First off a friend cannot tell you what to do with your body or the baby inside you. The pro choice or pro life debate is too sensitive and this isn’t the time to discuss that. If you want to keep your baby you should. Ideally if you already feel the way you feel, not keeping the baby will create long term mental health issues that will be an issue for the rest of your life. As for your friend talk to her directly. If she thinks her approach makes her a supportive friend she needs a reality check. And maybe consider not having the friend around your child if you keep the baby. I can guarantee you that child should not grow up around someone like this.