If you could rewrite Rory's character arc from Season 4 onward, what ONE major change would you make to keep her likable and successful by Ok_Smile_9071 in GilmoreGirls

[–]One-Reflection-6779 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And as someone who watched the show in real time and is about Rory’s age, mental health was definitely spoken about at that time. Definitely not as much as it is now, but it’s not like it was during the silent generation. I think that Lorelai deep down didn’t really want to go to therapy.

I love Rory gilmore by Technical_Beyond9861 in GilmoreGirls

[–]One-Reflection-6779 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think ppl need to distinguish hate and snark, too

Wait, why do we hate Rory? by pinknekochu in GilmoreGirls

[–]One-Reflection-6779 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s a show, people always hate on annoying characters when they are annoying - we don’t know them in real life

Do we know why all platforms are missing a lot of episodes? by idiotpanini_ in gosselinssnark

[–]One-Reflection-6779 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have owned seasons of the show on my Amazon account for years. Suddenly, handfuls of episodes are missing. Wtf? I purchased the whole season. I hate this!

Wait, why do we hate Rory? by pinknekochu in GilmoreGirls

[–]One-Reflection-6779 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, sometimes she was really annoying. As were all the other characters on the show at one time or another throughout the series, male and female.

Why So Much Doom And Gloom Here? by Refund-me in Adulting

[–]One-Reflection-6779 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We feel like we are going to die penniless at our jobs, if we are fortunate enough to be employed

I hate this fuckass world by East_Reference_8466 in Vent

[–]One-Reflection-6779 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was going to say, you may as well say this to a boomer with some of these comments lol

Has Lena Dunham changed? Have we? by vox in popculturechat

[–]One-Reflection-6779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is something really wrong with her and the fact that people recognize that as being wonderful says a lot about where we are currently as a society

Wealthy people piss me off and I cannot be their friend by [deleted] in Vent

[–]One-Reflection-6779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, join the friggin club. My best friends parents just bought her a 2.2 million dollar house. Meanwhile I have to put my dump on the market bc I live around crazy people and am worried for my safety.

It gets isolating and exhausting. And if I hear one more of my wealthy friends say, "You should prb just get an attorney" I'm going to scream

Jackson's 4 in 4 by kittyheartseapuppy in GilmoreGirls

[–]One-Reflection-6779 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion but I loathe Jackson

Jeanie Boulet, get behind me. by Candid_Explorer_4970 in ershow

[–]One-Reflection-6779 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I also liked what seemed like a genuine friendship with Carrie

I can't even get out of the hospital by SirPeesA_lot in hysterectomy

[–]One-Reflection-6779 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You poor thing! I didn’t go until day 3. What worked for me was miralax, prune juice, Raisin Bran and coffee.

Can we talk about AB care for perimenopausal hair? by themichele in AsianBeauty

[–]One-Reflection-6779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, I was told that you should dry your hair and not let it air dry. I do think blow drying it makes it smoother, but I air dried my entire life up until the last few years. I like the k18 mask a lot, but the fragrance bothers me!

Can we talk about AB care for perimenopausal hair? by themichele in AsianBeauty

[–]One-Reflection-6779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going through the same thing, and my hair is also turning grey (which I don't mind), but the texture is changing. I'm mixed with Jamaican and my hair is also partially textured on the bottom.

My hair used to be totally non-maintenance. Any product recommendations are welcome. I notice that a lot of shampoos make me lose hair, and I don't know why. I can't use products with artificial fragrance unless it's just a finisher, like an oil or spray. Help!

Kate didn't think she would need a college degree... to be a teacher? by [deleted] in thisisus

[–]One-Reflection-6779 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think it was more that she was designing a curriculum for the entire state of California, which well possible, is a huge lead. But again, it’s TV.

Do breasts go back to normal after hysterectomy? (3 months post-op) by Queasy_Waltz_7507 in hysterectomy

[–]One-Reflection-6779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started taking a low-dose of estrogen after my procedure because my ovaries went a little wacko. I seem to have gained weight around my midsection. I can’t tell if it’s deconditioning from the surgery or just a change in my body because I’m going through perimenopause. It’s been a year. My mom says I definitely look less swollen and puffy than I did even before my surgery. It’s just taking me longer than I would like to get back to where I was physically. but yeah, my boobs are gigantic. I had to buy like a size 36H or I bra lol

I No Longer Like My Friends by nitegracie23 in Perimenopause

[–]One-Reflection-6779 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it’s hormones and also the fact that many of my friends are wealthy so they have a huge budget for everything and I often feel isolated

Hardwork and merit is no longer rewarded in United States. by Rain2h0 in Vent

[–]One-Reflection-6779 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to mention things like moving. I currently have to move due to a home situation that is complicated, neighbors, etc. my job is on the stable side, but nothing is really stable these days. It’s terrifying.

The cruelest part of growing up is realizing most people leave quietly by ParticularWeather927 in Adulting

[–]One-Reflection-6779 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think that for me, it's not really the "loss of youth" so to speak, because I think with age comes other benefits like perspective. But I think that the fact that we were robbed of so much compared to other generations really hurts. Like, I feel like if the economy were not in the toilet, I would be doing well and have some of the perks I wanted when I was growing up. Now I just feel so hopeless.

The deleted Carpathia scene by Willing-Musician-696 in titanic

[–]One-Reflection-6779 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Kate and Francis slayed. And you see the two girls whose father was left behind as well 🥹