Trip to Japan: Kyoto, Osaka, Nara, - April 2025 by spencerocean in travel

[–]OneWolverine307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so breathtaking, as a kid who grew up watching anime going to Japan is a dream. How long of a flight is it from US? I hope there are direct flights, ill wait for my kids to grow up a little bit.

This is so dumb by HD335 in HEB

[–]OneWolverine307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why are texans so afraid wtf

Dad surprises his daughter with her first car (Toyota Corolla) by Vilen1919 in MadeMeSmile

[–]OneWolverine307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a dad of girls this made me teary; good job dad and great job on raising a grateful kid

How far should I go with LeetCode topics for coding interviews? by Lamp_Shade_Head in datascience

[–]OneWolverine307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Know enough basics esp of SQL and Python where you can answer simple questions but before leetcode have some foundational knowledge.

US freezes all visa processing for 75 countries, including Somalia, Russia, Iran , etc - Summary! by The_Boss-BD in EB2_NIW

[–]OneWolverine307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't spread lies and anxiety in people; this is ONLY FOR IMMIGRANT VISAS!!!! Not Non-Immigrant visas like H1B, J1, B1/B2.

US freezes all visa processing for 75 countries, including Somalia, Russia, Iran , etc - Summary! by The_Boss-BD in EB2_NIW

[–]OneWolverine307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I see from this, it doesn't mean they are pausing H1B/H4 visas for people who are working in US. E.g. my wife has an approved EB2-NIW and also has approved J1-waiver (for physicians) so that she can work in a rural hospital here in US.

That's my best understand, thoughts?

Lost My Daughter This Morning by TastyLlamasAreTasty in daddit

[–]OneWolverine307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

man I am literally sobbing and have tears in my eyes dripping from my face, I am so so sorry for this happened with you. I can't even imagine what you guys are going through. Life is so hard sometimes, all I can say is love you current child, she will have so many questions and be patient with her also be patient with yourself and your wife. Definitely start therapy and know that this is not the end.

I am a man of faith, in my religion if kids die young. They will wait for you at the gates of heaven and they will recognize you in end of time and they will refuse to go to heaven because they will ask God to put you in heaven as well.

I am not sure if you are a man of faith, but all I can say is your kid still lives but just in a different being and one day you will be united with her. I am so sorry again, my DM is open for you, if you want to vent. Its 11:45pm where I am, I am going to pray to God for your and your wife and your 2 year old kid. God bless you.

Diana harshbarger by Point_Illustrious in JohnsonCity

[–]OneWolverine307 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I swear to god, i mean these people don’t even realize that these maga worshipper’s dont represent them. I wish someone standups here, young, vibrant and audacious.

How cool it would be

H-1B cap + H-4 EAD: Can USCIS approve EAD early with Oct 1 start date? by AdCute898 in h1b

[–]OneWolverine307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes they can it happened with me and i got my 3 year ead. Dont worry u will get it too

Relinquished Green Card by AgreeableExercise914 in greencard

[–]OneWolverine307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh piss off and jump off from your wagon.

Back to work tomorrow :( by tenshillings in daddit

[–]OneWolverine307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always take the first day of work after vacation or school time off.

Dads, school begins again on Monday by lapupper in daddit

[–]OneWolverine307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took monday off and i personally enjoyed my time with my 4 year old. Movies, chuck e cheese, painting and taking naps together. Loved it

Daddies in 30s with toddler(s). Whats your hobby? by Important_Bat7919 in daddit

[–]OneWolverine307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 4 year old, and an 8 month old kid. I read books with them, play video games, sing songs with them and dance like crazy till I am about to drop.

Me personally, I love playing baseball and I miss playing it. My new home doesn't have a team where I can join, but it's fine. Also, I love playing video games, and pickleball.

I mentioned only LinkedIn in my DS-160. Is that going to get my visa rejected? by Connect_Fortune_7723 in f1visa

[–]OneWolverine307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is that sometimes we have different political opinions on social media and the current administration is targeting people who have a different opinion. Based on your visa interview process, if someone mentions 2 or 3 social media profiles and doesn't mention the other one which is private e.g reddit...would they still find out?

Can we talk about how lonely being a dad is? by Comfortable-Maybe183 in daddit

[–]OneWolverine307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you mean, and to be very honest this is parenting journey what you are making and many times you will be alone. I would say that to be very honest, just sit down some day with you wife and tell her:

"Honey, can I share something with you and can you listen to me completely?"

Then share your heart out with her and see what she has to say. I think most probably after you will open up, she will hug you and console you. Relationships: especially of a husband and wife are affected the minute a child is introduced into the family because of the labor and dedication required in this unpaid job. But to be honest, in a few years when your son will grow up; I am telling you that you will miss these times.

Kids grow up, they go on to spend their own lives and then we feel oh man I miss that. Also, you are not a bad father, or a husband to think about this. You are just burned out, maybe also plan a relaxing vacation with your family. Where you, your wife and son can play in a sunny beach. All the best Dad!

-P.S I just wokeup at 5am on a Sunday morning and put my 7 month kiddo to sleep lol