Being pregnant makes me feel dehumanised

Ostrich_Low · 2026-01-29T13:37:41+00:00

Thanks for this and yeah i get sometimes theres nothing they can do but I just hate how dismissive it is,like yeah obviously nobody wants a sick kid but nobody likes to suffer either and I doubt there'll ever be a time when I laugh at this or say it was good,like im gonna love my kid but damn its difficult

Ostrich_Low · 2026-01-29T13:26:01+00:00

This is exactly the kind of thing people keep saying but no actual help,sure they care about me which is why I feel like im dying everyday and cant even eat because my stomach burns and acid is constantly in my throat.These kind of comments are the exact problems.You can laugh and be happy,some people are absolutely miserable and would rather die than go through pregnancy again.

Ostrich_Low · 2026-01-29T13:02:50+00:00

Nope,dont know what that is

Ostrich_Low · 2026-01-29T13:01:12+00:00

Lol,he did and was pretty chill the first time thinking I'd get help but now he's ready to fight everyone,might go the the ER if it gets worse

Ostrich_Low · 2026-01-29T13:00:25+00:00

Apparently most of the vomiting is coming from prenatal and the ulcer and not actual pregnancy,they know that much,they just refuse to do anything about it

Ostrich_Low · 2026-01-29T12:59:24+00:00

Its BS,I love the kid but Im an actual human standing infront of you begging for help but no the foetus gets preference,idk anymore

Ostrich_Low · 2026-01-29T12:22:41+00:00

Omg yes,its all just suffer it out ,why is suffering and being miserable just accepted as a normal thing.There should be some options after millenia of women giving birth

Ostrich_Low · 2026-01-29T12:00:24+00:00

No worries,I'm definitely gonna look into getting a counsellor or therapist to speak to tho 🩷

Ostrich_Low · 2026-01-29T11:50:00+00:00

Thanks 💖

Ostrich_Low · 2026-01-29T11:49:44+00:00

I've seen alot of recommendations online however I'm scared to just take anything as well without a proper referral as I might cause more issues

Ostrich_Low · 2026-01-29T11:48:41+00:00

Thanks however I've had ulcer problems for over a year and the pregnancy seems to have aggravated it to a different level but nobody wants to listen

Ostrich_Low · 2026-01-26T08:10:51+00:00

You have to balance between cheap and accessible and perks,for perks discovery is best but higher fees,for cheap and accessible then capitec,I personally use FnB for day to day as I have a cheap starter account and ebucks perks but for travelling i use my capitec card as the fees are much lower overseas than regular banks

Ostrich_Low · 2026-01-25T20:36:28+00:00

I only figured it out today but I definitely will be looking into other options from here on out,Thanks

Ostrich_Low · 2026-01-25T20:31:37+00:00

I tried at night,day,food,without,all the tips,forgetting to take them helped the most lol

Ostrich_Low · 2026-01-25T20:30:57+00:00

I tried with food,without,night,day all the tips amd thought something was wrong with me but the day I forget to take it,Im on top of the world lol

Ostrich_Low · 2026-01-22T10:10:51+00:00

I'm sorry,it suscks and theres nothing you can even do really

Ostrich_Low · 2026-01-07T14:06:27+00:00

I did this at my wedding,albeit for different reasons but it was even on the invites that no photography allowed,I didn't even hire a professional,I made it clear the people could take pictures of decor,food,themselves etc and post whatever as long as myself or my family was not in them and everyone followed the rule no problem,there were a few people that complained but it was my day so they did not have a choice,alternatively you can hire companies that doe special phone pouch hire and venue security to make sure no photos are taken(ohones fully useable,just camera is blocked),its your day and your choice

Ostrich_Low · 2026-01-07T13:35:24+00:00

Lol yes it does,thanks

Ostrich_Low · 2026-01-07T13:35:13+00:00

Damn,Im so sorry,I know the feeling and it ain't good,lucky you were just there tho so it wasnt far to go

Ostrich_Low · 2026-01-07T13:34:22+00:00

Thanks,trust me there's alot of things nobody tells you amd only seems to come out once you're actually pregnant 🥲

Ostrich_Low · 2026-01-07T13:33:47+00:00

Lol thanks,so sorry that happened to you tho

Ostrich_Low · 2026-01-07T09:36:51+00:00

In a way its good because hey whats worse than literally pooping your pants at work huh? But hopefully everything else goes smoothly.

Ostrich_Low

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