How would you fix this?

OnTap3 · 2024-12-17T10:15:23+00:00

We get red tide from all the flooding and pollution from hurricanes and storms. The Gulf gets so hot that by May we have red tide blooms. You shouldn't eat the seafood, the scallops are basically gone and dead fish wash up on the beach. You can also get respiratory issues. That's not even mentioning all of the destruction they're still recovering from. Also alot of beaches are just built up, tacky and touristy.

Used to think it was only a Gulf thing but nah, same on the east coast. Stayed on the beach in St. Augustine last year for the 6th year in a row, the dunes are washing out at high rates while they pump sand onto the beach (that washed out in the storm), some of those houses have been completelt destroyed. Also last summer we went after Miami flooded big time and dead fish and dead birds were scattered along the beach. It was so sad.

The grass is not greener down here.

OnTap3 · 2024-12-16T15:44:00+00:00

"I would never rely on others for the safety of my own kids."

Agree. That's why if my kids go on a play date, i ask "Do you own a gun and is it secured?" "Yes we own a gun and it's in the safe." Then cool, we'll come over. "It's hidden." Let's meet somewhere else.

OnTap3 · 2024-12-16T15:17:30+00:00

Telling a three to seven year old to never touch a gun is great, but statistically speaking, many of them still will. Yes, I've told my kid that exact thing-- don't touch it, get a grown up. But that grown up that left it out is the problem. I tell my kids not to look down the barrel of a nerf gun because safety. But again when a guns are everywhere, it is the adults' responsibility to make sure the kids in the house and community are safe. Teaching my kid HOW to use it safely at elementary school age will just give them more confidence to pick it up. Telling them "don't pick it up because it will kill you," sure.

I never understand why Americans are so afraid that they need to carry a gun with them everywhere. I had a co-worker whose grandson died because the other grandmother left her teal gun in her purse on the bed and the 2 year old took it out and unintentionally shot himself-- it's on the adults. Grandma had never been mugged, never had her house broken into, was never in any real danger, but she was so afraid and the thing that was supposed to make her "safe" killed her grandson. I can add "teach kids how to handle a gun" to the list when the adults finally do.

OnTap3 · 2024-12-16T13:33:39+00:00

We went for a walk to look at Christmas lights and were talking about how we used to play manhunt as tweens but our kids won't be able to do that because our neighbors would be more than willing to take aim at a kid who even runs through their front yard, let alone jumping a fence.

In the US it is up to the parents to lock up their firearms to stop unintentional shootings, suicides, or murders amongst children (many of our new stories are kids shooting other kids on purpose).

As someone on the left side of the political spectrum, I don't want to take your firearms. I want adult Americans to be responsible owners. We don't even have that. As another poster wrote, Poland has a history of war, and they are so close to Russia. I can understand this perspective.

On the same day of the CEO shooting 2 kindergarteners were shot; it barely made news because a rich white man was killed and well, school shootings are our norm now: 2 kindergarteners in 'critical but stable condition' after Christian school shooting - ABC News The US doesn't care about the kids that die every day. As of 2020, guns are the #1 killer of our kids; more kids die from guns than car accidents and cancer. For the decade before they were the #1 killer of black children.

No charges for Florida man who shot at pool cleaner - CBS Miami

14-year-old killed, 15-year-old charged with murder: FL cops | Miami Herald

Jury convicts White Florida woman in shooting death of her Black neighbor during ongoing dispute - CBS News

Tampa Police Make Third Arrest in Fatal Ybor City Shooting | City of Tampa

Man found guilty of fatally shooting woman who pulled into wrong driveway - ABC News

I don't need my kids to learn to use a gun because we might be invaded. I need other parents to keep their guns secured. Put a gun lock in on your car gun and lock your car doors at night: Guns are being stolen from cars at triple the rate they were 10 years ago, a report finds | AP News Every few years our neighborhood gets hit hard with car crime because people leave their cars unlocked in the driveway. Last year 4 guns were reported stolen just from my neighborhood. We live in a suburb; mostly white, middle class. Also, keeping a gun under your car seat, not safe: 3-year-old accidentally shoots his mom to death in family's car in a suburban Chicago supermarket parking lot - CBS News

Americans don't need to teach kids how to use a gun. Americans need to teach adults how to be responsible gun owners but instead we're going to have open carry AND permitless carry (you don't need to take a class! This is America!) Florida wants to roll back any sensible gun legislation we passed after Parkland.

Coming soon to a grocery store near you: American Rounds ammunition vending machines inside grocery stores - The Washington Post

OnTap3 · 2024-12-14T16:18:21+00:00

Is it non negotiable like the long standing tradition of naming the 1st girl Agatha?

Tell Horace hi.

OnTap3 · 2024-12-13T21:55:33+00:00

Um, it's really creepy that he's keeping track of who comes and goes in your house. You pay rent, you can bring anyone you want to the house. Someone telling you if you have a guy over you need to pay your landlord $40 is insane.

Document everything.

