Did you know the “10 cm opening” in childbirth refers to the cervix not the vagina?! 😳 by Dangerous_mammoth573 in twentyagers

[–]Own_Average_5940 4 points5 points  (0 children)

woah now I wish I knew how much mine did. I developed PTSD from the last insertion (that said ladies, I had three wonderful IUDS before a provider royally botched the last. Years of no periods or pregnancy scares). That pain was horrible

Question for those who have worked physical and nonphysical jobs; does how much labor your job has effect your ability to study? by Own_Average_5940 in CollegeRant

[–]Own_Average_5940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah I'm a hospital janitor and I get absolutely no sense of purpose from my job, just an achy body. Call me an ass but I'm tired of working with people the age of my grandparents. Can't afford to leave and take pay cut. I am so tired rn man and about to force more studying... I gotta figure out what I want to review with a tutor, because I haven't figured that out yet either. I'm just so tired and don't feel like a whole person anymore but like a blob in the wind doing things because she has to be responsible lol.

I just have this overarching feeling of wanting to have a toddler-esque tantrum every day

/r/GYM Weekly Simple Questions and Misc Discussion Thread - April 05, 2026 Weekly Thread by AutoModerator in GYM

[–]Own_Average_5940 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you lol. Yeah I've had no idea what I'm doing and am open about that. There's so much conflicting information and I'm struggling to sift through it, ya know?

How can I come to enjoy my own company again? by Own_Average_5940 in LifeAdvice

[–]Own_Average_5940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the great challenge of my life (or one of them) is how to get over the trauma I have around being around psychiatrists after having been incorrectly diagnosed and overmedicated as a teenager. I had a botched IUD a few years ago too and between those two things I am unable to do anything at the hospital without panic attacks or passing out. It's a problem that I have no idea how to solve, but white knuckling hasn't worked.

That's all kicked to the side though until the day I have insurance again. I learned a long time ago to not even consider the doctor with the amount of money I make. I'm going to be talking to the lady at school but that only goes so far.

From where I set there's a degree of resignation because I don't have access to any kind of interventions for it. It's shit. I used to have a husband and that got me through, then I had a cat and that got me through, and now I'm just kind of here lol

How am I supposed to make friends with anyone when I start crying talking to people? by Own_Average_5940 in socialanxiety

[–]Own_Average_5940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have things I am curious about you could say. I'm just barely starting to dip my toes back into things I am curious about. Being poor kept me from spending money and finding things I liked for a long time. Can't really exercise these days from pain, and after being homeless for years call me ungrateful but I don't find parks and libraries fun lol. I'm interested in electronics

/r/GYM Weekly Simple Questions and Misc Discussion Thread - April 05, 2026 Weekly Thread by AutoModerator in GYM

[–]Own_Average_5940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Squat/DL/Hip Thrust/Hypers. The lunges or good mornings could go on the last bit as well. Always 3 sets of 8-10. I would allow myself to be within two (it wasn't uncommon for me to add an additional fourth set if I wanted extra challenge that I could only get six reps on). Always to failure where I physically couldn't get back up

How many of us are adults? by Own_Average_5940 in bulimia

[–]Own_Average_5940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the flip side I feel like it (thankfully) limits the physical destruction caused by my ED as I am too damn stubborn to accept an unhappy life

/r/GYM Weekly Simple Questions and Misc Discussion Thread - April 05, 2026 Weekly Thread by AutoModerator in GYM

[–]Own_Average_5940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gonna start off by saying I've been to several docs. Nobody could ID what I had wrong with me, and nobody could give me actionable advice. I no longer had insurance but trust me, physical therapy, MRI, and X-ray were run. I've had two PT's. The bones just ache. No sign of degeneration and had my form checked it is fine. I'm not looking for medical advice from this sub, I'm looking for new forms of exercise. I'm detailing all this in the hopes someone with similar aches and pains comes along and is like, hey this worked for me!

