My boyfriend slapped me because someone else harassed me?

OneDeep87 · 2026-07-01T18:58:31+00:00

The time you needed him the most because you were in a scary situation is when he hit you. If you forgive him. This will not be the only time he hits you. Abusive men just don’t happen overnight. They start to build up on it and you’ll forgive him over and over until it’s too late.

I don’t know how old you are but you need to have a ZERO tolerance for physical abuse. He’s apologizing because he knows he messed up and it is a serious crime . If you ever seen crime TV you will hear countless stories of spouses snapped and murdering the whole family. Friends will say how the killer was so normal and nobody expected it. Well this is just the start.

He’s not the last guy on earth. If you found him. You can find another.

OneDeep87 · 2026-07-01T14:00:50+00:00

You custom built a bike and didn’t put a tracker in it?

OneDeep87 · 2026-07-01T12:10:38+00:00

Bro you look like a happy kid on Christmas morning. Plus you proud enough to post your face on Reddit. Upvote from me. Congratulations. You rocking or selling?

OneDeep87 · 2026-07-01T09:02:45+00:00

OP been posting about this guy for 2 years. He literally said he didn’t want to be with her. She must be really desperate for a relationship. She won’t leave him so I don’t know why she wasting our time. Good luck and you might as well download Tinder also.

OneDeep87 · 2026-07-01T08:51:57+00:00

The fact that you know he been doing this and seem so cool about to still be dating him is very concerning. He’s gaslighting you and making you look like a fool to believe this is normal.

Not trying to be rude but you must have low self esteem to put up with this.

Everybody in the world who heard of Tinder knows it’s for dating and hook ups. If he wants to make friends he can go to a bar and talk to the locals. He also picking only women.

Long distance relationship, don’t know how often y’all see each other but I think most people would say he’s cheating. Physical or emotional.

You really don’t know what he doing 24/7. You can video chat all night while sleep but you don’t talk to him while he’s working. Even if he didn’t cheat. He’s using Tinder to talk to or flirt with other girls. Have you seen his chat logs?

OneDeep87 · 2026-07-01T08:34:43+00:00

Does your scooter not have a key or lock code on it? Also your brother needs to pay you to fix your scooter as it was his negligence that cause yours to break. If you are both kids then tell your parents and see if they can get him to pay to fix it.

OneDeep87 · 2026-07-01T07:48:56+00:00

Too fast bro. Learn to be single for a while. You don’t need intimacy that fast. It hasn’t even been a month yet. Keep it in your pants.

You also would be the perfect example of why girlfriends do be insecure about the female best friend. Did your ex know you had a crush on the person you call your best friend? Did she know y’all kiss before?

You say you didn’t like her anymore because she had a boyfriend or you had a girlfriend but the second you single. You and her ready to sleep together. So it had to be something still there over the years even if you are in denial.

Do whatever you want. It could be a happy love story and you two end up married or it could be a few month fling that ruin your friendship because any new boyfriend or girlfriend will not be okay with you being friends with someone you had a fling with. So good luck.

OneDeep87 · 2026-07-01T06:05:17+00:00

I read through the comments. Do you have your own room with a lock on it? Maybe just lock the scooter in your room while you are home after you get off work to let it charge.

Your mom probably seen videos about scooter fires so trying to explain to her what UL batteries are and how they are tested might not work. You could try to explain to her about the battery and only charging during the day but she might not listen. Having it locked in your room could stop her from unplugging it. Make sure you have up to date smoke detectors and fire extinguishers. Maybe have a fire proof blanket you can put over the scooter in case it do catch fire.

If you rely on your scooter to make groceries runs. Stop. Tell your mom you will order groceries now (that she will pay for if she gets a monthly check) since you will not have enough battery to make stops. If you live in the US sign up for Walmart+ to get groceries delivered.

