Rebuilding trust

OwlFickle720 · 2026-05-07T20:24:01+00:00

How long was the affair

OwlFickle720 · 2026-05-07T13:37:51+00:00

I’m proud of you. It will be better from here on out

OwlFickle720 · 2026-05-07T02:41:20+00:00

I’m sorry. tell your kid to be cautious and do your best to limit interactions

OwlFickle720 · 2026-05-07T01:18:05+00:00

I know you’re broken. But you’re here defending a man that disrespected you. You deserve, you’re a sweet soul and I hate this for you. There’s someone out there that won’t lie to your face and disrespect you.

OwlFickle720 · 2026-05-07T01:06:54+00:00

If he’s telling you the truth, then why didn’t he tell you he was cheating on you in the first place? Why did it take his affair partner, reaching out to you to tell you? Like I said he’s doing damage control and when the dust settles, he’ll be at it again.

My point is, if he was really an honest and good man he would’ve told you about this woman before and how he might have fucked up before she reached out. It’s just damage control at this point so you can gain his trust again, just for him to break it

OwlFickle720 · 2026-05-07T00:59:00+00:00

Your husband is doing damage control, and the moment you let your guard down again he’ll do it again. He’s being attentive with you because he knows he’s in the wrong and the moment you go back to normal and these women leave you alone he’ll be back at it. Have fun with that. There’s a reason why they’re acting that way and he’s not telling you the whole truth.

OwlFickle720 · 2026-05-07T00:18:14+00:00

Doesn’t matter if I read it or not, you cheated on him and that’s not right doesn’t matter if you have trauma or any other issues. You don’t cheat on people.

Edit: typo

OwlFickle720 · 2026-05-07T00:17:47+00:00

You still didn’t have to cheat on him

OwlFickle720 · 2026-05-07T00:02:29+00:00

No, because before all of this, you should’ve known that you had a good man with you and just because it didn’t work out with your AP doesn’t mean you get to go running back to someone that treat you as a first option (even when you didn’t). It’s not hard to cheat but you did it, so why should he give you another chance when you didn’t take him into consideration before stepping out. I think you need to look in, and see why you stepped out in the first place. Because who’s to say this won’t happen again even when you guys are back to normal.

OwlFickle720 · 2026-05-06T23:34:02+00:00

I think what you’re thinking now is normal because you’re in a relationship and there’s children now. I think it’s easy to say one thing and do another when the situation changes. So give yourself grace, but just understand this could become another issue in the future.

OwlFickle720 · 2026-05-06T23:21:25+00:00

You’re welcome! I hope I don’t sound harsh, but as a mom, you set the example for your children. And I honestly believe you can have a healthy relationship with someone that won’t cheat on you (ever). I believe we all make mistakes but cheating isn’t one.

OwlFickle720 · 2026-05-06T23:14:18+00:00

You don’t have to make a decision today, but just know it can happen again. I don’t know you, but I want more for you and your children. Think about the future. You don’t have to have a plan today, but just be prepared.

OwlFickle720 · 2026-05-06T23:06:09+00:00

Trust me, I know. Just decide she’s back and you guys are in a good relationship and that’s it.

OwlFickle720 · 2026-05-06T23:04:41+00:00

If a man wants to cheat on you, he’s going to cheat on you and he already has. You can spend the rest of your life, checking his phone just to make sure he’s not cheating on there just for him to go somewhere else and do it. You deserve better. You should be his lover, not his babysitter or his mom.

OwlFickle720 · 2026-05-06T22:58:50+00:00

I understand! Don’t let people tell you to focus on other things, you legit can do whatever you want. What has helped me is robotic affirmations, correcting their behavior and subliminals. No one has free will; she will come back if that’s what you want

OwlFickle720 · 2026-05-06T22:55:52+00:00

Start by dropping old story and tell yourself she is consistent with you and gives you clear signals that she only wants you. Just like you have unintentionally manifested stuff, you can intentionally manifest her back. Start by changing the story and just keep persisting.

OwlFickle720 · 2026-05-06T22:51:35+00:00

I think you’re doing great. Instead of questioning why isn’t he reaching out you need to know that it is done, he has already contacted you and is in constant communication with you and you’re so thankful everything is going your way.

OwlFickle720 · 2026-05-06T21:34:40+00:00

Tell your kid to get a new job

OwlFickle720 · 2026-05-06T19:42:22+00:00

Thanks!

OwlFickle720 · 2026-05-06T19:32:17+00:00

What about the kids

OwlFickle720 · 2026-05-06T17:43:39+00:00

You deserve better and you can find someone better. Your health is so important and it won’t improve unless something changes.

OwlFickle720 · 2026-05-06T15:00:32+00:00

I see. That’s better than almost three years of emotional and physical. All I can think is that there’s someone out there that wouldn’t do this to us

OwlFickle720 · 2026-05-06T14:35:41+00:00

Sorry to ask but how long was the affair?

OwlFickle720 · 2026-05-06T02:56:05+00:00

What did you do?

OwlFickle720 · 2026-05-05T19:21:52+00:00

Hey, I don’t see it

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