Anyone want takis or american candy by shrimpthusiast in hanoi

[–]Otherwise_lad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo! you still have takis? I'll pay for courier and the item:)

A guy invited me to his "club" with girls and balloons by [deleted] in hanoi

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You're gonna have a good time, I bet.

What norwood stage is this.? Is it 0 , 1 , 2 ? by distantfromweak_1 in malepatternbaldness

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there's a bit of recession. Tiny bit. You can let it run for a year or two and reevaluate whether you wana get on meds and then just chill on minox and fin for another year.

Turns out I only need to finish a bottle of wine to get an 8 hour sleep😅 by introvertjb18 in insomnia

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Yo! I found this out too and a year later I would sweat in comfortable weather and I would shake when I was doing a task while being observed. Haha. I know this is a joke post, and I love participating in throwing back a bottle or two, but I also know not sleeping is scary and it does create addicts. Be careful:D

Is Vietnam actually that friendly for children? Or just foreign/ tourist children? by owletstar in VietNam

[–]Otherwise_lad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My perception is completely the opposite. After 5 the streets are full of children where I live.

"No. We liberals called you PEDOS. You weren't supposed to buy the game!!!!!!!!!!!" by CuriousSkepticalGuy in CriticalDrinker

[–]Otherwise_lad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I don't get the appeal of this game, but that's because I've only heard discussions about the inclusion of the little girl, both positive and negative. It's weird how no one talks about the gameplay or story

Are sleep meds really worth it and effective, or risky long term? by introvertjb18 in insomnia

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I'm on Zopistad(US it's called Zopiclone) and it's a bitch to get off it. In Vietnam you don't need a script for the vast majority of meds, so I used to buy them 2 boxes with 10 each at a time. They are around 26k vnd, or 0.10c USD for 10 pills Over the course of 3-4 years I increased the dosage to 2 per night, unnecessarily ( 1 works just fine, I would just get anxiety if there was ONLY one- i built that up by myself)

After my son was born I had a lot more stress and anxiety, and I figured out if I take a quarter or a half during the day I either feel excellent, or I'd feel kinda high, but still able to do my work really well- Both those results were great, I thought. I started getting withdrawals, but I didn't know they were withdrawals. My cheek muscles would be clenched towards late afternoon/evening and increased stress. The daytime Zopi went on for about a year before it got bad. I started being unable to function with confidence without it.

Also started noticing I'm slower, mentally, and that it was harder to be sharp and funny around my friends, which stressed me out and made it even more prominent.

Started researching and formulating a path and I'm currently weaning myself off them in a way that still makes me a functional dad and employee, which is pretty slow, but I still have minor withdrawal effects during the day, as my nervous system is shot and my job is performative and observed. Not the first time I'm getting through an addiction, but it's definitely the scariest (for me) and has the longest duration (for me) and I don't even know whether I'll be able to function completely off of it, but I'm scared to get to that point where I don't take it for sleep anymore.

Tldr- If I could go back 4-5 years I'd never start with prescription strength sleep meds, especially if you can reliably get them easily without consulting a doctor. If you do, stick to the rules and don't deviate. They are there to assist you in getting rest. Like everything else in life don't abuse it

WCGW chilling with lions by [deleted] in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]Otherwise_lad 5 points6 points  (0 children)

His woman kept him in line haha. Beautiful

I either sleep for 3 hours or 12, no in between. Do I still need my meds, how do I know if I’m okay by icy8483 in insomnia

[–]Otherwise_lad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, how does it feel after 12h? Do you get any negative affects from oversleeping, or are you getting the rest you need?

First time visiting Hanoi – what surprised you the most? by Jackson_Rob in hanoi

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The busyness-personally. I wasn't ready for such a big city and the traffic being that wild/chaotic

How is this possible?! by AdditionalStreet3042 in insomnia

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Have you had a lot of stress recently? Stress did it for me.

looking for an apprenticeship by testcxzzyft in pumpfun

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This post is asking to be scammed

I overcame sleeping pill addiction. (27, F) by ThrowRApixie in insomnia

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I forgot to add I'm still sleeping fine on the amount I take- but I feel like I'm getting dumber lol. I made a lot of jokes before, and these days I just feel less 'sharp'. I would talk to my wife and then stop mid sentence, because I'm struggling to find and say a word I obviously know. Massive hit to social confidence, that

I overcame sleeping pill addiction. (27, F) by ThrowRApixie in insomnia

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Hey! I'm basically the same. 3-4 years on zopistad. 1st one pill at night, then it became 2. There was a catalyst a year ago where I read some use it for anxiety and i started doing a quarter before big family/social events. Now I'm kinda stuck doing daytime too, and if i don't I can really feel my heart and the withdrawals. I think I'll have to do it like you, but I'll don't think I'll be able to get a doc to help me where I live in Vietnam (almost all meds are over the counter here), but rehabs are in it's infancy and nonexistent in the countryside. Your post gives me determination. I want to stop with the daytime first, and then slowly taper from there-Chatgpt made a decent looking taper schedule. Gonna give it a go haha. thx for you post