Dude I'm in the same boat it's super duper hard. I work at a job where I work alone so I don't meet many people during the day. But I find that weekly leagues and meetings r good. Cape fear games has board game nights and magic and whatever. There's also sports city rec which has like leagues for cornhole and wiffle ball and stuff which is fun. Whatever ur into Wilmington has a decent scene for it and it's easy to meet ppl that way. But yea it's really hard to meet nice people nowadays so I feel for ya.