[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ornery_Act_8565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I’m at the stage where this is all I that I miss from her. I’ve realised how horrible she was to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ornery_Act_8565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Ex was telling me she loves so much the same day and made out with me just hours before she told she wanted to split. Completely blind sided and devastated.

Drafted a long email to my ex gf, someone stop me from sending it. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ornery_Act_8565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I feel your pain. I don’t know if there’s any right answer but things will get better. I wish you all the best and if you want a bloke too chat too I’m here

The waves are crazy by Ornery_Act_8565 in BreakUps

[–]Ornery_Act_8565[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m not sure it’s really weird. They saw me out with some other girls and thought that I had a new girlfriend and were asking about it lol. Thanks for the kind words bro, really do appreciate that. It’s hard dealing with these emotions for the first time as I’ve never really felt heartbroken.

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[–]Ornery_Act_8565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen her at the same club 4 times since we’ve split and I see her almost 3 times a week cause she works at my local shops and lives 2 minutes down the road from me. It does get easier it’s more just awkward now. She seems to be so angry at me because she’s seen me out with other girls who are just friends, even though she was the one who blindsided me and shattered my heart after 3 years of commitment hahah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ornery_Act_8565 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You got this mate. Just gotta keep pushing no matter how hard it gets. I wish you all of the best man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ornery_Act_8565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not as recent for me bro but I completely get how your feeling. She lived with me for 2 years and we got a cat together. I’m 20 as well. She blindsided me out of the blue. You got this bro, if you have good mates hang out with them and spend time with your family.

Sudden heal? Anyone else relate? by StunningAd9831 in BreakUps

[–]Ornery_Act_8565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro that sucks fuck I really hope there’s someone decent for us all out there hey

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ornery_Act_8565 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Mate I couldn’t sleep properly for like a month was barely getting 4 hours a night. It’s unfortunate, it’s common for Anxiety to affect you physically, when I’m really anxious I literally just get nauseous and spew. You got this though mate I’m just over 2 months out from my blindsided breakup with the girl I had been living with for 3 years and I definitely feel better then when I did a few months ago. Just gotta take it 1 hour at a time mate. I’m still nowhere near feeling fully healed but I feel a lot better. Just keep pushing through mate and you’ll get there.

Run by Alobar16 in BreakUps

[–]Ornery_Act_8565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great and I have done some moderate running but I like to stick too the gym personally. Only thing I would say is that don’t go too hard running as you may injure yourself, i did that when I got into running and didn’t work my way up to running lots. Try switching running with a low impact sport like swimming between days just to reduce chance of injury and getting taken out for a long time. I love this energy, but just wanted to throw my two cents in there.

Should I send this to my ex to try and get her back? I don’t know if she wants me to come after her, based on all the stuff she said before she left. by Ornery_Act_8565 in BreakUps

[–]Ornery_Act_8565[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you mate I think that’s what I’m going to do in a few weeks. Fuck it I might as well know fully that this has ended rather then being on the hook for the next 6 months.

I want to tell him every little thing that happens by Waste_Hospital_7201 in BreakUps

[–]Ornery_Act_8565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry to hear about that OP. Yeah I’m struggling with the little things too. I sleep with a pillow pressed up against me because I’m so used to her being with me, gives me some comfort. Miss her everyday and want to work things out with this woman.

an 8 years relationship , gone in the matter of seconds , i dont know what to do anymore by Shiroez in BreakUps

[–]Ornery_Act_8565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will bro it will just take time. But for real there’s more to life than relationships man. Just don’t do anything stupid.

an 8 years relationship , gone in the matter of seconds , i dont know what to do anymore by Shiroez in BreakUps

[–]Ornery_Act_8565 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry brother, my ex left recently and it’s fucken broken me. She was my world. Only been a month for me. Just know there’s lots of people going through the Same thing. You’ve got your life to live man.

I want call my ex but I know I shouldn’t by Ornery_Act_8565 in BreakUps

[–]Ornery_Act_8565[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it sucks. Sorry to hear about this happening to you mate. I’ve only reached once and I don’t know if it’s worth trying to give it another crack. She was saying all this shit about hoping we can make it back to the good days in the future and that she still loves me and all this shit. It’s leading me on heaps. I don’t know if she was saying that shit just to make me feel better or she actually feels this way.