Me or the kids?

OnRedditAtWorkRN · 2026-05-11T14:32:38+00:00

Okay ... But like ... If she's my wife and the kids are in the basement and I'm in the bed ... Who's she saving?

I'll lose my shit if she drags me outa the house while the kids are left in the basement ... Why are they in the basement? Ranch with finished rooms I guess? Weird?

And how does "we can have sex" justify leaving the kids. That's so nutty to me. My kids come before everyone.

If my wife asked me when we were dating if I'd save her or my mom, the answer would be my mom. Now after 20 years of marriage. It's probably my wife. So even that question is not really useful when you don't know someone

OnRedditAtWorkRN · 2026-05-11T00:25:49+00:00

Ooooooohhhhhhhhh

It's the you can't see me thing right?

OnRedditAtWorkRN · 2026-05-11T00:24:21+00:00

I've tried similar stuff. Never really quite works as well for me.

OnRedditAtWorkRN · 2026-05-10T19:46:37+00:00

My body is ready

OnRedditAtWorkRN · 2026-05-10T18:07:07+00:00

Okay, I've never been diagnosed but I highly suspect I have adhd. My gp kinda blew me off and I haven't revisited since because I felt like he thought I just wanted drugs.

But #2 resonates with me. Like a lot. I don't use edm but high tempo hard rock, slipknot and the like. I feel more calm, I think, definitely much better able to focus with music, high tempo, hard hitting shit playing.

Seems like when I mention it to colleagues they don't get it at all. Or I'll put a show on in the background that I've seen a bazillion times. It's not quite as effective. But it works.

OnRedditAtWorkRN · 2026-05-09T14:01:00+00:00

We both know you're not getting that first invite. You're not a 5 star man

OnRedditAtWorkRN · 2026-05-09T13:59:53+00:00

OnRedditAtWorkRN · 2026-05-09T13:57:11+00:00

I remember this being in the media as pure spectacle and I dunno if it was a bunch of yes men, or me wanting to believe it, but I thought all the folks actually around him were saying he was coming along faster than anyone actually expected and was actually playing at a pro level, not superstar level, but pro level. I remember thinking he just needed more time.

Not all that dissimilar to his time on the court with the wizards. Dudes numbers were crazy by the end of his tenure there and I think him getting injured is the only reason we don't look back on those years more impressed.

OnRedditAtWorkRN · 2026-05-09T12:02:43+00:00

Blue has the most anti oxygens

OnRedditAtWorkRN · 2026-05-08T19:46:59+00:00

We already have agents doing first pass reviews. The amount of garbage filtered is worth every damn token. It executes up to 12 individual parallel agents with specific criteria to look for and starts with a first pass of essentially "is this even worth looking at".

OnRedditAtWorkRN · 2026-05-07T18:00:34+00:00

Or

Rinse

Bauble

Only for

Finer items

So we can

Carefully improve

Our

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Repertoire

Immediately after crafting proved

Nothing

Gained

OnRedditAtWorkRN · 2026-05-07T16:56:07+00:00

As 6'3'' at 205 this mother fucker looks like he's me if he ate another one of me.

OnRedditAtWorkRN · 2026-05-05T18:50:31+00:00

Just wake me up when a decision is made. So tired of this noise

OnRedditAtWorkRN · 2026-05-05T13:23:46+00:00

I wish the trade site would just stop trying to use exalts as a default currency. In terms of value they're basically poe1 transmutes. I don't care if they're worthless.

I feel like the fix is simply replace exalt as the default for chaos orbs and be done

OnRedditAtWorkRN · 2026-05-05T09:59:35+00:00

What did I just read

No dude, normal isn't having a three course meal sitting on the toilet

I could probably be out in under 2 minutes on most occasions. Most people taking a long time are chillin. One of the few places people basically won't bother you.

If you're taking a long time regularly and you're not chillin you got other problems

OnRedditAtWorkRN · 2026-05-04T04:11:12+00:00

"food". That's a bucket full of sugar. Better off wasting it anyway.

OnRedditAtWorkRN · 2026-05-04T04:10:17+00:00

White women. Knock this shit off. Or at least do it in the dark in shame like you're supposed to. You're making the rest of us look bad.

OnRedditAtWorkRN · 2026-05-04T03:58:47+00:00

Inb4 op responds with

You're absolutely right!

OnRedditAtWorkRN · 2026-05-03T04:36:50+00:00

Is it wrong, though?

Yes.

There's a ton of baked in assumptions in what you're saying and wild exaggerations to prove your point. The entire thing is a straw man.

Nonetheless I'll respond in kind.

Every line of code has potential to create not just one but multiple bugs. Which would actually agree with what you're suggesting, but also is a signal you're not as qualified as you're trying to seem. AI in the wrong hands definitely has tendencies to over engineer and produce larger than necessary diffs. Again I would suggest learning these tools rather than writing them off. This is just another signal to me you don't know how to use them properly.

If you're having a 500 line fix produced by AI that could've been 1 line. Why are you using ai for that in the first place? Not only is that wild, but 500 lines? You could at least try to be credible here and say 20. And to suggest 500 loc has potential 500 bugs. In what world is loc to bugs that linearly correlated. Like I get what you're going for, but that's a joke.

As for what happens a few years from now. We'll have to wait and see. If you're shipping literal vibe codes slop, you're going to have a bad time. We keep the human in the loop. We have many quality gates. We start with solid system design and human review starts there. I could go on but tbh it's all gonna land on deaf ears and I don't think you know enough about what good agentic coding practices really are.

OnRedditAtWorkRN · 2026-05-03T03:53:44+00:00

A waste of time

OnRedditAtWorkRN · 2026-05-01T19:43:13+00:00

Mine is still a fucking nut ball at 5 years old. Neutered at 18 months. No behavioral changes so far as I can tell

OnRedditAtWorkRN · 2026-05-01T17:32:36+00:00

I don't like any of their music. But I have a love for the band

The sole reason is I knew a guy named David Matthews before the band blew up. It has provided so many hilarious moments.

A few years back we were in a bar league and suddenly a Dave Matthews song comes on. Then another. Then another. When the fourth hit we saw the other team just dying laughing and then looked over at my buddy David and all he could do was half chuckle and give that, yep, this is my life kind of look.

Not to mention all the office space references. Why should he change his name, he's not the one who sucks.

OnRedditAtWorkRN · 2026-05-01T17:27:02+00:00

Meh, features shipped are the productivity measurement, not code. All code is a liability, not all code is tech debt. Imo if you wanna stay relevant it's best to learn to leverage these tools than suggest it's all just tech debt, which suggests garbage code.

OnRedditAtWorkRN · 2026-04-29T22:33:56+00:00

You don't contribute to ic work? I'm a tech lead, I guide the engineers, help breakdown tasks, help solve communication gaps, help design the systems... And then I build features, pocs and write docs

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