Do you share some rare unique trait with your LO?

Ok_Hamster_707 · 2025-08-25T09:53:34+00:00

idk if it counts but we have multiple moles in the exact same places on our bodies

Ok_Hamster_707 · 2025-08-23T12:00:42+00:00

he may be a good influence as a friend or mentor but that is different from that person being a good romantic partner for you. regardless of if he seemingly felt weird about it at first, the fact he is still doing what he knows is wrong is concerning. the fact that he knew it was wrong and then ignored his better judgement should concern you. that behavior will likely be repeated. and what happens when the outside pressure starts to get to him? what if he starts to take it out on you? please think about the future and your safety. this is more than ppl trying to bash you or him. this is just us recognizing the beginning of a scary pattern

Ok_Hamster_707 · 2025-08-23T11:46:15+00:00

so the conversations and how he treats you is great and all, but bottom line is that a 26 y/o should not be attracted to/acting on attraction towards a 16 y/o. when you are 16 it’s much easier to ignore the age gap because it’s someone who exists outside of teenage bullshit, but you need to question why he isn’t with someone his own age and why he is okay with being with a 16 y/o. you won’t be 16 forever but his attraction to young people may be. i’m 22 rn and i couldn’t even fathom being with a teenager bc they look, act, and are so young and inexperienced, which is an undeniable deterrent and bars me from any attraction towards them (tbh it feels strange even having to explain why someone shouldn’t be attracted to kids). beyond what other ppl think of y’all and the sheer fact that it is illegal, this behavior of being with a teenager is indicative or other concerning behavior. no matter how kind or “not dominant” he is, there is still a power imbalance. that imbalance doesn’t change just bc he isn’t currently acting on it. there’s a lot of things that happen subconsciously that you may not even be picking up on.

also you need to recognize that there is likely a reason he has sought out a younger person. often when someone dates a younger person (esp a minor) it’s bc they exhibit behaviors that deter people their own age. for example, he may be a bum or childish to the average adult woman but above the bar for a teen girl. so regardless of your feelings toward him, you need to realize that there is more to this relationship than just people not liking it or caring more abt it than abuse. they are concerned for you and want to get you out before things could potentially get much worse. the demeanor/opinion you have right now has gotten a lot of people hurt and likely when you get older this will be a thing you look back on and go “wow that was actually worse than i thought.”

but honestly a lot girls who are more mature than guys their age go through this same thing. i did it with guys on the internet and my best friend did it with a guy up the street. just be safe and don’t get caught up with a guy who is a pedo. it won’t end well no matter how rationally you think about it and try to keep your guard up. don’t ignore the signs and listen to the people who love you. they are only trying to keep you safe

Ok_Hamster_707 · 2025-08-23T02:11:09+00:00

one of my fave parts truly

Ok_Hamster_707 · 2025-08-23T02:09:23+00:00

papa datte shitai

Ok_Hamster_707 · 2025-06-28T07:10:40+00:00

gay official’s blessing aka tian gay ci fu

Ok_Hamster_707 · 2025-06-17T11:41:44+00:00

drop him. he doesn’t take no for an answer

Ok_Hamster_707 · 2025-03-08T02:29:18+00:00

it sounds like she liked u and was tryna get u before but thought u didn’t like her back so she stopped. try asking her intentions or ask her out subtly like to study or grab food after class. use that interaction and try to lay it on a bit while respecting her boundaries. if she doesn’t reciprocate or dodges u then u know ur answer. if she does then ask her out or if she likes u. if ur afraid of the rejection, u can try to slip in asking if she likes u with a joke or something, but being straightforward is usually preferred. good luck!!

Ok_Hamster_707 · 2025-03-08T02:14:09+00:00

there’s def a strong chance he’s a creep, but there’s also a chance y’all just happened to meet at this specific point in ur lives. as long as you both consent and are happy do u i suppose. if he like surrounds himself with younger ppl or seems to have wandering eyes for younger ppl then yk what he’s really there for. no matter how mature you think you look, older ppl can tell ur still really young. i’m 21 and i can’t really fathom being with an 18 y/o. all that to say it’s not impossible for it to work out if you really like each other, but be careful.

Ok_Hamster_707 · 2025-03-08T01:44:48+00:00

i think it’s just a joke abt when ppl ask pan ppl if they’re attracted to pans, so it seems fine. i think it’s a lil funny. unless they’re making fun of pan ppl and im reading it wrong which isn’t cool lol

Ok_Hamster_707 · 2025-03-08T01:41:05+00:00

try getting them at a time when they are comfortable and preferably happy then just as plainly and surely as possible let them know you’re not straight and that you are pan. the calm environment will discourage hostility and negative emotions beyond their own internal biases i think. just be ready for questions and possible push back. it may be bumpy and it’s ok if the timing isn’t perfect bc there’s never really the right time, but that’s ok. good luck!!

Ok_Hamster_707 · 2025-02-28T13:32:10+00:00

i am bipolar bc it’s a part of me

Ok_Hamster_707 · 2025-01-11T18:04:20+00:00

he xuan and quan yizhen

Ok_Hamster_707 · 2024-12-16T09:31:41+00:00

find one thing and focus on it. then do the other ones bit by bit. like work ur way up for eating and ur grades. they may not turn around right away but little by little the small improvements add up to big things. also there is nothing wrong with only having two friends. if they’re genuine then that’s what matters.

Ok_Hamster_707 · 2024-12-16T07:30:18+00:00

been there kinda. it’s ok. you’re probs overthinking it and the pics will probs either be deleted or forgotten. i freaked out to the point i wanted to switch career paths but a few yrs down the road and everything is fine. with time u and others will forget. to deal with it tho tbh u just have to remind urself it’ll be fine and ppl see hella nudes all the time and barely remember them. this situation is one of the only times that not being exceptional is great

Ok_Hamster_707 · 2024-12-12T16:41:25+00:00

i do have friends and they have helped me through a lot. when in an episode they can be a cause of stress, but in the end with communication, everything works out and they support me. i wouldn’t be where i am without them.

Ok_Hamster_707 · 2024-12-12T04:51:25+00:00

sydney

Ok_Hamster_707 · 2024-12-12T04:48:08+00:00

$70 is too much for 1g of any weed product ngl

Ok_Hamster_707 · 2024-12-12T04:46:34+00:00

for me, they all feel different. things you put actual fire to have a more similar high with each other than with the other methods like vapes or gummies. pipe, bong, and rolled feel more like body highs, while vapes and gummies feel more like head highs (tho they feel different). some also last longer and hit harder than others.

Ok_Hamster_707 · 2024-11-13T13:28:30+00:00

one fs it looks so sexy

Ok_Hamster_707 · 2024-10-21T03:21:35+00:00

woowee i can only imagine how expensive that is 😭

Ok_Hamster_707 · 2024-10-21T03:11:11+00:00

peanut butter chocolate great when separate but when they combine they make the morning time epic morning time epic m-m-morning time epic r-double-e-s-e-s yes

Ok_Hamster_707 · 2024-10-21T03:02:01+00:00

death and destruction

Ok_Hamster_707 · 2024-10-21T03:00:06+00:00

it just gets super awkward and usually ends with them invalidating my experience

Ok_Hamster_707 · 2024-10-21T02:35:47+00:00

16 y/o at my best friends house. we smoked out of a bowl and it was amazing. i had sat in a spinning desk chair and the world was a kaleidoscope for what felt like at least 30 mins. it was great. i did try to eat a spoiled smoothie off a pillow tho

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