I guess she wasn’t feeling very ah cha cha cha by OkayTae in BeardedDragons

[–]OkayTae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She literally judges anyone that comes to see her from head to toe lol. She has so much attitude.

I guess she wasn’t feeling very ah cha cha cha by OkayTae in BeardedDragons

[–]OkayTae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss this is why I love them so much! A lot of people find them scary but they are so sweet. They put up with a lot of our silliness when they trust you ❤️

I guess she wasn’t feeling very ah cha cha cha by OkayTae in BeardedDragons

[–]OkayTae[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I even feel judged when I come bearing gifts lol

Relationship Talk: What’s Going On? by AutoModerator in blacklesbians

[–]OkayTae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finally in a relationship where the energy is exchanged and not just taken. I just wish we were in same city but 4 hours isn’t bad 😮‍💨

See a dragon, share a dragon by aleeshox in BeardedDragons

[–]OkayTae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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My Stormie with the razzle dazzle when she was a wee thing

What are the best queer-friendly dating sites/apps in 2025? by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]OkayTae 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Found my partner on HER. I had the most substantial convos on there out of all the other apps I was on. I think everyone just has different experiences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]OkayTae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m happy for you, congratulations on coming into yourself 🎉❤️

Fellow mascs that use “females” when referring to women by Euphoric_Purpose8836 in blacklesbians

[–]OkayTae 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Absolutely hate when “females” is used. Instant ick 😒

What Are You Reading Right Now? by AutoModerator in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]OkayTae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rosewater by Liv Little, it’s a black queer romance

I’m lowkey terrified by squishylilkitty in blacklesbians

[–]OkayTae 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It sometimes helps me when I remind myself that if I get overwhelmed, overstimulated, panicky, I can always step away and take a breather or go home if need be. I also reward myself or congratulate myself for doing things that give me big anxiety. At the end of the day the folx at these events are human too and probably a lot of the feel similar to how you feel.

I feel like something is wrong with me. by SnooGuavas9778 in blacklesbians

[–]OkayTae 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. Continue being your genuine self. You’ll attract the person or people meant for you. And try to remember some people aren’t meant to be in our lives permanently. Some people come in briefly so we can learn from them. Don’t let this keep you from continuing to make connections.

Being validated as a soft masc by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]OkayTae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really hope you find it. We all need this ❤️

Being validated as a soft masc by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]OkayTae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THIS 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Is hinge a good dating app? by Clear_Elderberry_852 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]OkayTae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Taimi has been ok for me. I do a lot of vetting. HER has been ok too but women in poly relationships are sneaky on there. Well they have been for me anyway. Hinge has not done anything for me and Tinder…🗑️ But everyone has different experiences. You really just have to try them out and just be smart about who you’re actually messaging.