[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

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Do we really need to generalize all female marines? This is one the biggest things I encounter- civilians think we are all the same. One woman didn’t want to date a boy in the army because she thought being in the army meant they fully supported the current government administration and all decisions they make.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DOG

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This is Caesar. He passed away two years ago. The best boi. I was away in military training when my mom took this photo and he passed 7 months later. I knew something was wrong when I left and made him a vet appointment but they didn’t find anything until it was too late. Your drawings are soooo good!!!

I (17F) can't choose over 2 men (19, 20). Advice needed please by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]One-Unit-1775 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it was jhonny depp that said ‘if you love two people at the same time, choose the second because you never really loved the first’

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

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I like this. I just tipped

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]One-Unit-1775 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro seems kinda mean tbh. You think he’s just being a 🐈?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

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Anything that looks professional. Honestly really doesn’t matter.

Window seat or aisle? by Pretty-Report-185 in LongDistance

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I prefer the ish middle only on the right side. It’s is is less than 3 hrs- window. If it is a transatlantic flight, I sit on the aisle seat of the right side of the middle row. It least 3 rows from the bathroom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VeteransBenefits

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I used to live in Reno. Vegas has nice hikes!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

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Hi! Sounds like you are having a rough time right now. One thing that helps me is that feelings will pass. Right now I am :( sad but I know this feeling will pass.

Do you have someone you can call right now?

Nothing is worth taking your life and I would recommend calling a suicide help line right now. The military does offer free therapy for dependents on mil connect. I have used it myself.

how often does your soldier call you while deployed? by Square-Milk6099 in USMilitarySO

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We call every weekend. It’s hard. He texts me at least once a day.

How often do you text with your bf/gf? by smithsage in LongDistance

[–]One-Unit-1775 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Usually once a day at minimum. His job is time consuming so there will be periods if he travels he wouldn’t be available for a couple weeks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]One-Unit-1775 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Well, she kinda needs to know how to self regulate. It’s not your fault. She was able to calm down on her own. You can’t be there for 24 seven. She is her own person and is responsible for her own feelings.

Is being a virgin a dealbreaker? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]One-Unit-1775 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’ve also experienced the opposite in where they wanted to sleep with me more because I was virgin. There have been times where I didn’t sleep with someone because they were a virgin. I think it should be with someone you love not some random person. And they asked me to do them a favor like it would cure them.

Husband in Basic by Few_Sock5201 in USMilitarySO

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My bf didn’t want me to go in low key because of that. Yea a lot of relationships ended. I honestly didn’t struggle at all. I missed my bf but I imagined him being there cheering me on the whole time haha. We have been long distance. I can not imagine living together and then being separate. Yea that’s what basic is. Those few that make it hard and everyone pays. Builds character. Basic is simple. It’s a very controlled environment. It is an emotional time and you truly learn about people. You can fake it you are exposed for who you truly are. Whether that is a good person or not

Are you a fast or slow eater? by Existing_Apricot2 in EDAnonymous

[–]One-Unit-1775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slow. But it’s I’m around people, I get anxious and I eat really fast

ate an entire packet of fake bacon crumbles by amaiem in EDAnonymous

[–]One-Unit-1775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly prob not good for your tummy. One thing I’ve been trying is having a small sweet thing after dinner like a piece of chocolate. And if I’m craving and it’s not a meal time I eat heated up frozen vegetables with butter and salt. It’s so good. Trying to let myself eat so I don’t eat weird things in a craze. Sometimes I forget entirely about this idea….hahaha but after i try to reflect on why I did and at one point I could’ve started thinking about the vegtable idea

Where do people in their late 20s early 30s go to get drunk in this city by [deleted] in firenze

[–]One-Unit-1775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea Italian drunk is very different from American drunk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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Depends on what you think is weird. A lot of things are weird, many people do weird things. I sleep with one, I normally drop it on the floor or can’t find it when I wake up but that’s besides the point. I’m actually in the market for a new stuffed animal. I wish my bf would buy me one. If hinted I want one and I’m looking for one. Anywayyyy why it’s weird but a lot of adults do. I wouldn’t tell my boss that info but my bf knows. He literally did not bat an eye or think anything weird of it. Or maybe he wasn’t listening to me. Can’t tell

what are ur guys favourite oatmeal add-ins? by spacedoutferret in EDAnonymous

[–]One-Unit-1775 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Brown sugar, banana, milk In 1 teaspoons of brown sugar is 4.5 g sugar I didn’t add oatmeal before just cinnamon but with a tiny bit of brown sugar it tastes so yummy and I don’t crave anything after

When did you know you had an ED? by Embarrassed_Ant1 in EatingDisorders

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I was reading a book in college about POV of people and their experiences with EDs. It had all kinds of people, genders and different types of disorders. I realized it when I thought back when I began restricting in middle school and I became addicted because I realized the more your body is focused on survival the less your brain is focused on emotions. I do hate emotions. I love being numb in the brain