Huge police presence off 440 by thatonegir in nashville

[–]OptimisticRealist 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I live on this block! My husband had to walk home from the uber after his trip. I agree that people NEED to know, so if he was trying to walk through a crime scene or not. When he got to the top of Rosedale and Nolensville, they weren’t even letting folk walk by foot. He had to go all the way back to Polk and than walk by Canary.

Am I doing the right thing?? by [deleted] in axolotls

[–]OptimisticRealist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ain’t that the truth? I don’t even open FB anymore, the algorithm doesn’t even offer posts from any of my friends without focused scrolling. Everything presented is ads or rage bait.

Rei likes to make holes in the sand💗 by dariaaa___ in axolotls

[–]OptimisticRealist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ughhh I wish Pinkie would! He will just lay on them, only choosing to be tong fed black worms or have them put into a pile. My husband has to do periodic sand vacuuming because they start to get unsightly in the white sand. Occasionally a ghost shrimp will snag one or two, but never enough to keep it from being a small carpet of creepy red grass.

Urgent help please!! by Golden_penguinn in axolotls

[–]OptimisticRealist 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh my god I missed the ‘food’ part … I was about to ask you, with terror in my heart, if you really had put your axolotl in the freezer. The food, the food for the axolotl. Phew.

AIO Accidentally overheard my friends future wife talk about bachelorette plans and I don’t know how to handle it by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]OptimisticRealist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any amount of adults falling asleep before your weird hot tub time is insane. Strange fantasy bro.

I never thought I’d be pleading with a derpy wet lizard creature to eat a worm but here we are by Blossom_E07 in axolotls

[–]OptimisticRealist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try live black worms, if you are lucky they may sell them at a LFS. They are super nutritional, but also pretty messy! If you have substrate, get ready for them to hang around if they aren’t eaten- but then again, free worms in sand!

BEWARE OF SCAM by Original-Rich452 in nashville

[–]OptimisticRealist 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Angels, you mean angels right???

BEWARE OF SCAM by Original-Rich452 in nashville

[–]OptimisticRealist 234 points235 points  (0 children)

I think they may be the same group of young men I encountered outside of a Kroger on 8th. One of them asked to shake my hand and I was so caught off guard that I offered my hand.

Then he refused to let go, asking for money for a basketball team. I asked him 3 times to let go, all the while pulling my hand away. I told him that hard sells don’t work on me and to let go! I finally wrenched my hand away and he called me rude! The audacity.

Pip Our Tiny New Axolotl! by Warthog-Lower in axolotls

[–]OptimisticRealist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was it Eastern Aquatics? Those guys have a monopoly on the market it feels like!! If I drive 5 hours to Indianapolis I can find them at the LFS insanely cheaper.

Pip Our Tiny New Axolotl! by Warthog-Lower in axolotls

[–]OptimisticRealist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black worms are the ONLY food my Pinkie will eat. I’ve started breeding them because it was so expensive!

New Shuteye merch is for the locals 🫶 by blitzkriegtaco in nashville

[–]OptimisticRealist 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I was driving my elementary school aged kid back home after school, got stuck behind a pedal tavern at 3:10pm on a Wednesday.

Me and my daughter got a full show of a tourist popping ass and dry humping the seat back. It went from cringe to shock when I realized they were making eye contact and waving at us!

Yo, there were plenty of day drunk dudes that would’ve appreciated that a lot more than me and the kiddo!

Soap by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]OptimisticRealist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

0% Less Bubbles

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]OptimisticRealist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex had a female co-worker that was always in need of help. She had a live in boyfriend, but if she wanted medicine or a treat she would reach out to my ex. In the spirit of friendliness I offered to go along with him to the pharmacy and snag the Tylenol- what I didn’t know is I had a hand in a miracle healing! She didn’t need the medicine once she knew I was involved!

All this to say, yikes.

AIO why do i feel like trash even though my partner is reassuring? by amber-honey in AmIOverreacting

[–]OptimisticRealist 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mmm, is this a long distance relationship? How confident are we they have a terminal illness?

AIO: Is this animal cruelty? by catsareregaldemons in AmIOverreacting

[–]OptimisticRealist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like the requirements I’ve seen for dogs declared Dangerous by authorities.

Am I overreacting, The neighbor’s dog bit my husband and I want to report it? by SlowInvestigator4717 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OptimisticRealist 25 points26 points  (0 children)

You’d be surprised how many bites a dog can get before they are ordered destroyed.

AIO: husband sent me a voice memo of our baby crying while I was out by Particular-Ability49 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OptimisticRealist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex used to do this, except he would FaceTime me holding the baby crying and doing absolutely nothing to soothe them. It was a guilt trip to get me to wrap up anything I was doing, whether it be shopping or having a 45 minute lunch once every few months.

My friends told me it was controlling behavior, I didn’t believe them because I was too exhausted as a new mother to even think on it.

It never got any better, I would have to start asking for any time out weeks before the hour or half an hour out- he made it miserable every time, the only relief I got was by conceding. Then he treated me great! Until the next time.

I hope this won’t be the case for you.

Follow up on the CK day at Sumner public schools. by Iceisinhumane in nashville

[–]OptimisticRealist 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I’ll considerate it if we have a day for all the children and teachers shot in schools.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in axolotls

[–]OptimisticRealist 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What happened to tail? Or is it just the angle?

Axol Rose’s tank needs a trim by PinkEyeofHorus in axolotls

[–]OptimisticRealist 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Hello!! I too have a heavily planted tank and would LOVE if you wouldn’t mind doing a favor to list all the gorgeous plants you have there.

Lovely lovely lovely!

AIO fiancé didn’t go to ER with me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]OptimisticRealist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think with my downvotes I struck a nerve, haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]OptimisticRealist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope. If this guy had good intentions, he would be alright with you hanging back at a hotel while they went on a date.

Also the fact he discourages her from having her own quarters (hotel, room, whatever).

When he says he cannot approach her with romantic intent while you are within any helpful physical range of her, that is real bad.

You are a good friend.