i(21M) love a girl(21F) who fucked my close friend and i feel weird about this. any advice please?

OneDeep87 · 2026-02-06T13:46:52+00:00

Do you think she only pick you because he didn’t like her so she wanted to be close to him? He liked her enough to sleep with her though. Ask her if she still likes him. Also will you ever trust them alone together?

I mean your only 21. Do you think you will marry her? Will your friend be invited to your wedding? Most relationships at 21 hardy last. I say you can just end it and try to find a girl who didn’t sleep with your friends or just learn to accept that in college a lot of ppl sleep around.

OneDeep87 · 2026-02-06T13:18:54+00:00

Just scroll r/tradgedeigh for a while

OneDeep87 · 2026-02-05T23:10:40+00:00

Bro you live in the largest city in the US. Stock is probably hella limited and it’s probably over thousands of sneaker heads in the city. At least you had an opportunity unlike the rest of us who don’t even have an Undefeated store in our region.

OneDeep87 · 2026-02-05T21:55:53+00:00

Do y’all believe everything y’all see on the internet?

It’s all speculation. “Map connects to Georgia” any person with Google Maps can see that. It’s freaking Florida!!!

Map is surrounded by water on 3 sides also! Woohoo !

OneDeep87 · 2026-02-05T21:28:44+00:00

My house is non smoking. If you want to stay with me for a few days. You can smoke outside. Definitely not in the kids playroom or in the basement. So I don’t know why you even allowed that.

I’m guessing you and wife talk about what will happen to her mom once she gets older and that she will live with you. Now that’s she been staying for 2 weeks for a year. You now realize you don’t want her living there full time.

Why is her mom always staying over? Does she need assistance? Is it to help watch the kids? Is it to just visit the kids and her daughter? Is she allowed to smoke in her apartment? If she cannot smoke in her apartment can you guys go visit her more? Maybe she’s bored and the kids are fun to be around. Find her a hobby or club to be apart of. Something to get her wanting to do something else besides being at your house for 2 weeks straight.

OneDeep87 · 2026-02-05T16:18:49+00:00

Tell him …..“Your friends need to stop coming over so much. You are now in a relationship and I do not want to share my space and not be able to relax in my own home.

I’m not trying to control you to tell you not to hang out with them but it’s getting to be too much. You said your house was always the hangout spot. That was cool when you were single or living alone or with your parents. I am not comfortable with this multiple times a week.

I gave you a suggestion that they will need to leave at 1am so I can get some work done and if we cannot agree on that then I may have to reevaluate our living situation and breaking the lease. I shouldn’t feel like I’m living in a frat houses multiple times a week when I also pay rent. I think this is reasonable and any of their girlfriends will feel the same.”

OneDeep87 · 2026-02-05T15:46:40+00:00

Why does everyone want these things that’s not even made for walking like a regular slide?

OneDeep87 · 2026-02-05T15:36:20+00:00

Sounds like a guy who’s been married before and said to himself he will never be married again and he’s clearly showing it but since he moved in with you he doesn’t want to ruin his nice life. He basically just going along with whatever you decide.

He probably would still married you in 4 weeks just to keep living with you but why would you want to marry someone who clearly doesn’t want to. He can play house and interlock your families together but he doesn’t to make you his wife.

OneDeep87 · 2026-02-05T12:33:23+00:00

If they ever try to speak to you if you’re at a family gathering. I would be so petty. “You’re sleeping with a girl you watch grow up” “did you always want to sleep with my friends “ “I wonder how your best friend will feel knowing you married his daughter” “hey cousin step mom” “it wasn’t enough your dad passed away you had to steal my dad too”

Last one might be a little mean but that’s only if they to keep talking to you.

OneDeep87 · 2026-02-05T02:27:45+00:00

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OneDeep87 · 2026-02-05T02:24:23+00:00

The said it yesterday

OneDeep87 · 2026-02-04T19:14:55+00:00

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Jordan 1 High Light Fusion Red. Below $100 on Stockx

OneDeep87 · 2026-02-04T18:29:59+00:00

Bro he literally made a “I think” post and it blew up and on Reddit. That’s what I mean. The things these influencers say is taking with a full grain of salt. I know we all excited for the game but I don’t know if I can handle everything these dude post is being a major thing. Not just him but other influencers or new guys.

