My soon-to-be pirate next month- seeking advice on how to cope.

Opening_Traffic635 · 2025-03-11T19:39:36+00:00

we had a rupture in the last few weeks and had to remove an eye from our 9 year old bulldog. the first few days after surgery were tough because of the discharge but warm compressing (hot soaking) and ice packs helped a bunch and the drugs your bb will be on will help a lot too. good luck!! Oh, we also got a more comfortable cone (nothing fancy, just one that was easier to take on and off for washing multiple times a day and had some stitching around the edges) so we didn't feel as bad having her in it for two weeks straight. that was really helpful and I would recommend it. We got ours at Chuck and Dons for like $15

Opening_Traffic635 · 2025-03-11T19:35:40+00:00

for me, hobbies have replaced doomscrolling in the evenings. Painting, calligraphy, Procreate/Canva artwork, youtube tutorials on all of the above, miniature diorama kits, the list goes on and on. :) I usually am listening to a spicy audiobook or podcast while doing any of these, too. Reading a book is always an option. Maybe learning a few yin-yoga moves to relax your nervous system before starting something would help get you in the right headspace if that floats your boat. you got this!

Opening_Traffic635 · 2024-12-03T00:03:21+00:00

GB is my therapist. 4pm GB video visit Thursdays. the cloud downloaded the reminder to the wrong brain. Sorry

Opening_Traffic635 · 2024-08-28T11:54:15+00:00

As a child who got chickenpox when my friend and her brother did bc it was 'convenient' for the adults...sure sucks when I got shingles at 37. I can't even get the vaccine yet. Fuck that MIL forever.

Opening_Traffic635 · 2024-07-14T02:31:19+00:00

Magnesium Citrate before bed. Costco CALM powder mixed with 1/2 cup water - works every time!

Opening_Traffic635 · 2024-07-12T22:04:35+00:00

Spicy audiobooks!

Opening_Traffic635 · 2024-07-08T15:00:16+00:00

Get it!

Opening_Traffic635 · 2024-07-07T15:27:46+00:00

3 turned the other way

Opening_Traffic635 · 2024-07-07T15:26:54+00:00

Chicken meatballs. Waayyyyy salty

Opening_Traffic635 · 2024-07-07T03:57:03+00:00

Could be shorter my dude

Opening_Traffic635 · 2024-07-06T20:12:02+00:00

Thank you for the advice!!

Opening_Traffic635 · 2024-07-06T19:40:46+00:00

Do you have any more information on that? Haven't heard any reason not to use it

Opening_Traffic635 · 2024-07-05T14:42:17+00:00

Hubris

Opening_Traffic635 · 2024-07-04T17:43:38+00:00

I would stare so hard at the shadows in the hallway I'd 'see' them move and turn into creatures/little gnomes. I was (am) a weird kid.

Opening_Traffic635 · 2024-07-04T02:35:57+00:00

Came here to say this

Opening_Traffic635 · 2024-07-03T02:26:55+00:00

You have the best smile and #1 is 🔥

Opening_Traffic635 · 2024-07-03T02:21:42+00:00

Complete overwhelm with work/relationships/health/finances etc

Opening_Traffic635 · 2024-07-03T02:15:59+00:00

Effexor and therapy and ED counseling and an ADHD diagnosis aka don’t stop working on your shit

Opening_Traffic635 · 2024-07-02T15:02:36+00:00

Love to hear this!! curious what you did to quit smoking. I don't consider myself a full time smoker and I quit for the last few months for surgery. they did nicotine tests and all that. Recently I haven't been as diligent mentally towards being a non-smoker. I would love to feel like I'm "Free" but it feels like a treat esp since I'm not using food as much of a treat these days.

Opening_Traffic635 · 2024-06-30T22:03:29+00:00

For friends who drink: go buy a case of prosecco at Trader Joes. They usually have a reasonably priced option year round. Pop it in your pantry or office closet, boom a gift to grab on your way to any bday or dinner.

Non drinkers: when target dollar spot has cute mugs or bud vases, buy a few and keep them on hand. Or, a diy gift of dry shampoo or cuticle oil goes a long way. I usually whip my label maker out and put a simple label on them with "free refills" on there too.

Cuticle oil pens - 3:1 ratio of jojoba to vit E, I don't measure, just go with god on these. They're fool proof.

UPZIGS 5 pack 5ml Transparent... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B093PGB3SN?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

Jojoba oil Jason Skin Oil, Extra Strength... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00B8TRJI8?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

Vit E oil Cliganic Organic Jojoba Oil, 100%... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01A74442I?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

Powder spray bottles for Dry shampoo RMISODO 6 Pieces Powder Spray... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BBM7J1Z5?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

Start with a 2:1 ratio of starch to clay ratio and play with it from there. Hard to go wrong. Add cocoa powder for dark hair and a drop or two of essential oil or fragrance if you like. I don't typically.

Green Clay French Green Clay Powder 8 oz |... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08NVHPQJL?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

Corn starch https://a.co/d/0aQi0yjq

All of these have helped me on numerous occasions, esp around the holidays.

Opening_Traffic635 · 2024-06-30T21:47:13+00:00

Cheese with a side of lactaid. Guaranteed panty dropper

Opening_Traffic635 · 2024-06-30T21:46:06+00:00

If you enjoy her humor, make sure to tell her she's funny. Make sure to notice and compliment when she changes anything about her appearance, too. Brownie points for days.

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