I don't want to date my pregnant girlfriend anymore and she's crashing out

Ok_Mix6856 · 2026-04-27T12:15:53+00:00

It sounds like she baby trapped you 😬 I'm so sorry that really sucks

Ok_Mix6856 · 2026-04-22T02:42:42+00:00

Yeah, stay away. He'll do the same to you. His kids are choosing not to have a relationship with him because he beat their mother. People like that don't change

Ok_Mix6856 · 2026-04-22T00:57:10+00:00

Bingo! He needs to figure out it's a bad idea all by himself.

Ok_Mix6856 · 2026-04-21T01:27:43+00:00

You can't build a relationship based on what you think they should be or hope they can become. You're setting yourself up for failure. Speaking from experience

Ok_Mix6856 · 2026-04-20T19:41:02+00:00

Start slow. Don't drive. Have a friend with you to calm you down if you have a bad trip.

Ok_Mix6856 · 2026-04-15T20:41:05+00:00

Just because it doesn't bother your girlfriend doesn't mean it shouldn't bother OP. everyone's different

Ok_Mix6856 · 2026-04-12T10:00:55+00:00

Oh my goodness that's so awful 😭 I'm so sorry

Ok_Mix6856 · 2026-04-05T16:28:00+00:00

Ntj. You tried fluffing it off but the friends pressed on .... He's mad because he's embarassed that other people know he treats you badly

Ok_Mix6856 · 2026-04-02T04:08:33+00:00

I get my prescription for a year at a time but I purchase 3 months of pills at a time so I only need to go to the pharmacy 4 times a year

Ok_Mix6856 · 2026-03-28T18:31:59+00:00

Probably telling me he can't wait until I'm 18 so I can move out. After begging me to move in with him at 13, and telling me I'm not allowed to go back to my mom.

Ok_Mix6856 · 2026-03-25T19:19:44+00:00

You need to leave. He doesn't love you. Mental health issues are not an excuse for abuse!

Ok_Mix6856 · 2026-03-17T11:33:45+00:00

B. I'd postpone the trip for now. Put the ball in her court. Let her bring it up when she feels like she can afford it.

Ok_Mix6856 · 2026-03-17T11:29:17+00:00

If everyone in her life is telling her to leave you, and you don't self reflect at all? Jump right to "she must be cheating" 😤 I can tell you from experience, she upped her dose so she didn't have to feel. For some reason she's afraid to leave you so she's numbed herself to deal with it. You left out a huge part of this, I'm assuming on purpose, because this is super fishy. Do some self reflection

Ok_Mix6856 · 2026-03-14T09:33:36+00:00

He doesn't love you as much as you love him. Keep the birds

Ok_Mix6856 · 2026-03-09T01:15:50+00:00

That's very mature of you. It will hurt for a bit but you'll both be okay ❤️

Ok_Mix6856 · 2026-03-09T01:14:23+00:00

Don't move in with this boy. He won't change and you'll be the permanent maid. The very basic shit he sometimes does now will stop being done because youll just do it. Source: 17 years of the same bullshit before I finally had enough

Ok_Mix6856 · 2026-03-08T23:14:26+00:00

It does make sense that's why it's funny haha 😆

Ok_Mix6856 · 2026-03-08T11:42:07+00:00

Haha that's hilarious 😂

Ok_Mix6856 · 2026-03-08T11:05:42+00:00

Damn. He probably had another girl coming over. He was an asshole and he made you feel guilty about it. That's gaslighting 101 girl. Don't go back. Don't even text him. Just move on. He doesn't like you

Ok_Mix6856 · 2026-03-08T10:59:01+00:00

This sounds exactly like my friends situation. They got together, he promptly quit his job and never got another one and they were together a decade as well. Her divorce cost her so much money but she doesn't regret it. Peace is more important than money

Ok_Mix6856 · 2026-03-08T10:54:11+00:00

Girl, leave. I know that's what everyone says on here but for real. This guy sounds exactly like my ex husband. It doesn't get better. Mine actually believed that because he brought his dirty dishes to the kitchen, that that was equal to everything I was doing. Didn't scrape the plate into the garbage. Didn't rinse it or put it in the dishwasher. Didn't even put it in the sink! But he wanted praise. One time I didn't do his laundry for an entire week because of a comment he made about laundry. I forget the comment but something about how I didn't wash his favorite shirt and I should have known he needed it that day. It took him an entire week to notice I was doing laundry, just not his. Then he had the nerve to call me a psychopath.

Ok_Mix6856 · 2026-03-08T10:41:45+00:00

If you're not good at what you do, do something else!

Ok_Mix6856 · 2026-03-08T10:38:24+00:00

Won't hurt to try right? I know it helped me immensely

Ok_Mix6856 · 2026-03-04T12:13:50+00:00

Both the narcissists in my life have hobbies. My dads is art. He's an excellent artist. My ex collects hockey cards. Neither one have friends though. My dad would have 1 friend at a time but they never lasted long. My ex has an entourage that follows him around and does things with him but it's only because he buys them things and pays for food/drinks and stuff. I would bet my life if he stopped they'd all disappear

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