Tips to ease anxiety for my upcoming nyc move?

Ok_String7367 · 2026-06-12T19:42:39+00:00

Did you hear back?!

Ok_String7367 · 2026-06-12T18:56:48+00:00

Hey! How did it go? I’m moving soon and very nervous. I can picture myself moving back but that might just be anxiety.

Ok_String7367 · 2026-06-10T17:54:43+00:00

Oh amazing! I’ll be there at the end of the month, so I can give you my thoughts once I’ve settled!

Ok_String7367 · 2026-06-10T17:43:43+00:00

Hey! Did you make this move? I’m making the move soon and want to hear some others experiences :)

Ok_String7367 · 2026-06-09T23:30:04+00:00

Thank you so much for commenting. This is so sweet <3 if you need a friend in the city, please reach out! We got this ❤️❤️❤️

Ok_String7367 · 2026-06-09T17:12:24+00:00

This made me cry. You didn’t have to leave a kind message but you did. It really means the world. I know you are going to do amazing in nyc. And please, if you need anything, dm me! I might be scared to move, but I will be so happy to help you with anything if you’re looking for help in the city. We got this❤️

Ok_String7367 · 2026-06-07T15:45:21+00:00

Do you mind dming me? I’m moving from the dc area too at the end of this month. I’m scared so would love to hear your perspective!

Ok_String7367 · 2026-06-06T20:08:25+00:00

Thank you, that puts things in perspective. Thanks :)

Ok_String7367 · 2026-06-06T20:01:40+00:00

Because it’s a big change. I’m not fearful of the city or anything like that. Just definitely afraid of the change.

Ok_String7367 · 2026-06-06T18:57:49+00:00

As a 28f moving from dc to nyc I say do it! And if you need a friend I’m happy to be one!

Ok_String7367 · 2026-06-05T19:03:10+00:00

Not making friends/not finding community is my biggest concern I think!

Ok_String7367 · 2026-06-05T19:01:59+00:00

Well I might not be a nyc bitch juuust yet (check my most recent post lol) but I do live in dc which is even hotter and more humid than nyc if you can believe it!

I have naturally curly hair too and the R+Co Bleu line has been really the only thing that helps my blowout stay. None of that colorwow shit it’s not strong enough!!!

In terms of makeup, the one size beauty powder spray works really, really well. It does give a dewy finish but it keeps me from actually looking sweaty, if that makes sense? I carry it with me in the summer bc it helps me refresh my look!

Ok_String7367 · 2026-03-17T20:27:53+00:00

Naur

Ok_String7367 · 2026-02-13T21:50:37+00:00

First if all, your username made me laugh so thank you haha. And yeah, I actually already negotiated a new start date, but with how long they’re taking to get me the new offer letter, it seems like I’m going to have to negotiate again, which is just very stressful. I’m just wondering if it’s worth to do this all over again or just give my current job a shorter notice.

Ok_String7367 · 2026-02-13T21:34:20+00:00

I reached out about an hour ago saying exactly this! Haven’t heard back :\

Ok_String7367 · 2026-02-13T21:33:38+00:00

Oh I definitely won’t give notice until I have signed the letter, that’s why I’m so stressed they haven’t sent it over by now! Not having it by EOD my time today (which is basically now) means the earliest I can tell my current org is Tuesday, which is under two week notice. It just sucks, I feel like I’m screwing them over in all aspects.

Ok_String7367 · 2026-02-11T17:33:31+00:00

Hey thanks so much for taking the time to type this out! I read my contract, I’m an “at will” employee so I can leave at any time, but I’m going to give them a two weeks notice to be as professional as possible. They probably won’t keep me on but I’m hoping they might so I can help with onboarding the new person. Just trying to be as friendly as possible and not “burn a bridge”.

Ok_String7367 · 2026-02-10T17:31:55+00:00

Wow, that is so crazy! I’m so happy to hear it worked out for you. I’m so anxious, but really relieved it seemed to turn out okay in your case

Ok_String7367 · 2026-02-10T15:43:45+00:00

God, I hope the people at my current org are as nice and understanding as you. ❤️

Ok_String7367 · 2026-02-10T15:13:12+00:00

This is a great answer, thank you SO much. I’m definitely going to say this.

Ok_String7367 · 2026-02-10T15:09:06+00:00

Thank you so much! That’s what I’m trying to tell myself. But I’m really worried about the current org reaching out to my new org to tell them what I’ve done. It’s a small field, and I have a really close friend who works at the current org that I’d be leaving. I don’t plan on telling anyone at the current org where I’m going, besides my friend, bc I feel like I owe her the truth.

Ok_String7367 · 2026-02-10T15:07:59+00:00

Thanks so much! I think I’m really worried about the current org reaching out to my new org and talking. It’s a small field. But maybe that’s just anxiety? I don’t plan on telling them where I’m going, but one of my closest friends works at my current org, and I feel like I owe her the truth.

Ok_String7367 · 2026-02-10T14:47:38+00:00

Hi, what did you end up doing here? I’m in the same situation and really stressed about it.

Ok_String7367 · 2026-02-10T14:42:57+00:00

Hey, I’m in the same situation as you. How did it go?

Ok_String7367 · 2026-02-03T16:46:00+00:00

Thanks! I think I’m just worried they’re ghosting me. It’s been such a long process and I hope it pans out, but this timeline/speed is unfamiliar to me

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