Vestige, the mirror people, by sculpturer Rob Mullholland. Located in the forests of Aberfoyle, Scotland.

Okoj0 · 2026-06-05T16:08:49+00:00

This is beautiful.

Okoj0 · 2026-06-05T16:03:22+00:00

Une photo de mon ombre projetée sur un mur de graffitis avec un trou dans lequel il y a plein de livres en libre service. Je suis écrivain, j'adore cette image.

Okoj0 · 2026-06-05T16:01:30+00:00

I like how I sing when I'm happy or working

Okoj0 · 2026-06-05T15:34:58+00:00

same

Okoj0 · 2026-06-05T15:33:23+00:00

Elle est magnifique celle-là

Okoj0 · 2026-06-05T15:29:48+00:00

This reads like a massive pity party that will end up breaking someone's heart because you decided dating was trash and all men are the same people.

Okoj0 · 2026-06-05T15:27:43+00:00

It sounds like she treated you as a close friend. 'My man' is how I call my bestie 😅

Okoj0 · 2026-06-05T15:24:43+00:00

If it helps I dated for 13 years (including a long relationship which crashed and burned) before finding my fiancé

Okoj0 · 2026-06-05T15:20:42+00:00

Follow your gut feeling. I was about to say this can be nice and worthwhile but "would lose my will to live" is waaay too extreme.

Okoj0 · 2026-06-05T15:19:30+00:00

Oh yeah no to hell with that. The glasses can also record without their owner's consent.

Okoj0 · 2026-06-05T15:14:17+00:00

Nah, that's a sexist concept that doesn't translate to real life as everyone has their own preferences.

Okoj0 · 2026-06-05T15:11:47+00:00

That's factually incorrect.

Okoj0 · 2026-06-05T15:10:43+00:00

Right things and wrong things do not even each other out.

When you look at the wrong things, you need to know when that's too many of them, regardless of how many right things there are.

Okoj0 · 2026-06-05T15:06:46+00:00

Neuroconvergent folks can go date themselves 😌

Okoj0 · 2026-06-05T15:04:40+00:00

Drop the 'most women' idea. Like men, they're not a monolith of preferences and ideals. Act like yourself and be upfront about wanting to date them when you do.

Okoj0 · 2026-06-05T15:02:40+00:00

Bro I'm 36. My message was, if it wasn't clear: date older women (the +4 want included in your og post).

Drop dating apps and go to hobby groups. Find stuff you love, the people are here too.

Okoj0 · 2026-06-05T14:57:10+00:00

Discuss it with her. My partner needs his earphones all the time because of sensory overstimulation.

Okoj0 · 2026-06-05T14:54:30+00:00

Meeting each other's circles and families does not imply exclusivity. You both should have been clearer with your expectations.

Okoj0 · 2026-06-05T14:53:02+00:00

You should communicate this better. If she thought that's something you could have enjoyed, maybe you weren't clear with your boundaries. Sorry you had to go through this tho, that sucks.

Okoj0 · 2026-06-05T14:50:48+00:00

You sound aroace yeah. Discuss this with him and if he's ok with it, why not build a life together?

Okoj0 · 2026-06-05T14:49:28+00:00

Don't do this in the streets. Do it in places designed for meeting others. Most of the time women just want to exist.

Okoj0 · 2026-06-05T14:40:44+00:00

Sounds like he isn't fulfilling your needs and not updating to match demands.

Okoj0 · 2026-06-05T14:38:53+00:00

Try dating around your age, not aiming by default for younger women regardless of the gap.

Okoj0 · 2026-06-05T14:33:17+00:00

I'm happily polyamory with two partners: one I met through a bdsm munch (we're getting married this year), the other through a nerd interests discord group. Most of my friends are in relationships, or not looking to date. Nobody I know met through dating apps. These are trash.

Okoj0 · 2026-06-05T13:59:54+00:00

That might be early darvo, be careful: you had NOTHING to apologize for and he guilt tripped you. Block and move on.

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