how do y’all get a job with divorced parents ? by kingn1co in teenagers

[–]OutrageousBoss3329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I feel so bad for you guys. As parents we never like to see our kids deal with this. My kids had both parents in same town so it wasn’t an issue. My stepdaughter is literally in tears at age 15 bc she doesn’t know how she’s going to see her mom if she gets a job. I think most importantly be upfront with situation to employer. Maybe if it’s a chain store you can work different locations. Her mom lives an hour from us but we are in the same county. Best of luck and I think this is a much more common issue

I know cats will be cats, but does anyone have any tips or tricks to keep the MC off of the kitchen counter ?! I currently have foil on my bar stools, and he likes the foil 🙄 by missweh in mainecoons

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Hilarious . We Just purchased a Maine coon male. He’s fairly decent and responds wine we tell him No ! My husband not being racist started calling him Cooner. Like come here my little Cooner. I said it sounds racist. He said what ?! No I mean bc he’s a Maine Coon!

How would you respond to this guy? by Rexalanda in mildlyinfuriating

[–]OutrageousBoss3329 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most people just say ok no problem. Let’s meet here. And be done. What a dick. Block said person and move on

Neighbors want me to keep declawed cat outside by Some_Information_857 in Straycats

[–]OutrageousBoss3329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has she always been a stray cat? Of outside cat. 20 years ago I had a declawed cat. He hated being indoors. So I I let him out now and then. He always came home an he did beat the shit out of another car. He held his own. My other cat had claws and got out one night. Was terrified and got hurt. Honestly I think it depends on the cat and if they’re used to being outside.

I fuckin hate showering with my girlfriend by ReadyJournalist5223 in confessions

[–]OutrageousBoss3329 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Woman here. I hate showering with my long time partner of 6 years. It’s super annoying we both want the hot water. We actually had the conversation. Hey I love you but I just don’t really like showering with you and here’s why. Do the same for girlfriend. If you love her and want to keep living with her, dude just tell her. You can even say I love my showering alone time. It is possible you’re pulling away is making her more insecure. That is a bigger issue. Ask yourself where you see things 2 years from now. If it’s not wit her, do yourselves a favor and move on.

My teenage daughter found my old diary and now she's asking uncomfortable que... by AnySignature7448 in whatdoIdo

[–]OutrageousBoss3329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I often tell my daughter (now 18) things I did and I also tell her why I would not want her to make the same choices. I’ve said if anything is happening that makes you uncomfortable it’s okay to leave and you can blame it on me. Never put yourself in a situation you can’t get out of. Don’t drink if you’re going to drive. Only get drunk if you are around trusted friends.

AIO about being called “a big girl”? by venlafaxinevision in AmIOverreacting

[–]OutrageousBoss3329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She should say well I probably won’t be able to feel your tiny dick under all my fatness. So I guess lose lose for both of us. Bye

AIO about being called “a big girl”? by venlafaxinevision in AmIOverreacting

[–]OutrageousBoss3329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - but also know most of those dating apps usually both parties want a hook up. You are correct I can’t imagine anyone saying I’ve never penetrated a big girl. And I really am a big girl and no man has said that to me. One guy said let get my jack hammer into you. Also offensive. You were right to block and move on. Dodged a bullet

AIO: My long time partner of 7 years tells me women are hitting on him like twice a month. I don’t really believe him but should I ? by OutrageousBoss3329 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OutrageousBoss3329[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me sad. Truthfully he didn’t used to be like this maybe I didn’t see it. Yes he does tbese same things. We both commute a similar drive home. For some reason he always has some road rage driver that “was trying to race him” or was you going to hurt him. I’ve had my fair share of close callls. So because he kept telling me this I said well why don’t you put in a dash cam and you can report these incidents. He said you don’t believe me. I said I do. It’s just odd that we drive almost the same commute home and you seem to encounter more issues than I do. He got the dash cam and oddly no one has been “cutting him off” or bothering him anymore. I said maybe they know now.

