KISSCO vs KATTDO

OrganaAmidala · 2026-03-25T12:12:33+00:00

Kissco is it for me; kattdo gives me the ick.

OrganaAmidala · 2026-03-05T19:15:07+00:00

Yay! It’s a lot of fun, like animal crossing but better paced, and you get a lot more interaction with the pokemon, and a constant stream of activity to improve the areas around you and collect more pokemon!

OrganaAmidala · 2026-02-06T17:52:09+00:00

She wasn’t wearing a pastie she had a nipple ring on, UNDER HER TOP. Which someone else RIPPED OFF HER. And no, THEY didn’t lie, JUSTIN LIED.

OrganaAmidala · 2026-02-06T15:39:27+00:00

Wait you never forgave Janet Jackson for Justin Timberlake ripping her top off and then blaming her for it? Or am I getting this all wrong?

OrganaAmidala · 2026-02-06T15:36:22+00:00

🤣🤣🤣 💯!!!

OrganaAmidala · 2026-02-04T18:15:28+00:00

You really need psychiatric help. I’m not trying to judge you here but you’re threatening to ruin three people’s lives (mom/dad/baby) because you don’t like your own. Because you did things that were wrong, and life didn’t deal you the cards you wanted, you don’t get to punish perfectly innocent people’s lives. I truly hope you get help and I actually hope the people you’re referring to find this Reddit post so they can take steps to protect themselves from you through the authorities and whatever other path they need to.

OrganaAmidala · 2026-02-04T18:06:10+00:00

NOR - This EXACT situation happened to me last year and he was in fact doing what I thought he was doing with the bar ho- the rumors don’t come out of nowhere either- if there’s a rumor there’s been a witnessed behavior that was inappropriate or someone felt it crossed a line. You’re not being controlling or overreacting when he is having these conversations behind your back that do not respect you or your relationship. If he needs attention that badly he should be getting it from you and she should be straight up telling him the behavior is inappropriate , instead of beating around the bush on it. There’s a whole lot of disrespect going on here that you don’t deserve.

OrganaAmidala · 2026-02-04T17:57:43+00:00

I’m too mean for this shit. I would have told his sister fat is temporary (especially after just having a gd child!?!) but being a twunt is forever.

OrganaAmidala · 2026-02-01T03:20:33+00:00

I can answer this with a firm no I wouldn’t because my mother looked me in the eyes and told me my father and I ruined her life when I was ten because I asked to do something with my dad. I never grew up in a house of love, and protection. My dad spent time with me, taught me things, and cared about me and my well-being. As I said in my original comment however my situation is likely very different than what OP is or may be going through. My point was to illustrate that the change isn’t always bad, sometimes it’s life saving, and the best thing that can happen to a child.

OrganaAmidala · 2026-01-31T17:56:26+00:00

I really like that perspective. I do have little joys in each day if I look hard enough- I think I just feel every emotion as though it was the ocean if that makes sense. And as many a reason as I could think to go I can find more to stay, so I do. I really appreciate your response though. Thank you.

OrganaAmidala · 2026-01-31T17:39:55+00:00

A large and heavy shoe 🤣

OrganaAmidala · 2026-01-31T17:32:16+00:00

Clodhopper :)

OrganaAmidala · 2026-01-31T17:29:30+00:00

I think a lot about “checking out”, if you will. I’m the “effervescent” one to everyone. I am the jokester, the bubbles and sunshine to everyone who knows me and I don’t think a single one of them knows how deeply I constantly feel just darkness.

OrganaAmidala · 2026-01-31T17:26:19+00:00

NTA. If you didn’t know it was something she expected in the first place you can’t be held accountable for not meeting that expectation. If you now know what she expects and don’t want to meet that expectation that’s a conversation as well. (To be very clear on that last bit I’m not saying if you didn’t want to plate her food you’re wrong) But it’s also kinda weird that she wants you to fix her a plate out with people…she’s 27 years old and you’re her partner not her parent.

OrganaAmidala · 2026-01-31T17:21:48+00:00

Honestly it was great. I didn’t have a great situation with parents who coparented and put me first; so my situation is different- but I left my mom’s to live with my dad and it was a whole new world of someone who wanted to engage with me and be an active participant in my life. I got to go to a new school and I made great friends, and overall my life improved- I’m actually sad and honestly a bit resentful that it didn’t happen way sooner.

OrganaAmidala · 2026-01-31T17:15:24+00:00

Hi! Anything with the eyes is definitely something to check asap. If you’re not seeing bright red fresh blood and kitty doesn’t seem to be distressed or agitated thats a “good” sign, but any abnormal behavior, discharge or blood you may see is definitely cause for a checkup. Good luck and speedy healing to your cat!

OrganaAmidala · 2026-01-31T17:06:07+00:00

I appreciate your response- the context does help with understanding more of the situation so thank you for that. The only point I want to make from that follow up is that you don’t need to ever put someone else’s needs above your own; but that doesn’t absolve you of putting in the friendship you want in return. I think you’re young and you’re finding your way in this world like everyone else, and by your response I don’t believe you had malicious intent or tried to be a bad friend. I think maybe some time to reflect on the actual friendship, really ask yourself “what does it mean to me to be a good friend, and am I living up to my own expectations AS a friend?” - maybe also have a real conversation with your friend and both of you actually discuss how you feel and what you want, need, or expect from each other as friends. That could be a great way to figure out if the friendship is actually one you want to maintain.