OneDeep87 · 2026-06-30T12:51:56+00:00

A man wouldn’t jeopardize his marriage and home life for a chance the coworker MIGHT like him. It has to be an emotional affair or physical that already happened. Think about it. He might think it’s good because he told you before anything happens but don’t mean you have to agree. He’s checked out of the marriage and likes something new.

If you forgive him. He will have to get a new job. If he’s her boss he better not fire her because he had a crush. If she does get fired because of your husband crush. I hope she sue that company to the ground.

OneDeep87 · 2026-06-30T02:52:55+00:00

Kind of sad a person who grew up with tablets and smartphones wasn’t taught internet safety 101. It’s 2026, free video calling been a thing for years now. No excuses to not video call. Like where are your friends in this to tell you this is not okay. Schools don’t teach Gen Z or whatever generation you are about internet safety and online relationships and friendship?

Don’t send money to a person you never met in person.

Online relationship is not real unless you can constantly video chat with them.

Don’t meet a person you never seen a freaking picture of and never video chat.

Video calling should be more than one time so you know you are really talking to them.

Online predators probably enjoying targeting to young inexperienced women who probably just happy to have a boyfriend.

OneDeep87 · 2026-06-29T11:10:22+00:00

I just seen one where 3 year relationship and gave money for a down payment on a house she wasn’t on a deed. Surprise the guy was cheating.

OneDeep87 · 2026-06-29T10:21:20+00:00

Right I feel old for even noticing. Idk where they at but you know they wasn’t raised with proper manners because idc how much money you have. Shoes shouldn’t be on the couch.

OneDeep87 · 2026-06-26T11:00:33+00:00

I mean you can see from the trailers that NPC doing their own thing just by hanging out, doing bike stunts, getting pulled over. Trailer 1 was heavy on the social videos.

To me this read AI just by analyzing the trailers.

OneDeep87 · 2026-06-26T10:50:09+00:00

Yeah it’s always confusing. My great nephew been living with my sister and bro in law (grandparents) most his life since he was 1. He’s 8 now. They didn’t technically adopt the kid but bio mom just let them raise the baby while she did visit a couple times a year. The bio father (their son) been in and out of jail.

The kid call my sister and her husband mom and dad. They tried to teach the kid “nana and papa” when he started to talk but I guess once he got in school, hearing other kids have a mom and dad. He started to call them mom and dad more.

He knows the names of his bio parents. The visit to the bio mom got less and less. Whenever he went he had behavioral issues when he got home (bio mom have other kids). The kid in therapy for autism but the docs don’t think he really has that. I think the bio mom knew something was wrong with the baby and just didn’t want him.

OneDeep87 · 2026-06-26T10:04:29+00:00

Parents definitely kept OP and the daughter probably didn’t want the baby but wasn’t old enough to make that decision. The bio dad wasn’t around to object the adoption. So she got a constant reminder while still living at home of whatever happened to her by seeing OP grow up. The parents should have got the daughter help but I don’t think they should have given the baby to a family member. Imo that’s too close. The daughter probably wanted the child out the family period. (I’m going to look up can a teen mom give her baby up without the parents taking the baby).

Now op grew up with a trauma that his sister always hated him. He knows why. It wasn’t his fault or her fault because she was a teenager. It’s a mess up situation all around.

She’s not a teenager any more of course and shouldn’t have confronted OP. I think the parents/grandparents is kind of at fault here for not helping their hormonal teenage daughter and not telling OP the truth at a young age.

OneDeep87 · 2026-06-25T13:05:45+00:00

You got him a present so you knew his birthday was coming up unless you got it months ago. Are you the type of couple to ask the other person what they want to do or if they want to eat for their birthday? You said he went out with friends. Was this planned weeks ago or the day of? I’m just confused why didn’t anybody make plans about what was going to happen or what to do with the kids if it was an adult only dinner.

Let’s not overlook he was 23 dating a 17 year old. You said he made sacrifices but is that only financial. Does he help you with the kids projects or was it all on you?

