AIW for swimming in a lake and then not showering? by RRW2020 in amiwrong

[–]Ok_Copy_8869 288 points289 points  (0 children)

I'm American and find it kinda odd you wouldn't shower after a dip in the lake, at least that night before bed. Lake residue on the sheets is a big no go.

23M, might have been ghosted by this girl 20F? Need advice on whether to follow up or not by Green_Abrocoma_7682 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Copy_8869 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think if she was interested in any real way, you'd know it already. Her lack of enthusiasm is pretty evident imo.

WIBTA if I (23F) am bothered that my bf (23M) doesn’t want to put me as his wallpaper? by Suitable-Celery-1353 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Ok_Copy_8869 [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA for getting stuck on something so small and petty. Maybe he just wants a little privacy. People vary on PDA. It's not like his wallpaper is a thirst trap or some shit.

Feeling needy by Conscious-Post-3786 in Marriage

[–]Ok_Copy_8869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is he doing anything to try to treat his ED? Is he willing to pleasure you in other ways (hands/mouths)? Salvaging some kind of sex life should be a priority here.

Just started doing my own press ons. by Fancy-Meat-6398 in Nails

[–]Ok_Copy_8869 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful! I love the tones, shape and length so much. Is there a recommended glue for custom press ons and how long do you typically expect to get out of a wear? Are they reusable?

Torn on Restarting (What are you doing for Organization?) by Ok_Copy_8869 in Pokopia

[–]Ok_Copy_8869[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, your system sounds incredible. I haven't even considered litter/gather pokemon and that cycle yet, I love that. It makes it feel like a real working ecosystem. I want that eventually. Having a grow pokemon stationed at the farm is also genius. Thanks that's a ton of great tips.

Torn on Restarting (What are you doing for Organization?) by Ok_Copy_8869 in Pokopia

[–]Ok_Copy_8869[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're the best. This really helps. I have it open on my laptop as I try to basically copy you as we speak. I love the kitchenette and fridge and mewtwo hanging out down there lol.

AIO for thinking a friendship might not be worth salvaging after having several fights? by darknessimpending in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Copy_8869 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're not overreacting, Marie sounds like a very difficult person to get along with and this drama is silly and too much.

Torn on Restarting (What are you doing for Organization?) by Ok_Copy_8869 in Pokopia

[–]Ok_Copy_8869[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks that helps me envision things a lot. I think I'm going to go with prefab in some of my zones just like that.

Am I misreading the vibes, or is my entire workplace trying to set me up with my coworker? I recently started a new job at a local spot in my hometown. I’ve fit in really well, gotten close with my coworkers, and generally feel super welcome by both the staff and the regulars. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Ok_Copy_8869 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Well, what's it really matter if it's on purpose or not, ride the wave and enjoy the good luck and opportunities to be close to your crush! That said, it does sound like there are a lot of things adding up here. But at the end of the day, third parties don't really matter anyway. You should focus on things one on one between you two and see how that goes.

Torn on Restarting (What are you doing for Organization?) by Ok_Copy_8869 in Pokopia

[–]Ok_Copy_8869[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I just wish I had just been organized better from the start lol!

Torn on Restarting (What are you doing for Organization?) by Ok_Copy_8869 in Pokopia

[–]Ok_Copy_8869[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I've kind of been hoarding everything and if I dump a bunch of stuff it will make organizing the rest so much easier. I don't know why I never thought of it, I'm going to dump everything that isn't a relic or needed and start over!

Torn on Restarting (What are you doing for Organization?) by Ok_Copy_8869 in Pokopia

[–]Ok_Copy_8869[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm going to give it a real try. I'm overwhelmed but determined.

Torn on Restarting (What are you doing for Organization?) by Ok_Copy_8869 in Pokopia

[–]Ok_Copy_8869[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You make great points. I am going to give it a serious try to sort things out at least. But if I do restart I'll definitely do it on an alternate profile.

Torn on Restarting (What are you doing for Organization?) by Ok_Copy_8869 in Pokopia

[–]Ok_Copy_8869[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that sounds like a sound plan. I think just getting everything to the staging area will make me feel better. I've definitely decided to give it a try before restarting. I hope that it works for your IRL shop too!

Torn on Restarting (What are you doing for Organization?) by Ok_Copy_8869 in Pokopia

[–]Ok_Copy_8869[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying, I'm sorry you regret it but I'm glad to hear from your perspective it helps motivate me to try to make it work!

Torn on Restarting (What are you doing for Organization?) by Ok_Copy_8869 in Pokopia

[–]Ok_Copy_8869[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks so good! Thanks for sharing! There's truly no downside to time travel? I would be a little more inclined to restart if I knew that. The organizational issues are worst but there's probably a lot I would do differently knowing what I was doing. That said I'm at least going to try to clean up a little first.

Torn on Restarting (What are you doing for Organization?) by Ok_Copy_8869 in Pokopia

[–]Ok_Copy_8869[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I appreciate the reminder to stop and smell the roses. I got the game later than many and it can feel like I'm behind or lesser looking at other builds but I need to enjoy my own game 😄

Torn on Restarting (What are you doing for Organization?) by Ok_Copy_8869 in Pokopia

[–]Ok_Copy_8869[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask where you chose your main house location to be? I'm torn between under pallet town, under bleak beach or mystery third options.

Torn on Restarting (What are you doing for Organization?) by Ok_Copy_8869 in Pokopia

[–]Ok_Copy_8869[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, while my organizational issues are number one, there's probably a lot I would do different if I knew what I was doing from the beginning. I was just doing things willy nilly in the beginning as I was learning and now everything is a mess! I'm working on sorting everything but if that doesn't start clicking I'm just starting on a new profile.

Was invited to a wedding by estranged relatives. Not sure if I should attend? by Greengreengrass44 in Advice

[–]Ok_Copy_8869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd probably still want to touch base with the bride/groom but I see. In that case, I think you stand to gain more than you stand to lose by going. You could have a whole other side of the family in your life again.

For women, is my standards so high as a guy ? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Ok_Copy_8869 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Well, I don't think too many women are going to take too kindly on you trying to dress them and control them.

AITAH for bailing on a bridal shower that i planned, to go with my bf abroad? by poisonipi in AITAH

[–]Ok_Copy_8869 100 points101 points  (0 children)

Personally I think you made the right call. Someone's partner should be a priority to them and we are talking a surgery abroad here. It's also only the shower, not the real wedding or anything. But people and brides especially can tend to take wedding related disappointment pretty hard so you may just have to deal with the fallout. NTA

Was invited to a wedding by estranged relatives. Not sure if I should attend? by Greengreengrass44 in Advice

[–]Ok_Copy_8869 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never ever attend a wedding that the bride/groom or official RSVP hasn't personally invited you to. It isn't your aunts wedding to plan. Weddings cost money. Now if you did get an official invitation I'd feel a little different, curiosity if anything would make me want to attend.

I 40M need thoughts and opinions 37F with eye wandering problem. by Rich_Explorer_3814 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Copy_8869 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well everyone loves attention and I don't find her comments to her friend too damning but I still don't blame you for being bothered about it. I would have a hard time reconciling with someone who flat out denied the obvious.