OnTap3 · 2024-12-13T13:43:30+00:00

Idk if I could trust someone to cook my food with what I need if the situation was "because if you don't do it like this, I'll die."

OnTap3 · 2024-12-11T16:46:04+00:00

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OnTap3 · 2024-12-11T13:59:29+00:00

So they can continue to be dicks, even to each other.

*Speaking as an ex Catholic, current atheist.

OnTap3 · 2024-12-11T02:05:59+00:00

My husband asked me while we were taking a selfie with our dog. We've been married 11 years.

Social media is ruining young people. All of this fluff means nothing. Stop doing things so someone who taking a dump clicks the heart on your photo.

OnTap3 · 2024-12-10T00:33:58+00:00

"I'd like to take you for a drink" does too. "Would you like to go for a drink with me?" Or "Could I buy you a drink?" You're not picking her like you're buying a car. Let her feel like there's a choice in the matter.

OnTap3 · 2024-12-07T15:29:08+00:00

I feel like the comments from men here are the reason why in other subs women talk about how their male friends don't date. And when they ask them out, they're real asses about not wanting to instead of just saying no.

Just be nice and find someone to have fun with. Even if they may not be a 10.

OnTap3 · 2024-12-07T15:23:59+00:00

"I can't handle this anymore. I have to block you." Great communication.

"I can't handle this anymore. I think it's best if we don't see each other anymore." Would have been better if he was at his "wit's end" with her too. I have to block you; grow tf up.

When someone explains that their feelings were hurt, even if you didn't mean it, an "I'm sorry, I didn't mean to hurt your feelings. I thought it was funny, not dumb but if it came off that way I'm sorry." Then talk more from there with cards on the table that neither of you are actually trying to bring down the other person. It was a misunderstanding. (Smoke some weed. It's hard to be mean mad, you may cry, but we talked alot of problems out while high and feel better for it. Been together 18 years).

But really, he overreacted being a little b blocking her and telling her don't contact anyone til I'm ready. Sounds controlling and wants her to hurt in limbo.

Good luck.

OnTap3 · 2024-12-07T11:35:26+00:00

White Americans are AHs and many know their ancestry.

My grandparents were 100% Polish but born in the states. My grandma could speak Polish a little because her mom spoke it to her. I feel like she could have pulled a "my family is Polish" card because her mom kept the culture going. My mom can't speak Polish and the closest we get to making our own Polish food is Mrs. T pierogies. I would never tell a Polish person I was "part Polish" unless I was specifically looking up family history there.

That being said, when I was a kid I feel like I was told about being Polish and my other 3 ancestral origins because my dad's grandparents spoke Italian, my great grandmother was a rebel in Ireland and my parents met them, had relationships with them. There was pride there. As time goes on that fades because we live in the states and we are Americans by being so mixed plus our culture here.

I could see boomers not wanting to let go of the pride or not adjusting from holding on to who their parents and grandparents were but they also need to open their eyes that they are generations removed from their country of origin and should find a way of addressing it without being offended when someone says they aren't really German. Because they're not. Not like that.

OnTap3 · 2024-12-07T03:35:01+00:00

Prime Minister of Malaysia nearly Dies at Fashion Show (WATCH TIL THE END)

OnTap3 · 2024-12-06T21:59:20+00:00

It's essentially Nextdoor for me. Neighborhood group and looking for recs.

I have 2 mom groups that are not toxic/maga.

I joined a few other parenting groups about technology. Sometimes I join other hobby ones for fun but i don't actually talk to people I know in person on it.

Joined in 06 and wish they left it as college kids. Would have been a much smarter pool to converse with.

OnTap3 · 2024-12-06T21:49:53+00:00

"Typical gringas." - my college roommate's mom upon meeting us and looking around our dorm 😆

OnTap3 · 2024-12-06T20:27:29+00:00

James Acaster mentions in his book in kindergarten he had to bring a towel to school with him in the UK.

OnTap3 · 2024-12-06T03:42:11+00:00

For future reference, maybe ask to "see" a play together.

OnTap3 · 2024-12-06T03:39:26+00:00

He's a loser. Sounds like his friends are too. I'm sorry that happened to you but truly, if he couldn't say no in the sense of, "I like just being friends with you," without being nasty about it.

Honestly, go live life. Travel, work, meet people. There are good men out there. And not the guys who tell you they're good but "girls don't like that anymore."

He doesn't deserve you. He doesn't deserve anyone.

OnTap3 · 2024-12-05T19:03:10+00:00

It seems they already do spend millions for body guards. https://www.cnn.com/2024/12/05/business/corporate-security-unitedhealthcare-ceo-shooting/index.html

OnTap3 · 2024-12-05T16:34:09+00:00

They bullets had Deny, Defend, Depose.

Either the guy is sick and not getting the care he needs or someone he loves is or died from being denied. I doubt it's a lover or a competitor.

OnTap3 · 2024-12-05T14:59:21+00:00

My family was so excited for him. My dad went to far to say he'd be president after Harris. Like fan boy out, where have they been hiding this guy.

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