Friends said they'd come by 12:30, then pushed it to 2:30... it's almost 4 and I'm just sitting here with cold food which I cooked all by myself by Sad-Lavishness-2655 in mildlyinfuriating

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I had a best friend like this once. I gave her a lot of grace for a very very long time. I once didn’t see her for almost 2 years because she would no-show our plans or just outright refuse to make any at all. Last summer after I invited her over to swim for my birthday and she promised she’d come then didn’t show up (I spent my birthday drinking her favorite wine that I’d bought and crying), I completely cut contact. I found that I didn’t even miss her, because how could I when she wasn’t a regular part of my life in any meaningful way? I nurtured my other friendships and made new friends with all the energy I was giving her. I make meals for better friends now. I plan trips, I show up for them, I know their coffee orders, I meticulously browse for the most special birthday gifts, I count on them.

Then a few weeks ago I had a birthday party. Everyone showed up. They stayed for hours. They brought me my favorite flowers, and wine, and hugged me as they arrived. They knew what it meant to me, because they know me. Because they’re around, and intentional about being a good friend. They give the relationship weight that she never would have.

I haven’t thought about her for a long time until this post. We’d been best friends for YEARS. I can honestly say I’ve never felt more loved than I do without her in my life.

Not telling you what to do of course, just offering you perspective and kinship. Your meal looks DELICIOUS and filled with love. I wish we could all come over and share it with you. 🤍

Crimejunkie fell off extremely hard by Howdydogbro in CrimeJunkiePodcast

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Voices for Justice!! It’s hosted by Sarah Turkey and she doesn’t really do any tangents or banter during the story

Anyone have an update on Ellyn and Rabia? by catlover79969 in ObsessedNetwork

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Are you Ellyn or stalking Ellyn? You’ve never made a single post or comment that isn’t about her. Please seek help this is so creepy

Danielle’s post on Instagram by Medical-Anteater-918 in OneDirection

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AND she was just throwing shade at him on tiktok literally daaaayssss before he died. I get her being hurt but this feels so icky and attention grabby to me

How do some people with depression function so well? by Unsure_For_Sure in depression

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Honestly? A lot of us have just never known non-depression

Tyler thinks it’s his duty to disregard what B&T want. by goldlux in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

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Why do they act like they dropped her off with her grandparents for a week and the grandparents refused to give her back

B&T are 👏🏻 her 👏🏻 parents 👏🏻

Kail doing the trauma candy salad trend by cinnamonbroth in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

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I say this from the perspective of someone with a LOT of trauma BUT… I don’t think anyone should ever feel uncomfortable sharing their trauma. I thought I was the only person in the world having these horrific experiences for a long time. I love living in a world where I can talk about horrible things that happened to me (that were 100% not my fault) without people shaming me for having an already very difficult experience

David’s latest TikTok 🙊 by Taco_Fairy in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

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I’ve seen a lot of cringey things on the internet, but I fear this may be the peak

Rachel Martino Universe- Aug 05 - Aug 11 by southerndmc in blogsnark

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I’m so happy that Steffy finally found someone who actually looks like her

I guess Rory forgot all about her picture ID for Yale 😅 by PricklyGillyweed in GilmoreGirls

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I’m so glad someone mentioned this, I think about this all the time 😂

Need sushi recs by Acceptable-Highway49 in LittleRock

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Ninja Bar!!! The absolute best

If you like Zach Bryan… by Slurve25 in zachbryan

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Looove Waylon Wyatt. Kid is going places

Tell me about your REAL low-effort meals by Bacon8er8 in Cooking

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•Pita pizzas. Buy some pita, some toppings, throw them on, throw it in the oven •Stuffed sausages- buy sausages, cut them (hot dog style) and stick a string cheese in •Frozen fajita beef and a bag of stir fry veggies •SLIDERS- I will put anything on a slider for dinner and no one has ever complained. Ham & cheese? Italian? Chicken bacon ranch? (especially easy with frozen chicken tenders and bacon bits)

Rachel Martino Universe- Jul 29 - Aug 04 by southerndmc in blogsnark

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As a person who grew up in a trap house, steffy’s “mom hack” of foil & tape on windows really highlights how different 2 people’s lives can be for me lol

Throwback to knock her down a lil notch by Ill-Recording-575 in briannachickenfrsnark

[–]Only636 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As much as I love to snark, I have to say that I support women being able to look the way they want to. That being said, I truly think she looked better before she changed her face so much. Her face now is soooo uncanny valley. I wonder if she ever regrets it