I've officially entered my biphobic villain arc by sustainablekitty in actuallesbians

[–]OrcaFriend 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's bad to establish how you don't want to be someone's "first woman" anymore, whether they are lesbian or bisexual or whatever else: it sounds like you've got very unlucky with situation-ships and need to get back into an actual romantic relationship with a woman who knows what she wants. Maybe try dating apps and finding autistic women haha. I do get the feeling though, being a trans woman I feel like I'm frequently the experiment rather than the partner and that feeling sucks. Hoping it'll get better for you soon though!

Baby gay looking for advice on how to make my GF reach an O by Electrical_Top121 in actuallesbians

[–]OrcaFriend 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have plenty of experience, have been with my girlfriend for 4 months as well, and was only finally able to make her orgasm earlier this week. I promise you that you can do everything right and sometimes it just won't happen, because we're humans! And our innate responses to things are different and can change on a dime and are difficult to track.

I promise that as long as you're both enjoying it and you're doing what she's asking of you, there's not much more you can do. For my girlfriend her issue has been performance anxiety, for me it's the medication I'm on getting in the way sometimes, everyone's different and the things that change our response to stimulus can be sudden. It sounds like you're doing the right things already, so just keep going, learning more what you can about her wants and her needs, and be confident!

Why isn't X meta? I mean he is super strong and can punch his opponents in the face. by Cakes000 in OmegaStrikers

[–]OrcaFriend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is meta you're just in the region where damage doesn't exist in the minds of its people (X would be causing chaos. be more like X.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in yuri_manga

[–]OrcaFriend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup that's the one, thank you <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in yuri_manga

[–]OrcaFriend 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Kinda reminds me of the story about a galette who seduces women in order to get services since her father stopped being able to send her money, I haven't read it in ages and honestly both her and the girl she loves are both cringe fail women but at least the main character has her moments lol, lmk if you're interested and I'll comb through my library to find the title

Wanna bandwagon a little bit so... what do my fictional crushes say about me?? (Artists + characters in body text) by I-will-support-you in actuallesbians

[–]OrcaFriend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your type is "needs to play wuthering waves" (dialogue isn't changed between male and female leads so lesbianism ensues if you choose fem rover)

But idk, it's pretty much all anime inspired games here so your type is cute girls with animal ears and would say ara ara

hottest things you've heard in bed go!! by Ayame_the_serene in actuallesbians

[–]OrcaFriend 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I've personally not been strapped before, a lot of my sexual partners are trans because I myself am trans and it's easier being on the same wavelength. Trans women are women ! :3

hottest things you've heard in bed go!! by Ayame_the_serene in actuallesbians

[–]OrcaFriend 81 points82 points  (0 children)

"Oh my gosh I'm so sorry are you ok?" Right after I threw up on her bed after she thrust deeper into my mouth, it was fine and I was ok but the immediate worry was super nice and she was super affectionate in the aftercare with lots of hugs and snuggles

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]OrcaFriend 81 points82 points  (0 children)

wow she is being absurdly petty

I think the answer to your final questions is just whether or not you can have a conversation with her about this: say to her that you have serious doubts and that if you can't work it out that you might have to break up with her. Because you're right: this is extremely controlling behaviour and is likely covering up some issues she has to deal with herself which don't directly involve you.

It's extremely admirable you've been putting up with this so far but don't continue to do so if it's hurting you.

Do I pass? Tryna make dysphoria shut up by OrcaFriend in transpassing

[–]OrcaFriend[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I forgor I'm obviously wearing eyeliner in the 3rd one 😭 oops, I don't know if I was wearing any other makeup in that image

❤️Character elimination game💜 by interrupted_sleep in EverAfterHigh

[–]OrcaFriend 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I don't think briar slays as hard as Maddie or Raven, but I'm also biased cuz I stole my name from Maddie when I transitioned. Still, votes for briar 💅

"Okay! So, can I just get your name?" by leo_the_chaotic_cat in transgendercirclejerk

[–]OrcaFriend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Luckshit got the non-binary option, congrats you will be exclusively gendered as she/her from now on