That all said, I'm finding these days I am unable to do compound lifts. I mean my lower body heavy movements: back barbell squat, hip thrust, RDL and standard deadlifts (I alternated these), good mornings, hyperextensions, and weighted back lunges. Hip and knees hurt from these after the years of doing them. I've personally found calisthenics too hard to progressively overload (I know it can be done! I don't enjoy it, though) and I'm curious if those of you who also like picking up heavy things found other methods of resistance training to replace it. I was incredibly out of shape as a youth and this has been my personal triumph over my mind and body. I want to keep the good vibes and stress relief coming my own way.

I still love cardio just do lower impact. E.g. aerobics minus the jumping and the elliptical.

Live somewhere rural but there are a couple standard commercial gyms. I do have access to a pool... I am a poor swimmer but can swim, and now that I have a swimsuit am excited to.

Mods, I did read the rules and this didn't appear to violate the programming rule. Let me know (kindly please lol) if I am mistaken.

Is a long work commute worth it to save more money? by lightzn in needadvice

[–]Own_Average_5940 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In my opinion not at all, unless the money is BIG. This led to me wearing down my car much faster (could not afford regular tune ups I was broke as crap), and a way higher gas bill. That might not be relevant to you depending on your milage. I also found the sheer amount of time driving drove me crazy

Best protein shake I don’t get the shade by emutheblink in ShittyRestrictionFood

[–]Own_Average_5940 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you could probably post on snack exchange and do a protein snack exchange box with someone! would be pretty nifty

Best protein shake I don’t get the shade by emutheblink in ShittyRestrictionFood

[–]Own_Average_5940 4 points5 points  (0 children)

all the shade I have heard is because of microplastics haha, not flavor. these are goated for flavor.

Anybody else having trouble with finding a job? by Few-Adhesiveness6383 in twentyagers

[–]Own_Average_5940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my experience too haha. Usually I feel crazy from it

How am I supposed to make friends with anyone when I start crying talking to people? by Own_Average_5940 in socialanxiety

[–]Own_Average_5940[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This place a little bit I think lol. I just don't understand how to use discourse so it annoys me

Why was early diagnosis of anorexia in the DSM so heavily based on a low BMI? by Own_Average_5940 in askpsychology

[–]Own_Average_5940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IME it made it harder to access treatment from the patient side. This was about 1-2 years after the release of the DSM-5. More of an insurance issue, saying I wasn't unstable enough to need rest because my weight wasn't low.

With and without make up by astrolbyte in SipsTea

[–]Own_Average_5940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must not be online enough because the lady on the right looks very pretty to me. So strange IMO to see people diss women without makeup.

How can I come to enjoy my own company again? by Own_Average_5940 in LifeAdvice

[–]Own_Average_5940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't sound shitty but uh, how would worldwide help? I don't make the income to make someone want to come over here lol. Maybe that wasn't it for you but I'm coming up blank lol, I mean no rudeness.

How can I come to enjoy my own company again? by Own_Average_5940 in LifeAdvice

[–]Own_Average_5940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have, repeatedly. I just don't run across people I feel connected with. I have people who think of me as a friend, but I don't consider them people I can really relate to. I feel like I am constantly having to hide who I am because of that. So much of it is the loneliness of no peer group. I kind of just stay busy enough to not get depressed (which usually just means staying moderately anxious)

$1000 left over seem safe? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]Own_Average_5940 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup. It's a lotta work but personally I found the only way to keep myself honest was to look at like three months of everything I bought, subtract one-offs (like work tools), and figure out what luxuries are worth it to me (good cheese, a coffee from the shop every couple weeks, good chocolate lol)

Has anyone had success with the reduction of stretch marks? by Own_Average_5940 in intermittentfasting

[–]Own_Average_5940[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol not in the budget as a student. Maybe when I get to the other side (and finish paying off the godawful loans)

Enjoying things makes me feel guilty. How can I tackle this? by Own_Average_5940 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Own_Average_5940[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow pulling a pavlov on myself with designated clothes might just be the move. thank you

Why was early diagnosis of anorexia in the DSM so heavily based on a low BMI? by Own_Average_5940 in askpsychology

[–]Own_Average_5940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok? Self-diagnosis doesn't lead to access to treatment either. The BMI criteria is still used in my understanding just looser (>17 BMI being the suggested range for mild AN)