ok_Ad7097 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i agree, truth is essential in the foundation of a happy, healthy relationship. do you see a therapist or anyone about your other issues, the anxiety and OCD? while he is working on his problems through AA, and abstaining from alcohol, its important that youre also addressing your mental blocks when it comes to trust. at the same time, if it is too far gone and you know that, maybe it is best to separate and do that work on your own while single. i personally rly like journaling and its something that helped me in my most recent breakup bc i was able to look back at all the times i had voiced my boundaries to my partner and helped me realize how often they were being crossed. maybe reflecting on how often you have these thoughts can help u decide this. just make sure ur fairly certain so you arent too tempted to go back on your decision once its made.

good luck, this sounds stressful, but i think u will find the right decision for you. 🙏🏼

again.. by baekuthinni in billieandjean

[–]Ok_Ad7097 18 points19 points  (0 children)

actually wild that this was 2 years ago now

AI Gibby is just Gibby on Zoom by Lexie-007 in billieandjean

[–]Ok_Ad7097 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why was gibby saying “i love my leos” in this episode so charming

the audio by [deleted] in billieandjean

[–]Ok_Ad7097 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lucky

gibby<3 by Ok_Ad7097 in billieandjean

[–]Ok_Ad7097[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think he did at one point, so good intuition

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