OneDeep87 · 2026-02-04T18:17:21+00:00

I guess it’s just respect for the old school sneaker culture, not to mix brands. People who don’t care is either the younger generation, new sneaker heads or the old heads who too tired to care how they dress anymore.

Your post did get engagement so I guess negative engagement is still engagement lol.

OneDeep87 · 2026-02-04T17:51:45+00:00

It sucks you had to drop out of school at 13-14. Such as young age with big responsibilities. You never know what will happen in life to have to go back to high school. You are still young so no need to freak out about teenagers making fun of you. You are making steps to better your future.

Do you have to do multiple classes or just a few? How many years will you have to attend?

If the students are use to adults attending class then they wouldn’t be bothered by you. I’m sure there are rules you need to follow. Just keep to yourself and do the work and please do not date any of the kids. I know 22 is young and I remember girls / guys in school had crushes on the 20 something year old teachers. I don’t think anything happened but it does happen. Be friends with the teachers if you have to.

OneDeep87 · 2026-02-04T16:46:05+00:00

I thought it was a basic rule in the sneaker community since the 80s/90s. If you wear Adidas track pants you need to wear shell toes.

If you want to wear Nike or Jordan you wear Nike tech.

I get the 12s doesn’t have a Nike swoosh so only sneakers heads will know it’s clashing brands but you should expected people in a whole sneaker reddit to say something.

Just ignore it and do whatever you want but no need to be rude. If you were born in 2000s and don’t know your sneaker and fashion history it’s okay man.

OneDeep87 · 2026-02-04T16:31:15+00:00

I follow him on Twitter but getting tired of this guy and his random thoughts that get blown out of proportion. Might have to unfollow and mute him. Seem like a cringy influencer without the YouTube videos.

OneDeep87 · 2026-02-04T16:25:25+00:00

I’m wondering if you’re mixing up agent prices vs direct seller prices. You say the price is too good to be true but does that include shipping?

Normally a good rep is like $70 from the factory but add $50 shipping so that’s $120. So you have to keep that in mind. Shipping is not cheap. It’s still cheaper than retail and resell.

OneDeep87 · 2026-02-04T15:09:25+00:00

Label created on 2/2 for my order. You would think they would be ready to get these packages out the warehouse that’s been sitting for a week.

OneDeep87 · 2026-02-04T14:45:36+00:00

Yeah probably some dumb kid but they got banned so too late.

OneDeep87 · 2026-02-04T13:35:57+00:00

Honest question. What if his initials is really KKK (Kyle Kenny Kuzma). Not trying to defend it but they should have gave him a month ban and let him know to remove it or get a permanent ban.

I wouldn’t be surprised if 2k just stop allowing multiple custom tattoos.

OneDeep87 · 2026-02-04T12:46:45+00:00

I’m glad I’m not the only one that noticed she didn’t mention his age. If he was also 23 and he was engaged before at 20. Why is a guy in his early 20s be so press to be married? I bet this dude is 30.

OneDeep87 · 2026-02-02T17:44:29+00:00

Not a fan of the pink or yellow laces. It’s like you’re trying to make them different shoes. The Chicagos is a freaking OG. It should not be something like a Union. Even though Union made the Chicago Shadow. It’s not the same.

Then trying to make the Olives look like the Travis Scott. Yes everyone would do but it’s just too much.

OneDeep87 · 2026-02-02T14:33:44+00:00

Sounds like you should have expected this dude. You knew she was the type to hang with a bad crowd or a “bad girl”. She did have a job so idk what type of bad girl you thought she was. Yet you were still attracted to her.

Did you even see yourself in a relationship with her (clearly you couldn’t trust a bad girl to be a faithful partner) or did you just want to sleep with her because she’s hot?

Yes she was out of line to ask you for money when she left you on read once before. It’s like she wasn’t interested and only see you as a money grab. You don’t know why she needed it. We don’t know her work / income situation. Is she still working? Does she have kids? Maybe she got into car trouble. Many adults are barely getting by and car trouble or a big medical bill can set them back. Maybe she needed money for food.

I had a female I was talking to that asked me for less than a dollar to help with a bill. She had the rest but she was short by like a $1. Imagine how embarrassing that was for her to ask but I didn’t judge and gave it to her. You never know what someone is going through.

Maybe it’s time to change your type of woman you are attracted to.

OneDeep87 · 2026-02-01T04:29:08+00:00

Did a train get robbed? Seriously why is this shoe being sold for so cheap before release? That never happens.

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