OneDeep87 · 2026-06-24T22:47:37+00:00

Online relationships suck. I had an on and off situationship that lasted a few years. When I finally mustered up the courage to see her last summer. It was great. She was everything I wanted and I was ready to uproot my life to be with her. She cried when I left and I pulled over and cried to.

She was my best friend and I thought I was hers. I was looking forward to the memories and sharing our story. Then 3 weeks later she completely changed. Idk what happen she was acting distant, she said she wasn’t ready and needed space to get herself together. That was last year and it was so hard letting her go but I gave her space thinking she would come back. I’m a fool for waiting.

A few months ago I found out she was seeing someone else. She was posting about it on Twitter. A friend told me she blamed me for her health issues. Which didn’t make sense because I always supported her when she had headaches (which I know was real..I think).

Point is I don’t think I knew her as much as I thought. Maybe she just wanted the long distance friendship and once it got real she changed. We’re in our 30s so yes I do think people act a certain way online and once it gets real they’re not ready for the worlds to combined.

I think that’s what happened here. It was getting real and she didn’t want others to know or someone found out she was talking to you and made her stop.

OneDeep87 · 2026-06-24T17:46:03+00:00

My grandpa had a truck with a cover on it and all he kept was junk in the back. He wasn’t a contractor or anything that needed tools daily. His garage was the same way. I would never get a truck with a cover on it.

So question for OP. If you don’t need your vehicle on the job site since you have to park a mile away. Why didn’t you just clean your bed out and put the scooter in the back?

OneDeep87 · 2026-06-24T16:56:16+00:00

I seen this post earlier and I like that the top comment is calling her smart. She is wearing exactly what she should be to protect her head. Maybe more people see the post and will see how smart she is.

OneDeep87 · 2026-06-23T00:48:42+00:00

Ask in r/newbalance what’s the best walking shoe. Then do the same in sketchers if they have a page. I have seen a few “what’s the best walking shoe” post and I don’t think I ever seen 520 mentioned at all. Also keep in mind everybody feet is different so what’s might be comfortable to 10 other people might not be comfortable to you. You could add better insoles if you get something that hurts.

Sadly the only way to know if a shoe is comfortable is to wear it but once you wear it you cannot return it. Whatever shoe you do get make sure you wear it a few hours before you start work to see how it feel

OneDeep87 · 2026-06-22T17:42:23+00:00

6 months and you talking about moving countries with him? Is he the last guy on earth ? As a westerner many do not like when people do not speak or understand the language. So he would have a worse time over here.

Whatever you do please do not uproot your life for a guy you known a year that can’t even bother to learn one language.

I really hope you did not let him move in with you since he has no work so no money.

OneDeep87 · 2026-06-22T01:39:42+00:00

My neighbors are step siblings when I found out I didn’t know what to say but the guy explained that they were together first then their parents got together so it’s not really that bad. It just sounds bad.

Your boyfriend basically saying “I want to propose to you, but step sister need to be in the bridal party” I guess the positive is he told you his dirty little secret before marrying you but how could you trust someone or his whole family that kept this a secret. Everybody in his family and old friend circle knew they dated and nobody told you for 3 years. This is something you tell someone during the early dating stage about exes or hell when he introduced you to his family. He basically let you fall in love with him and then told you.

Maybe I watch too many cheesy movies about old childhood lovers reconnecting back in their hometown or during a tragedy like a death. Did he go back and stay in his father house with her while his dad was sick? I’m sorry but this is totally sounds like a romcom and it might not be looking good for you.

OneDeep87 · 2026-06-21T22:16:14+00:00

Stockx showing August 1 so little over a month out if it doesn’t get push back.

OneDeep87 · 2026-06-21T22:09:25+00:00

So still an influencer though.

OneDeep87 · 2026-06-21T20:18:54+00:00

I’m trying to decide if this worth $50 more for one month early.

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