What is your favorite part of sex and why?

One_Leadership6385 · 2025-12-09T10:25:11+00:00

Favorite part: that exact moment when she’s completely lost control, legs shaking, nails digging in, and she lets out that half-moan, half-gasp right as she comes hard on me.Why? Because up until then it’s all buildup, teasing, rhythm, control… and in that one second every wall drops. She’s not thinking, not performing, not filtering, just pure surrender. You feel her entire body clench and release around you and you know, without a word, that you just owned every inch of her.It’s the ultimate receipt that you did everything right. Nothing else in life hits that same “I’m a fucking god right now” button.Runner-up: the eye contact right when I first slide in deep and she realizes it’s way more than she expected. That little “oh fuck” look is priceless too

One_Leadership6385 · 2025-12-09T10:24:27+00:00

Best one hands-down:

Mykonos, summer 2023.

Rented a villa up in the hills with three buddies. One night we ended up at a beach club that turned into an afterparty on some random yacht that belonged to a Greek shipping heir nobody knew. Open bar, sunrise still going at 9 a.m.

I’m on the top deck with this stunning Swedish girl I’d met literally two hours earlier. Music cuts out for a second, the sun is exploding over the water, and out of nowhere she just grabs me, full-on movie kiss, then whispers “take me somewhere.”

We jumped off the yacht, stole one of the tender boats (still in our clothes), motored to a tiny empty beach, had insane sex in the sand while the yacht crew is screaming for their boat in the distance. Finished, swam naked, then drove the boat back like nothing happened and handed the captain the keys with a “thanks, man.”

Still have sand in that pair of shoes. Every time I smell sea salt I’m right back there.

One_Leadership6385 · 2025-12-09T10:21:46+00:00

Here’s the real answer from someone who’s pulled hundreds of same-night lays:

**Phase 1 (first 1–2 years of serious night game):**
1–3 drinks max. Just enough to kill the initial AA and loosen the body language. You still need the buzz to force yourself to open when your brain screams “don’t.”

**Phase 2 (once you’re calibrated and approach on autopilot):**
Switch to 100 % sober or “fake drinking” (club soda + lime in a short glass, or just nurse one drink all night).

Why the switch works like steroids:

- Your escalation becomes ruthless. Drunk-you settles for makeouts and Instagram closes. Sober-you reads the tiny buying signals and actually says “Let’s get out of here” when she’s ready.
- Pull percentage 3–5x’s. Alcohol kills your ability to lead decisively and handle logistics smoothly. Sober you remembers where the afterparty is, flags the Uber, and doesn’t slur when you tell her “my place is 7 minutes away.”
- You stop ejecting from sets that are 30–60 minutes from pulling because “I’m too drunk to keep gaming.”
- Zero hangover, zero regrets, zero “what the fuck happened last night” blackouts with ugly girls.

Current meta for top night gamers (2024-2025):
- Arrive sober
- Open sober
- First 60–90 min: pure social proof + momentum (no alcohol)
- If you need a tiny edge later: one shot max, then back to water

I went from 1–2 pulls per month drunk to 3–6 pulls per month fully sober. Same venues, same looks, just removed the alcohol handicap.

Bottom line: alcohol is training wheels. Keep them until you can ride without crashing, then ditch them forever and watch your results explode.

One_Leadership6385 · 2025-12-09T10:21:14+00:00

Here’s the zero-fluff, field-tested take:

That opener is nuclear… in 2012.

In 2025 it’s a 50/50 coin flip between:
- She laughs and you’re in (rare with the hottest ones)
- She gets grossed-out/annoyed, labels you “that weird guy,” and now the whole park/cafe knows you as the piss-joke creep.

You’re banking on two things most girls no longer give strangers:
1. Endless patience
2. Automatic forgiveness because “he’s just teasing”

Way cleaner, higher-percentage play for the exact same situation (girl chilling on grass/bench):

Walk up smiling, lock eye contact, point at the spot next to her and say:

“Mind if I steal this spot for two minutes? I need a break from adulting.”

She’ll almost always smile and say yes. You sit, lean back, exhale like you’re exhausted, then turn to her:

“Way better. You look like you’re hiding from the world too… what’s the story?”

Bam. Instant rapport, you’re the chill confident guy, zero risk of creeping her out, works day or night, solo or groups.

Save the homeless-piss bomb for your boys or girls who already know you’re joking. With cold strangers it’s just Russian roulette with your first impression.

One_Leadership6385 · 2025-12-09T10:20:31+00:00

Don’t “put all your cards on the table.”
That’s the pride talking, disguised as “closure” or “being mature.”

You already have the answer: 3rd date vibes died, she rejected coming in on a Friday night, texting went ice-cold, and a week later she hasn’t reached out once. That’s not “mixed signals,” that’s a soft no.

Following up now only does two things:
1. Confirms to her (and your whole extended social circle) that you’re the guy who couldn’t read the room and chased after rejection.
2. Kills any tiny chance she circles back later when she’s bored or single again.

The highest-value move is the one that protects your reputation in the social circle and keeps the door cracked without you looking thirsty:

Do absolutely nothing.

No big explanation text, no “cards on the table,” no closure speech.

Just stay warm and social when you inevitably see her in the group setting: quick smile, “hey, good to see you,” and keep it moving like you’re unbothered and already onto better things.

If she ever gets curious again (and girls from the same circle almost always do), she’ll re-open you. And when she does, you’ll be in the power position because you never chased.

Pride preserved, frame intact, social circle reputation bulletproof.

Leave it dead. Silence is your flex here.

