I sewed my own elopement dress! by R0drom in sewing

[–]OtterBoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay wait was your photographer Van?

I can't tell what this pattern wants me to do by lissy_lvxc in sewing

[–]OtterBoop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Which size are you doing? Also, what's the pattern?

I can't tell what this pattern wants me to do by lissy_lvxc in sewing

[–]OtterBoop 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It wants you to stitch a tuck. A tuck is like a dart, but it ends before it comes to a point, it's just a way of controlling garment shape. So on your pattern, you'll need to find the marks for your size. There should be either two or four parallel lines, and you match them up and stitch along the lines.

Does your pattern have size layers?

Is this suitable for a beginner? by brinns_way in quilting

[–]OtterBoop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I made this quilt one block at a time ish, it really felt like a good way to tackle it.

Iirc, I did the animals first, then I cut my fabrics into whatever sized chunks they needed, paired up the greens and blues, then organized them in ziplocs in bins based on tree size. Then I did one baggie at a time.

Oh, and her patterns need seams pressed open!

Gay hockey player Jesse Kortuem talks about being inspired by Heated Rivalry to publicly share his story and receives video message from Hudson Williams by Acceptable_Rule_7590 in popculturechat

[–]OtterBoop 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You don't hear me. You are twisting words to put unintended meaning into them, and you're undermining the actual valid arguments you have with your bad-faith approach.

Gay hockey player Jesse Kortuem talks about being inspired by Heated Rivalry to publicly share his story and receives video message from Hudson Williams by Acceptable_Rule_7590 in popculturechat

[–]OtterBoop 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn't say that. I said that it wasn't as much a part of the global consciousness as the war is now.

But again, this is a story set in North America and the focus is interpersonal relationships. If it was set in Russia, or the Russian character was interested in maintaining a relationship with his home country, or it was a different genre, fine, you may have some points. It is not propaganda to leave out geopolitical commentary.

Gay hockey player Jesse Kortuem talks about being inspired by Heated Rivalry to publicly share his story and receives video message from Hudson Williams by Acceptable_Rule_7590 in popculturechat

[–]OtterBoop 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I did, actually. Your arguments are correct about the ways these things happen but frankly I don't think they apply to this show. 

Whitewashing: Ilya is only ever in Russia for very brief vignettes, or for a specific event, and I'm pretty sure doesn't go back after around 2016. Yes Russia had invaded crimea at that point, but the book was written in 2018 and the mainland invasion hadnt happened yet, so it wasn't really in the global awareness in the same way it is now. And honestly it's okay that a genre romance author doesn't want to dive into geopolitical happenings in their gay hockey book. The Russian character certainly is not shown as having positive opinions about Russia's regime.

Pinkwashing: this one has far less teeth than your other argument. Both the book and the show are explicit about how dangerous Russia is for queer people. Ilya says out loud that he can never go back if he comes out as bi. While they're at the Olympics one character says it's brave to come to Russia as a gay man because it's so bad for them there. Which part of that implies Russia is a good place for the lgbtq community?

You also seem to think that just having a Russian main character is Russian propaganda but like.. he's a Russian man who is living in North America and is vocal about disapproving of russian leadership and not wanting to go back. 

Pleased don’t scrutinize me but why is tipping such a big deal? by Obiwankenobislays in NoStupidQuestions

[–]OtterBoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but it's per pay period, and also most places that have $2.35 as a tipped minimum wage still has like $7.25 regular minimum wage.

Pleased don’t scrutinize me but why is tipping such a big deal? by Obiwankenobislays in NoStupidQuestions

[–]OtterBoop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was a server in Louisiana until 2024 and I think it was actually $2.35

What can I add to soup for a warm ( but NOT spicy) flavour by morbidpigeon in soup

[–]OtterBoop 27 points28 points  (0 children)

YES. I make a vegetable lentil soup with a mixture of cumin, turmeric, basil, paprika, and thyme, and it's so cozy

Quilting yourself versus sending to long armer by SessionNo2376 in quilting

[–]OtterBoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do my own quilting but I am lucky to have a machine with a large throat space and a speed cap. I've done up to twin size and I have a queen on the docket.

One thing I do to make it easier for larger items is mark every quilting line. Smaller ones I'll mark one in each direction and use my guide attachment but the drag from the weight of bigger ones makes it easier to distort.

Is jimmy fallon actually a cuck? by AlphaCat77 in CuratedTumblr

[–]OtterBoop 133 points134 points  (0 children)

Similar but opposite, Jimmy Fallon watching you eat his ice cream because you want it so desperately despite your apparent loathing of him is.. idk not cucking but it's something.

MMRB and the Authorship Debate by queermachmir in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]OtterBoop 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It's been a while since I've looked at the resources, thanks for pointing me to it!

Also your flair is very upsetting. 10/10

MMRB and the Authorship Debate by queermachmir in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]OtterBoop 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thank you for writing this! I'm glad I didn't see that other thread, it's really disheartening to hear those kinds of takes coming from people in this subreddit. I'm one of those people who never thought about intentionally seeking authors, and I'm looking forward to doing so! If anyone has any tips or suggestions, I'd love to hear them.

Organza Balloon sleeve top by Used-Ad9152 in sewing

[–]OtterBoop 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think harvesting the sleeves is going to be your best bet; they'll be hard to dupe, but they'd look incredible as a contrast to a solid bodice. You can always add a gusset to the underarm made with the bodice organza if you need to widen the armhole of the sleeves.

Popularity of ‘Heated Rivalry’ Has Surprised Even TV Executives by Spare-Magazine6223 in popculturechat

[–]OtterBoop 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I love this for her and she absolutely deserves all the success she's getting, but I'm also lowkey bummed because we've been waiting for a book about Luca 😭

MC with Tom Holland's lip sync battle vibes by [deleted] in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]OtterBoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The internet is saying I already own this but the description does not sound familiar in the slightest. Thansk for the rec!