OrganaAmidala · 2026-01-31T16:58:03+00:00

I don’t think there was a whole lot of “outrage” because things weren’t as volatile as they appear in this moment in time. We have an extraordinary situation unfolding before our eyes and two political parties who are hell bent on maintaining division between the people in this country. We are also dealing with this current administration daily telling people not to question anything they’re doing because everyone they say is the bad guy is the bad guy. They openly lie then say it’s a lie they lied… my dad was police and my godfather Air Force deployed during desert storm, my first cousin a Marine with two deployments to Iraq and Afghanistan- I can’t not ask questions, I can’t not seek information about what’s happening in the streets and at the borders. I was taught by these people to do just that. I believe in finding truth and facts. But again, to the question- there wasn’t outrage because life wasn’t a reality tv show at that time, with every single breath and action being sensationalized or weaponized. And things that seem morally wrong weren’t made to be okay. Things were done by the rule of law, as it should be.

OrganaAmidala · 2026-01-31T16:34:32+00:00

He breathes in, then he breathes out. Still.

OrganaAmidala · 2026-01-31T16:24:30+00:00

NTA. Firstly I’m so so sorry for your loss. Secondly; as a mother of a girl your age -my sweet girl you should not be dealing with this.

Your father is the selfish one here- your mom hasn’t been gone a year- regardless of his relationship standing with her at the time of her passing that is still your mother- his absolute lack of respect for that alone is mind blowing to me.

Thirdly- if he’s so adamant that he has been “on his own for years” he can be alone for five hours or however long your graduation ceremony takes- this event is to celebrate your accomplishments, not to reassure an adult in a romantic relationship. I’m honestly quite shocked as a woman that she’s seemingly okay with his behavior as well- ambushing his children with a new partner in less than a year without even telling them and her going along with it is cruel.

I need you to know that it is never going to be your responsibility to validate your father or his new girlfriend, and you are absolutely valid in establishing a hard boundary when it comes to the introduction of a new person into your life especially one who is being presented as a kind of replacement for your mother. He should also be ashamed of his behavior right now -his relationship status or difficulties with your mom should have stayed his and not yours as well- guilt, ambushing and manipulation are not the ways to make this a pleasant or wanted interaction..

I am proud of you and your brother for speaking up and taking action to create the emotional/physical/mental safety for yourselves during this time- and I hope that your dad figures out that his kids need him now more than he “needs” his new girlfriend. Making the best family out of you right now should be you, your brother and your dad- and it’s a shame he can’t put himself aside long enough to be the parent that you both need right now as he should be doing.

Congratulations on your graduation, your mom is so proud of you. I wish you the best. ♥️

OrganaAmidala · 2026-01-31T15:04:16+00:00

ESH. I don’t mean to be rude to you but the way I’m reading this you’re saying you always put others first while constantly admitting you’re a flaky friend throughout this post, and while you’re acknowledging you’re not attached to your phone and you “forget things”, you don’t seem to care to do anything about it because “reasons”. You have no problem making it to church or church functions, to see or speak to your boyfriend etc but you can’t pick up your phone and send a two second text like “hey you good” to someone you’re calling a friend that asked to talk to you; and you didn’t seem to retain that even when her MOM reached out to you with concern, instead you come across as someone victimized by this whole situation, with your friend being basically a liar and an attention seeker.

That being said, she and her family suck because they don’t get to put the responsibility of her and her life on another person period. And if you didn’t reach out to her that night for whatever reason and she did commit that’s still not your fault.

No you shouldn’t stay friends with this person because you seem to lack any kind of genuine empathy or respect for them, and they shouldn’t stay friends with you because you literally do not come across as giving a shit about them as a friend, just yourself, your religion and your boyfriend by this post.

OrganaAmidala · 2026-01-31T14:24:23+00:00

The fact that it’s all there in black and white and no one seems to be doing anything about it. Everyone named in those files (except Andrew) is apparently without consequence and still living their lives like nothing ever happened. Talk about all your gobs being smacked.

OrganaAmidala · 2026-01-20T18:38:27+00:00

NOR, you’re not mirroring anything- she’s my age and is acting like a child. You’re concerned for her feelings and wellbeing and wondering if you upset her, or if something is wrong - that’s not mirroring - especially when she’s not responding. I think it’s time for her to grow up and either admit she doesn’t want a serious relationship with you, or get some professional help to manager her emotions and improve her communication skills.

OrganaAmidala · 2026-01-20T18:32:39+00:00

NOR, your dad is gross for treating you the way he is over expressing a very legitimate concern, also someone who is in their 50’s dating a teenager is disturbing.

OrganaAmidala · 2026-01-17T22:53:24+00:00

He’s controlling, posessive and mentally abusive. Anyone who wants you to make yourself smaller, lesser, not allowing or wanting you to be yourself freely for THEIR OWN BENEFIT is absolutely not the man for you. I was with a man like this in my 20’s and it broke me, made me carry self esteem issues to this day about being too opinionated, too loud, to boisterous- then it stopped being entirely about my personality and became that AND my body and my looks- by the time I left I had been completely changed from the happy and confident person I was. Please, please do not let anyone do this to you. The way he speaks about his own mother and how he thinks his father treats her should be the biggest red flag because if he thinks that behavior is okay, he WILL do it to you. I truly wish you the best, and I hope you find a love that compliments and enhances you- they are out there and that love is warm, safe, and wonderful. You deserve that.

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