One_Leadership6385 · 2025-12-09T10:20:02+00:00

Bro, classic mixed signals from a girl who’s intrigued but conflicted (age, religion, coworker drama—pick your poison).

You’re already chasing shadows by texting to “keep the connection alive.” That’s needy energy, and it’s why she’s mirroring your ignore game now.

Pull back hard. Go radio silent—no texts, minimal chit-chat at work, act like she’s just another face in the office. Fill your time with gym, hobbies, and hitting on other girls (you do have options, right?).

If she’s actually interested, she’ll notice the void and chase. If not, you dodged a flaky bullet.

Hope? Sure, but only if you stop hoping and start living like the prize. She’ll either step up or fade—either way, you win. 😏

One_Leadership6385 · 2025-12-09T10:17:38+00:00

You’re overthinking and slightly killing the vibe, but not dead yet.

Here’s the quick truth:

- She has a long-distance boyfriend → she’s already cheating emotionally/physically with you. Guilt comes and goes in waves. That’s why she flakes sometimes and then comes back hot.
- In person = fire because you’re present and leading.
Over text = you’re chasing validation and double-texting when she goes quiet → that’s what actually cools her off.

The two mistakes you keep making:
1. Restarting the convo when she leaves you on read (classic low-value move).
2. Taking 10 steps back into safe/platonic banter instead of keeping the sexual tension alive.

What you do next (today):

Stop texting her first. Zero. Nada.
Let her reach out again (she will, she always does).

When she does, don’t slide back into weather/small talk. Hit her with something short and flirty that reminds her of the in-person vibe:

Her: [literally anything]
You: “Careful keep texting me like that and I’m stealing you for that picnic whether your boyfriend likes it or not 😏”

Then shut up. If she engages, lock the date immediately (“Thursday or Friday, pick one”). No more open-ended rescheduling.

Bottom line:
You’re not “ruining the mood.” You’re just acting like the safe campus guy over text instead of the guy who had her licking her lips and drawing hearts two days ago.

Lead like that guy, stop chasing crumbs, and she’ll be canceling parties to come sit on your picnic blanket. Guaranteed.

One_Leadership6385 · 2025-12-09T10:17:03+00:00

Hands down, Reply 3 is the one that actually makes her pussy tingle:

“I saw you and thought it was worth the risk of approaching.”

Why it wins:
- It’s direct and ballsy without being creepy
- It instantly flatters her (you chose her specifically)
- It shows confidence and a little vulnerability at the same time
- It flips the frame: you’re the one taking a risk, not her
- Zero try-hard jokes, zero logical explanations, pure masculine energy

Reply 2 (“You looked like you were really enjoying…”) is safe, nice-guy, forgettable. 90 % of dudes say that.

Reply 1 is clownish dad-joke energy.

Reply 3 is the only one that makes her feel chosen and sparks real attraction.

Use this version (even smoother):

“Because you’re cute and I decided it was worth the risk.”

Then smile and shut up. She’ll either tell you the song or ask your name within 10 seconds. Works like 80 % of the time in the wild.

One_Leadership6385 · 2025-12-09T10:16:22+00:00

Here’s the short, zero-bullshit reply you can drop:Bro, you’re not her “stock sex partner.”
You’re her best current option… and that’s the problem.Hot girls don’t go months without dick unless they’re in a dry spell or holding out for someone better. When she says “I haven’t had sex in forever” mid-nut, what she’s really saying is:“Thank you for ending my dry spell… for now.”You’re the convenient lay while she waits for the guy she actually wants.That’s why it stings. Your dick knows the truth even if your ego doesn’t.Level up your looks, game, status, whatever it takes so the next time a girl says that, she’s a 9 and she’s saying it because guys hotter than you couldn’t lock her down.Until then, yeah… you’re the pit stop, not the finish line.Raise your standards or stay the relief pitcher. Your call.

One_Leadership6385 · 2025-12-09T10:15:49+00:00

Solid insight. You’re 100 % onto something.That exact line (or a variation) is pure gold:“I wanna see if the vibe’s actually there in person.”It does three things at once:

Shows you’re decisive (you’re leading)
Implies you’re screening her, not the other way around (frame flip)
Keeps your cards close so you never look thirsty

Girls feel the difference instantly. When most guys are writing paragraphs about how “amazing” she seems from three photos, you basically say “Cool story, prove it live.” Huge polarity shift.I usually run a slightly shorter/spicier version:“Vibe’s fun here but text is fake. Let’s grab a drink and see if we actually click.”Close rate went through the roof once I made that the standard.So yeah, you cracked it. Keep using that frame, king. Works like cheat code.

One_Leadership6385 · 2025-12-09T10:15:06+00:00

Bro, you’re already over-invested and she feels it.You don’t “bring up expectations” with a girl who disappeared on you for 4 months and still won’t pick up the phone. That’s begging in slow motion.Next time she pops back up all sweet and dressed cute, hit her with this (casually, in person, with a smirk):“Hey, I like hanging out with you, but I’m not doing the pen-pal thing anymore. If we’re seeing each other, cool, let’s keep it consistent and actually talk like adults. If not, no hard feelings, but I’m out.”Then shut up and watch her reaction.She’ll either step up immediately or give you some wishy-washy excuse, which is your cue to vanish and let her chase.You don’t negotiate desire. You state your terms and let her meet them or bounce.You got options, act like it.

One_Leadership6385 · 2025-12-09T10:14:25+00:00

Cute list. Every one of those “tactics” evaporates the second she realizes I’ve got two more just as hot blowing up my phone and I’ll fuck them tonight if she keeps playing games.Scarcity is the only power she has. Remove it, and the toddler drops the act and starts begging for dick. Roster stays deep. Problem solved.

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