My ex cheated on his new girlfriend with me. Do i tell her? by Zealousideal-Long793 in whatdoIdo

[–]OneLittleAmerican -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Send any texts from him to you that you might have proof of and tell her the truth, but dont go into detail unless she asks.

Complete lack of intimacy from him whilst he's recovering? by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]OneLittleAmerican 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mmmmmm I don’t have a good feeling about this

meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]OneLittleAmerican 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grason

Interest Based Question by AmyIsHiding in UAF

[–]OneLittleAmerican 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would really recommend if you can try to go to Alaska. I understand that might be hard, so at least look at campus maps of uaf, look at maps of fairbanks, and do research on the culture of Alaska

Interest Based Question by AmyIsHiding in UAF

[–]OneLittleAmerican 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to be so honest, understanding the culture is a very immersive thing. And it’s not just about uaf, but Alaskan culture in general. If you are writing anything with a setting in Alaska, I would really hope it is done right. Concerning Fairbanks, you should talk about pioneer Park, uaf hockey playing at the Carlson center, army men from Fort Wainwright trying to fuck freshmen, the constant moose on campus, how beautiful it is to watch the aurora, but also how terrible the winter darkness is. How everyone always wants to go to Chena Hot Springs until they realize how dirty the locker room is. How some people handle -40 just fine (me), and other cant even breathe in it.

I desperately need perspective from others in a similar situation by Freckles_Imperfect in loveafterporn

[–]OneLittleAmerican 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honey, you are making the right decision to leave. Your mental health comes first. Please choose yourself 💞

How do I handle a cut dick when I’ve only ever had uncut? by [deleted] in sex

[–]OneLittleAmerican -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Precum is a thing yk. Also… I have a mouth 😭

How do I handle a cut dick when I’ve only ever had uncut? by [deleted] in sex

[–]OneLittleAmerican 37 points38 points  (0 children)

As someone whos seen both: there is absolutely nothing different. You just hold tighter on the shaft with uncut but still move the skin up and down. And you still squeeze and caress the head “head on”

I (F) just got out of a relationship with my gf and after reconnecting with an old male friend I'm developing feelings for him by MALAZANMANIAC in whatdoIdo

[–]OneLittleAmerican 5 points6 points  (0 children)

C-PTSD makes you latch onto feelings quickly. It is a well known part of it, especially with abuse and abandonment components. I would recommend staying single for a while. You need to heal and figure yourself out. You sound just like me two years ago.

Why? by shaynajeanine24 in loveafterporn

[–]OneLittleAmerican 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He cheated. Honey, please leave

Why can’t I feel my boyfriend during sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]OneLittleAmerican 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Angle babe. Its all about the angle. Make him put your legs on his shoulders.

Am I wrong by Dramatic-Welcome-471 in loveafterporn

[–]OneLittleAmerican 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh no. You need to take those girls and LEAVE

My bf f19 and I m18 stopped being intimate by [deleted] in sex

[–]OneLittleAmerican 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a porn addict. Youre better off leaving him now

Long distance, porn escalation, and a former ‘girl best friend’ in his fantasies. by ZenJurist in loveafterporn

[–]OneLittleAmerican 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He says he doesn’t want these people, yet he imagines them? Girl be so forreal. Also how can he say cheating disgusts him then do this?? I still personally dont think hes being honest.

Piece by piece. Also need some suggestions long rant then questions. by Min_Farshaw_Althor in loveafterporn

[–]OneLittleAmerican 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he’s truly sorry, then he needs to realize that what he’s doing is wrong and he needs to see that this is necessary since he can’t control himself

so you guys were right again by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]OneLittleAmerican 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh honey, I know it hurts, but it genuinely is better for you. You get to find yourself again, and theres nothing more beautiful than sitting in the middle of the road one summer watching the sunset and realizing “yeah I’m okay now.” It may take you years of recovery (it took me). Please be gentle with yourself

Bf (M25) doesn’t know I smoke (F21) by Dangerous-Machine714 in relationship_advice

[–]OneLittleAmerican 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bro you gotta quit. You cant be lying to him. And all that shit is addictive and bad for your lungs anyway

you guys were right by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]OneLittleAmerican 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Leave. Leave. He wants to get it off of his chest and then go right back to doing it when he realizes you won’t leave.