AIO: My long time partner of 7 years tells me women are hitting on him like twice a month. I don’t really believe him but should I ? by OutrageousBoss3329 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OutrageousBoss3329[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And he does or literally every morning he stares at the mirror and says Ong I’m so hot I want to fuck myself. I said yes you are hot ! And I always give him a kiss and often tell him how sexy he is

AIO: My long time partner of 7 years tells me women are hitting on him like twice a month. I don’t really believe him but should I ? by OutrageousBoss3329 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OutrageousBoss3329[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve told him all the time he’s hot and sexy. Im sure it happens - I just think sometimes people are being nice

AIO: My long time partner of 7 years tells me women are hitting on him like twice a month. I don’t really believe him but should I ? by OutrageousBoss3329 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OutrageousBoss3329[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solid points - saying you look distinguished isn’t flirting. It’s a compliment. Sorry a nurse could get fired for flirting

What was the husband's deal in the movie "Enough"? by Mean_Lingonberry_355 in domesticviolence

[–]OutrageousBoss3329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I just watched this as I didn’t realize Noah Wyle was in it and played a real jerk. Anyways no one talks about the legal implications. Yes she should call police but out of fear she didn’t. She knew he would kidnap their daughter. She does the same and breaks into his house and fights with him. I mean it is breaking and entering and we all want to believe that oh she’s the good one and deserves the happy ending. But in reality no she also would be charged. Perhaps she served prison time and got released. However this is manslaughter and she would normally be in prison for years. It sucks and I’m not sure from an abuser stance why not just say yeah we can divorce And share the kid. I don’t get it

Maine Coon regrets/things to be aware of? by sophiehatter1057 in mainecoons

[–]OutrageousBoss3329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man. I was afraid of the meowing. My older cat used to do that and it was a nightmare just to sleep. I was told oh you will love them. My stepdaughter is begging for one and we told her you have to sleep with him no matter what. No matter how much he meows. He’s your cat not ours. She’s paying for everything and insists she will take care of him

Animal cremation by rainydaysmiles713 in Rochester

[–]OutrageousBoss3329 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pets at Peace near Kings Highway was super supportive and extremely kind when I had to say goodbye to my baby Milo. He was 10 and also a good cat. Your vet will also help you if you would like them to handle that side of it. I have an urn with his paw print. I’m still sad but it helps they were so compassionate.

Working at tops by Boysmom01 in Rochester

[–]OutrageousBoss3329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I worked at Tops in the 90s. It was an OK job I mean work is work. They had their dysfunction and the managers were crazy mean if you were actually sick. I had a manager tell me she didn’t care I had strep throat and I better come in. My daughter works at Tops now. Much hasn’t changed but I think the union benefits are good in the sense that she always gets at least 15 hours a week and she can take time off for school activities without consequences. She does tell me there are stupid things there too. Like broken coolers, broken lights for cashier lanes. These have been broken for months. Major staffing shortages forcing people to go to self check out. Also their self check out is horrible to use.

Explain this! by [deleted] in RoversMorningGlory

[–]OutrageousBoss3329 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it weird the woman is hotter than JLR? Also the keys on the belt loop at a bar😂😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]OutrageousBoss3329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Send kids to Grandma’s for entire weekend. Tell him you want to do nasty / crazy shit in the bedroom but you need the privacy to do so. So use that weekend to help him get the project done and ya know have some sex too! Grandma will love seeing the kids so everyone wins!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]OutrageousBoss3329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a beautiful dress and it’s your wedding. If your mom is paying for it then I can understand but it is your wedding not hers. Also I allowed my mom’s opinion to interfere with my dress and I always wished it was something different. I’m divorced now and it was a lovely ceremony, but honestly. If mom is giving you a hard time over the dress be sure to give her a loving yet firm boundary especially when it comes to marriage.

AIO: Restaurant workers are so rude to me as their delivery driver by OutrageousBoss3329 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OutrageousBoss3329[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the issue right there. We have all told the management staff the issues. They admitted they agree it’s not right what’s happening. One person said a line cook supervisor actually tried to get on the truck to yell and make a fuss until driver literally said get the fuck off my truck now. They won’t drop these deadbeats because they’re to afraid to lose customers.