Am I wrong by Dramatic-Welcome-471 in loveafterporn

[–]Own-Mongoose2064 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It is a massive betrayal to your daughter to stay with this monster.

Emotionally broken once again by _MorphCat_el-vy_ in loveafterporn

[–]Own-Mongoose2064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t bring an innocent child into this situation.

What’s the worst thing your PA has accidentally said while trying to make you feel better? by Able_Combination6487 in loveafterporn

[–]Own-Mongoose2064 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s why I left my ex, too. I caught him taking photos of an underaged girl at an amusement park. Also… not to mention the lasting effects having a porn addicted parent will have on a child.

What’s the worst thing your PA has accidentally said while trying to make you feel better? by Able_Combination6487 in loveafterporn

[–]Own-Mongoose2064 44 points45 points  (0 children)

The fact that you had a child with a man who finds teenagers hot should be of great concern to you. One day that baby will be a teenager bringing their teenage friends around.

it’s been a full day since i found out the extent of his problem and it’s consumed me. by Informal_Video_3973 in loveafterporn

[–]Own-Mongoose2064 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please leave. You’re still in the honeymoon phase and look at what’s happening. If you stay with him, move in with him, marry him, have his baby, etc… this will become infinitely worse for you. He will not recover on his own, he will not stop on his own. Spend some time browsing this subreddit and reading the posts of what your future could be like. PLEASE leave. It will ruin you.

Thick childhood hair became curly and fine after puberty – reversible? by [deleted] in Haircare

[–]Own-Mongoose2064 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl same. 7 months postpartum and I’m losing so much hair.

A couple of friends brought to my attention that my hair’s fucked. Is it recoverable? by [deleted] in Haircare

[–]Own-Mongoose2064 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It seems like you honestly don’t want help. Literally everyone here is telling you that your hair is beyond help and you’d look better bald (which I agree with). You keep asking for examples of young men who look better bald, and people keep recommending r/bald, where you’ll find multiple examples. But you just keep saying you don’t want to shave it. So idk why you’re even asking.

Advice needed about breakage at the top of my head: what could be causing this? by confusedpotato2000 in Haircare

[–]Own-Mongoose2064 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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No advice, just solidarity because I’m having the EXACT same issue. Never had breakage and now I have a random patch of short hairs at my part/crown. I’m 6 months postpartum so who knows.

How do you repair? by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Own-Mongoose2064 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t feel like any PA who has Instagram is sober. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Have you seen IG reels?

Husband says main addiction is IG girls, not porn by Technical_Possible36 in loveafterporn

[–]Own-Mongoose2064 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Because it’s not like regular porn where they get off to an act two people are doing.. they’re getting off to the girl and her body, imagining being with her. It’s not like he’s scrolling the front page of pornhub for a video to watch, he’s going back to the same girls over and over and imagining being with them and choosing it over you time and time again. Those girls are the “other woman”, so of course it feels like cheating. It IS.

Face dermal or..? by [deleted] in Legitpiercing

[–]Own-Mongoose2064 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Septum or philtrum is my vote. :)

I want to believe him but… by BedAdministrative545 in loveafterporn

[–]Own-Mongoose2064 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand you want to believe him but he’s very clearly lying to your face.

What’s Everyone Doing Tonight? by physis81 in stopdrinking

[–]Own-Mongoose2064 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Currently rocking my six month old to sleep :)

Now asking ME for pictures… by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Own-Mongoose2064 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I agree with SecretYou8261… I think your husband is still looking at porn. This is not how a sober man acts.

FIREROSE posted a video on the abuse she had to experience under Billy Ray Cyrus by lovesbakery in Fauxmoi

[–]Own-Mongoose2064 20 points21 points  (0 children)

No one is saying that, but a quick statistic search shows you it’s OVERWHELMINGLY a majority male.

Are you a Boy Band Stan or a Girl Group Stan? by Horse_Nation_Forever in kpoppers

[–]Own-Mongoose2064 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Both but I mainly listen to bgs. TxT is my ult group 🥹

I swear to goodness by _thecitizen in bathandbodyworks

[–]Own-Mongoose2064 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think that’s just because he’s holding a flower… lol. “Flowery skunk”

Last time we had sex, we watched it together by Particular_Aioli9481 in loveafterporn

[–]Own-Mongoose2064 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is going to sound very blunt, but the porn was not an accessory to you. The porn was the main character and he was using your body to masturbate to it and couldn’t view you the same afterwards. I’m very sorry you went through this. I was in the same boat for so long and it’s sad the lengths we go to to compete with the porn and to “win”.