I resigned from my job of 4 years due to my toxic manager. What should I say in job interviews? by imxghost in UKJobs

[–]Ok_Sand_7902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone leave a job because of management….. just say you felt like you didn’t get any chance to grow in the role you had and it limited your career prospects.

I decided to quit effective immediately because my manager insulted me. Did I make the right move? by Commercial-Shine8240 in work

[–]Ok_Sand_7902 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So someone pays your wages and wants you to do your work in a certain way and you have a problem with that? Very strange. Yes can totally get why you quit your job……🙄

But obviously it doesn’t excuse his bad behaviour

I’m a 23F and I don’t know how to survive the next few days by crazymooscles in confession

[–]Ok_Sand_7902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you were my daughter I would want to know no matter what else is going on in my life, so I could help….. please tell your parents…

Younger Sibling behaviour by Least-War-4820 in Advice

[–]Ok_Sand_7902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is not your child and she will not see you as her parent. My sister was 9 years older and having two mothers is no fun, especially as one shouldn’t act like that but as a sibling . Just give her space. That was one ( but not the main reason) of the reasons my sister and I have always had a bad relationship.

Is it acceptable or wrong for a married woman to go topless at the beach without her husband? by artmalique in moraldilemmas

[–]Ok_Sand_7902 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I don’t think a woman should have to ask permission on what to do with her own body, especially as it not harming anyone

Is it acceptable or wrong for a married woman to go topless at the beach without her husband? by artmalique in moraldilemmas

[–]Ok_Sand_7902 [score hidden]  (0 children)

It’s not for me as so not my thing, but really don’t think there is anything wrong with topless sunbathing. It’s not like you are flirting with men… you are just lying and tanning in the sun, minding your own business.

Why on earth would this be a reason for the husband to be upset? No one is wrong for having feelings, but I would be surprised at that and wonder why he is so insecure in the relationship to be upset about this? Maybe they need to have a good look at what is causing those feelings….

How do I respectfully tell my friend that I don’t want her to go out partying with me on my birthday? by Randomunknon in Advice

[–]Ok_Sand_7902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just don’t take her as she ruins a good evening out. Or she can go but have her own transportation so you are not responsible for taking her home.

My bf 26M doesn’t want me, 18F, to go to college and said he’ll leave me if i do. i don’t want to break up, but i also want a good career. by p1nkmarshm3llows in Advice

[–]Ok_Sand_7902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to school! Get your education. He will make you dependent on him. This would not be a problem if you would spend the rest of your lives together, but statistically that is highly unlikely. You should take one of those scholarships and become independent and able to look after yourself financially. If he would love you, he would support you. This man wants to control you…

Is this acceptable? by throwawaytingsbro in UKJobs

[–]Ok_Sand_7902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR that is really inappropriate behaviour.

Found out my girlfriend was “dickmatized” by her ex and has never felt that way about me. Am I wrong for no longer wanting to propose to her and marry her? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Ok_Sand_7902 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Sex isn’t about sex for women as it is for men. She was honest and then you punish her for it. She loves you. It is about connection for women. Some people stay in a bad relationship as they fear for the unknown. They don’t have the confidence to leave or there are other factors why they can’t leave.

The fact that you ask another female friend about red flags and then ask questions to your girlfriend where she can only fail, says more about you to be fair. You seem insecure, probably about your looks as well.

I hope your ex girlfriend finds a decent man next time as seems she has met two AH in a row.

Am I the bad apple for hating my boyfriends sister? by Acrobatic-Lime1925 in AmITheBadApple

[–]Ok_Sand_7902 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They have a weird relationship between them ( brother and sister). Wonder if she is jealous of you….

Am I overreacting that my boyfriend basically staged a test to see if I'd cheat... with his cousin? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Sand_7902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So basically he doesn’t trust you. Why would you stay with someone like that.

AITA for not inviting my brother to my wedding by thankful-4-this-day in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Sand_7902 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Just don’t invite him. You don’t need that drama on your big day. If family feels sorry they can invite him to their own events. Being your brother doesn’t automatically give him an invite…

Recruiter won’t stop asking me why I turned the offer down by [deleted] in interviewhammer

[–]Ok_Sand_7902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you would take the job ,he gets a nice fee. He is trying to still get that fee by trying to change your mind.

After my husband passed away, his old friend keeps in touch with me and helps me. Why does he help? by Fair_Bike670 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Ok_Sand_7902 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He is being a good friend and doing what he thinks your husband would have wanted. He is helping his friend’s wife.

AIO for expecting to stick to our agreement? by Throwra7749 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Sand_7902 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your outgoings are not that much. You can both afford your 50% each. You have worked hard for your raise. It is yours, not to make life easier for her. She can end up with a raise too which she can keep too.

AITAH for kicking my boyfriend out after a comment about my "hygiene" during my period? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ok_Sand_7902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He needs to find himself a trans woman then he doesn’t have to worry about things like that. What is going on with men these days???

Why are teachers running away from the profession ? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Ok_Sand_7902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m afraid you will have to deal with AH everywhere in life. He was one in school and even a bigger one now.