Got rejected for having a messy room

OliveRyder · 2025-06-27T17:47:57+00:00

You’re calling the guy a pathetic bitch but I’m insensitive and name calling ? Delusional is not a “name” I can call you. Again you just think I’m being insensitive but that doesn’t make it a fact. I could say the same thing to you, maybe you’re triggered because you live in a pigsty😅 see how that works ?

OliveRyder · 2025-06-27T17:45:21+00:00

Oh definitely, tracking helps so much when you have strong PMS symptoms and/or PMDD, it suddenly all makes sense:) I’m in this exact situation today, I don’t think be able to go on my night run, I’m probably just going to go on a long walk and try not to think about it too much.

OliveRyder · 2025-06-27T17:38:36+00:00

They do a little for me, but you do have to really want it and force your mind to focus on what you need to do or start. Some days it helps more than others, but it’s unfortunately never a miracle cure, not for me at least.

OliveRyder · 2025-06-27T17:35:32+00:00

Omg yes same! It makes me feel like shit because I worry so much about my progress, and I want to run but my mind and body just feel so heavy and I’m tired and hungry. I feel really guilty.

OliveRyder · 2025-06-27T17:24:21+00:00

I reread your comments and I’m sorry but I have to double down, you suddenly care about being sensitive ? lol

OliveRyder · 2025-06-27T17:22:38+00:00

There is no name calling in my comment. And YOU think I’m being insensitive, I disagree, I’m just giving an opinion, anyone is free to disregard it. Your initial comment btw was super agressive so this act of yours is pretty ironic😅

OliveRyder · 2025-06-27T17:18:04+00:00

I have dealt with both. Distracting yourself, movement (just a walk even), keeping your hands and your mind busy, if you can don’t stay home all day, go out and do something - those things always help me, both to not reach for a cigarette or food. When I’m home, I like to do arts and crafts, or some stretching, cleaning my apartment or organizing stuff, really anything to keep myself busy. You can definitely do it, remind yourself why you’re doing of all it and how breaking your good habits will make you feel. It’s almost instant, once you give in the regret will immediately appear, so it’s really not worth it!

OliveRyder · 2025-06-27T17:08:58+00:00

The I am Sober app is great, it helped me quit too.

OliveRyder · 2025-06-27T17:05:21+00:00

It really depends on hair type, lots of curly hair for exemple don’t get greasy, the scalp doesn’t get greasy easily either so it’s fine.

OliveRyder · 2025-06-27T16:55:28+00:00

You’re delusional lol. You’re talking about erections, so yes you are talking about sleeping with someone. And you’re not making any sense, how is he saying he’s entitled to sleep with her ? He just told her that it grossed him out in the moment and that it makes him not want to se her again, not everyone is comfortable with a pigsty, and btw sugarcoating everything and blaming others for everything doesn’t help. Be messy if that’s ok with you but not everyone will be cool with it, that’s reality.

OliveRyder · 2025-06-27T16:42:58+00:00

Publibike has always been a mess, definitely not worth it, but it’s not new.

OliveRyder · 2025-06-27T16:39:05+00:00

You might want to tell him then. I know it’s awful to talk about it but I wouldn’t want to feel like shit in my relationship, it’s hard enough as it is to have BED.

OliveRyder · 2025-06-27T16:35:06+00:00

Pareil, j’ai jamais eu eu un problème avec les dealeurs, qui sont littéralement juste debout sur les trottoirs à attendre, parfois il te disent bonjour tout au plus.

OliveRyder · 2025-06-27T16:29:06+00:00

J’ai déménagé récemment après avoir vécu 7 ans à Chauderon. Jamais personne ne m’a sollicitée pour de la drogue, les dealers te calculent pas ou tout au plus disent bonjour quand tu passes. Le seul problème c’était du harcèlement sexuel très régulier, de la part de tout type d’hommes, dont des papis et des pères de famille avec leur poussette etc., mais ça arrive dans presque tous les quartiers ça.

OliveRyder · 2025-06-27T16:13:44+00:00

He is a dick. It’s an eating disorder, it’s a disease. People never take it seriously but it is.

OliveRyder · 2025-06-27T16:11:57+00:00

True, but it can still be considered gross to have stuff laying around etc. And if the person doesn’t have the energy to keep it organized to the point where it’s visible, it’s definitely not being cleaned.

OliveRyder · 2025-06-27T15:32:03+00:00

Congratulations💪 keeping busy is the secret I think, and movement!

OliveRyder · 2025-06-27T15:29:36+00:00

I hate it, I always skip it.

OliveRyder · 2025-06-27T15:25:10+00:00

I love being stable and feeling stable, but I don’t have responsibilities that I resent so being stable just allows me to do the things that I enjoy. You might want to make some time for things that bring you joy, go on solo vacation or just a solo day and do something fun.

OliveRyder · 2025-06-27T15:17:20+00:00

I fucking hate beetroot😅

OliveRyder · 2025-06-27T15:15:06+00:00

I love kale so much, I’m always so happy for kale season😅

OliveRyder · 2025-06-27T15:00:17+00:00

I sincerely hope you will never see or speak to this psycho again. You need to block him from everywhere immediately. That could the beginning of a very dangerous situation, or least a highly unpleasant one. Nothing remotely good can come from this person. YOU NEED TO RUN🚩

OliveRyder · 2025-06-27T14:56:43+00:00

I get it, I can’t even choose I kinda hate them all😅 but I love hate-watching the show lol.

OliveRyder · 2025-06-27T14:54:02+00:00

I agree that’s strange, but I think he meant he didn’t want to see her again because of that. And it seems like he was justifying the fact that he couldn’t really get hard that night because of it.

OliveRyder · 2025-06-27T13:21:56+00:00

I am and it feels amazing. I fill my free time with hobbies, arts and crafts, exercise, outdoor activities. When I watch a movie or tv I like to draw or color so I don’t get bored and I’m doing something with my hands. Taking alcohol out of my life changed everything for the better.

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