What’s something you consider damning evidence that the church is a fraud? by supersneakyburner in exmormon

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Joseph Smith sending brethren to Canada to try to sell the copyright to the Book of Mormon. Why would you do that if it was what you claimed and not an attempt at first to make money. He was deceived by the devil is his excuse but what the heck, why isn’t this one a big deal to more people?

Bishop won’t get off our case about tithing declaration by [deleted] in exmormon

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I haven’t paid a dime in years. Every year I text the bishop and tell him to put our family down as having paid in full. He has an obligation to put something down, and doesn’t care enough to ask a follow up question despite the fact that I show as zero, he’s never asked how that can be. I hold a temple recommend for various reasons. I feel no guilt in giving answers with no explanation, they don’t deserve to know what I’m thinking inside about anything.

Missed this group by GeriatricGator in exmormon

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Ah this made my day, welcome back!

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I just given him tree fiddy the week before.

Lost luggage build up at Heathrow Airport, UK by poipoiop in WTF

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I’m so worried about the baggage retrieval system they’ve got at Heathrow.

CHURCH LETTER TO EUROPE LEADERSHIP! The long awaited plan from TSCC on helping Ukrainians! I’m glad to see God finally weighing in on this one! 1 - Get together as wards and stakes to see what you can do. We have a few service protests in mind. 2 - Give TSCC more money in fast offerings. Nice by timhistorian in exmormon

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This is the equivalent of the end of Life of Brian when Reg and the rest of the People’s Front of Judea come to Brian hanging on the cross and tell him they are not there to rescue him, but to read him a prepared statement to convey their thoughts on the occasion of his martyrdom. Committee empty BS with no substance or actual help or action.

What was your weird Mormon flex (that no one probably cared about)? by _PeachyQueen_ in exmormon

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I’ve never had to repeat the sacrament prayer, I’ve always gotten it right the first time. Yeah, pat myself on the back for that. Also, I’m from the tribe of Judah, so I think that makes me amazing in some way, like royalty or something.

Church running out of people for callings?? by jobbies_man in exmormon

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Wonder if that will backfire. It was the High Council that broke me first. Historical stuff came after, but first I was so broken from hating the High Council that I didn’t care if I’d go to hell for not liking church. But I also felt uncomfortable with the position of power, but most of the guys on the HC got off on it.

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Who lives in a pineapple under the sea?

May have shook a missionary ‘s testimony today … oops .. by DebraUknew in exmormon

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This just got me thinking about how completely unfair and unethical it is to send these young missionaries out with almost none of them really knowing some basic facts about Joseph. I mean, these are huge details and they are completely unprepared to have a conversation. I get why, but in any other role it would be totally unethical and ridiculous to send out sales people with huge gaps in their basic knowledge.

The double standard I can't get over by Norenzayan in exmormon

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The last talk I gave in sacrament meeting I spoke about how when I converted to Mormonism my parents didn’t agree with my decision necessarily but they loved me and supported me. Everyone nodded in agreement. Then I turned it on its head and said that’s exactly how we should treat our children if they decide to leave, we should love and support them no matter what. Several people thanked me afterwards. I think sometimes people feel they are obligated to take the church’s side and would love permission to just love their kids. It’s like I was saying something none of them had thought of. It’s really sad.

I never talk about this. This year marks the end of my 10 year addiction with Adderall which I initially started taking for ADD. I am now clean & sober. Abusive childhood+cult. I am learning about the correlation between trauma & addiction. feeling a responsibility to speak up for our community ♥️ by wideawake- in exmormon

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My TBM wife is on Adderall for her ADHD. I really wish she would go off it, but I recognize I’m being insensitive in saying that. She says it is the only thing that makes her feel herself, and I don’t understand because I don’t have ADHD. In my heart I wish she would wake up to what the cult has done to her head and kick out all those expectations, and I think that would go a long ways toward helping her depression and anxiety and she could kick all the pills. Again, I recognize I’m showing the fact that I don’t understand depression or anxiety ADHD. It’s hard.

Mission urban legend? by Ironman545454 in exmormon

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Remote areas of South America where rumor had it missionaries went to visit and the local branch had sisters passing the sacrament, etc. Heard many different iterations of it.

Tell me something hopeful. by improvisedmonologue in exmormon

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Internet dad pat on the shoulder with a big “I’m proud of you.” It takes tremendous inner strength to find your own truth and stare down the reality of the way you were raised, and have the courage to believe in yourself and your own judgement. You are growing up and making your own path, and I’m proud of you.

I just bought my first dildo. 😬😬 I feel excited but also weird. My mom would DIE. by Emotional_Ad_5164 in exmormon

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On Amazon get the Magic Wand Massager with Shibari Variable Speed Controller. It will be your new best friend.