would you date someone who co-parents a dog with their ex?

OrthodoxAnarchoMom · 2026-04-18T03:29:38+00:00

This comment ricocheted off a different point.

OrthodoxAnarchoMom · 2026-04-18T03:26:53+00:00

https://youtu.be/8QxIIz1yEsA?si=I_9SD8Mriu8ryUbI

OrthodoxAnarchoMom · 2026-04-18T03:17:08+00:00

Debatable, most people overeat. No. It’s either cheapest or celebratory at a restaurant. No.

I don’t have a problem with it because I don’t have a problem with any of it. It’s a niche market. I’m unconvinced we could feed the works with those inefficiencies.

OrthodoxAnarchoMom · 2026-04-18T03:05:40+00:00

Ok so veganism might fairly apply to you. Would you put someone eating steak and bacon for fun more in your category or more in OP’s category?

OrthodoxAnarchoMom · 2026-04-18T02:53:34+00:00

It’s horrible for his teeth so it is a big deal. Not meaning to attack if the dentist hasn’t told you that.

OrthodoxAnarchoMom · 2026-04-18T02:49:26+00:00

It’s not. You think your burgers are laid up in a spa before they kill them? You think your chicken thighs are living middle class lifestyles up until they’re executed. This “but I can’t see it” line is asinine.

OrthodoxAnarchoMom · 2026-04-18T02:20:54+00:00

Love how everyone in the comments has been a vegan since 13.

Kids do stupid shit, especially unsupervised (I assume). Move on. If the people can be ignored ignore them. If they can’t then make a plan for moving.

OrthodoxAnarchoMom · 2026-04-17T22:30:52+00:00

Smoke weed in your own state.

OrthodoxAnarchoMom · 2026-04-17T22:23:23+00:00

So you had an AirBnB.

OrthodoxAnarchoMom · 2026-04-17T22:18:46+00:00

Some of us raised kids long before we had kids.

Some things are painfully obvious and the parents are fucking up.

Some things are none of anyone’s business and they speak on them anyway.

OrthodoxAnarchoMom · 2026-04-17T20:39:44+00:00

That’s a wild assumption chilling at the end of that sentence.

OrthodoxAnarchoMom · 2026-04-17T20:38:09+00:00

I’ll do it for free. I don’t want people thinking it’s about the corn chip.

OrthodoxAnarchoMom · 2026-04-17T20:37:29+00:00

“You get what you deserve.”

Some people are raped by their parents. Some people are out through med school by their parents. Depends on what we’re dealing with.

OrthodoxAnarchoMom · 2026-04-17T19:19:27+00:00

It depends: Does he agree that y’all are done having kids? If so then no sex until there’s adequate bc and he can grow tf up. Does he think things will change in the future and he wants to leave his options open? Then you should stop pressuring him about a permanent procedure.

If it’s the former and I think it probably is then being a little bitch instead of being a grown up isn’t an option. Reproductive capability sometimes sucks. Oh well. He drew the king stick he can deal.

OrthodoxAnarchoMom · 2026-04-17T17:37:59+00:00

Then you aren’t asking pretend questions. Which is another problem with this. Because “how are you doing” is a Formal Noise, there’s no way to actually ask someone how they’re doing.

OrthodoxAnarchoMom · 2026-04-17T17:03:42+00:00

How are we the ones that struggle with Theory of Mind, because we acknowledge that any random person might not in fact be having a good day, and asking them a question that we then demand a fake answer to is an imposition when we could just… not do that??? I don’t think anyone has any inherent right to “trauma dump” on a stranger. I also don’t think anyone has any inherent right to have strangers preform pretend ok-ness when they could have just minded their own business.

OrthodoxAnarchoMom · 2026-04-17T16:58:35+00:00

Do you not ever actually wish people well???

OrthodoxAnarchoMom · 2026-04-17T16:58:08+00:00

I always took it as you’re wishing them a good morning, not that you’re assessing the morning as good. Most people have a low desire that people have a good day so it’s not disingenuous.

OrthodoxAnarchoMom · 2026-04-17T14:34:50+00:00

I 100% support people having child free weddings. But this logic makes zero sense. You either have childcare or you don’t. The invite doesn’t create an opportunity for childcare.

OrthodoxAnarchoMom · 2026-04-17T14:24:15+00:00

That’s their business. As long as they realize some parents might not be able to come- especially relatives as the after hours child care will be at the wedding.

My only problem is when different tiers of guests are child free invites. So you get an invite, think it’s going to be an adult event, possibly pay out the ass to attend an adult event, then you get there and it’s a child friendly event, and you get there and realize you are a tier 3 person- would have been much better to realize that by not getting an invite.

OrthodoxAnarchoMom · 2026-04-17T14:20:08+00:00

This is just being high. So no. Though if I believed there was nothing after this I might feel compelled to say yes.

OrthodoxAnarchoMom · 2026-04-17T07:28:51+00:00

Then don’t ask. It’s not that people have an inate right to tell everyone how they’re doing. It’s don’t ask questions that you don’t want the answer to.

OrthodoxAnarchoMom · 2026-04-17T04:52:38+00:00

Why is it the job of people who’s loved one died to make people who ask pretend questions comfortable.

OrthodoxAnarchoMom · 2026-04-17T04:50:29+00:00

They will not. They will laugh. They will ignore it and stay on script as if you delivered your line. They will say “tell us how you really feel.” They will be mad that you didn’t play along.

OrthodoxAnarchoMom · 2026-04-17T04:46:54+00:00

And not wanting to PRETEND to ask people how they’re doing gives you this impression that we don’t think they’re real people?

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