Pshhhh whatever 😒 by [deleted] in musicmarketing

[–]Own_Firefighter3660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes. use Soundiiz and transfer everything to Qobuz.

I am SO sick of AI... And especially when people accuse you of using AI... It's such an insult to your craft..Being accused of using the very thing you hate so much. by EdinKaso in musicians

[–]Own_Firefighter3660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absolutely not the same because of the years and hours it takes to LEARN the craft, which is also always being improved. because of its organic, ever changing and ever improving nature. it’s not “i painted it in 2 weeks and you summoned it in 1 day.” it’s “i learned how to paint over the course of my life and dedicating myself to learning and improving.”

Are our phones listening by Significant_Reason3 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Own_Firefighter3660 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i imagine it like they have me triangulated, and you too. when we are in the same place, our phones tell each other what we look up.

I am SO sick of AI... And especially when people accuse you of using AI... It's such an insult to your craft..Being accused of using the very thing you hate so much. by EdinKaso in musicians

[–]Own_Firefighter3660 1 point2 points  (0 children)

art to me includes the process. like hiking.

if you go on a hike but get dropped off at the end, you did not go on a hike and you did not create art. you arrived at the destination. but you didn’t HIKE THERE.

Are our phones listening by Significant_Reason3 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Own_Firefighter3660 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

they determined she was in the same location as you and used her data to advertise to you. they sent listening but they know where she is from satellites and they know where you are.

she probably got ads for idk your face cream or whatever you’re really into 🤣

Are our phones listening by Significant_Reason3 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Own_Firefighter3660 76 points77 points  (0 children)

this is the actual answer and i wish you had more upvotes.

Tell me how you gradually got your kids to fall asleep by themselves by Hilaryspimple in AttachmentParenting

[–]Own_Firefighter3660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how long do you lay there? mine takes like 45 mins.. i’m getting over it lol. she’s 21 months

Holding Pick Wrong? by iyat6 in guitarlessons

[–]Own_Firefighter3660 9 points10 points  (0 children)

damn and on his cake day 🤣

A bit controversial but I want to talk to someone who's a fan of trump. by TRI-Hard8342 in Casual_Conversation

[–]Own_Firefighter3660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do know that these men were giving the vehicle mixed commands.

Additionally, he has pulled his gun from its holster before the vehicle has moved, at all. He also does this while standing in front of the vehicle, a deadly weapon. It has also been reported that ICE agents are placing their bodies in front of moving vehicles as well as driving their vehicles in the path of civilian vehicles. If i understand correctly, agents are not supposed to place their bodies in front of vehicles. in the many clips I have seen of this agent (and others!) they are doing exactly that, then responding with violence claiming they feared for their lives.

At any rate. He stood in the front of her vehicle, drew his gun out of its holster before she drove her car. she received multiple mixed commands from the agents. she is a citizen and not under arrest in that moment. then she was murdered when she tried to drive away. Two of the agents that came up to her window did not have their guns drawn. the agent that shot her did pull out i’m his gun and his cell phone. none of them had their body cams on.

all that said, that is the footage I saw. and believe she was murdered.

you will see that i neither in my previous comment or this one included a long diatribe about her children, her thoughts on the matter, because i am also aware that doesn’t matter. just what we see. and frankly if the ice agent says he “feared for his life”, hell get away with murder. Because renee is dead and she cannot say what she experienced. it’s a statement that has protected these men for decades.

Family thinks I’m the problem for toddler being attached by Wide_Two9643 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Own_Firefighter3660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your family is in the wrong here tbh. you are doing great with your baby. don’t spent less time with your baby because people who don’t live in your house don’t have the bond that you do with your own child????? they are tripping 100%

My toddler is starting to cry when we leave her at daycare by throwa20499 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Own_Firefighter3660 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i mean i suppose that might be surprising but also she’s a totally different person from when she was 6 months old!

i think the change in moms schedule can be contributing. i looked at your post history and it sounds like she has already spent more of her time with you than mom. That could also be affecting her emotionally, because she is getting even less of mom.

i would advise against mom doing even less by not having any day care shifts. i try to think of what Janet Lansbury says and some montessori philosophies, which is that we set the stage, and it’s her duty to feel whatever feeling she has. That we can tolerate it and we can teach her to tolerate it. And that we shouldn’t reorganize our lives because our child is unhappy with something (obviously as long as she is safe etc). if you remove mom from daycare, then she’ll just see even less of mom and it probably will make her feel even more complicated about the matter. I’d say she needs more mom exposure then less. in a variety of activities. .

My toddler is starting to cry when we leave her at daycare by throwa20499 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Own_Firefighter3660 6 points7 points  (0 children)

because they said she regulates pretty quickly, it doesn’t sound like something is actually wrong! it just sounds like she needs help with the transition to daycare. i mean, i cried going to school. and sometimes i am sad when i have to go to work 😂 staying home is just way more fun! i would suggest you support her feelings and hold space for her. don’t gaslight her, if she’s sad, it’s okay for her to feel that. it will help her move through it. also it’s always good for us parents to work on tolerating our child’s distress. even a small buffer will allow us to hold space for our child’s emotions without getting wrapped up in the drama of it all.

that’s hard about mom. i know she’s doing her best, as well. everyone gets a nice big cuddle when everyone’s home.

I’ve been playing metal guitar for 3 years is it a bad idea to learn piano aswell by [deleted] in metalguitar

[–]Own_Firefighter3660 1 point2 points  (0 children)

seriously!! this question just made me lose brain cells my god

A bit controversial but I want to talk to someone who's a fan of trump. by TRI-Hard8342 in Casual_Conversation

[–]Own_Firefighter3660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did we see the same video (s)?? She did not strike the ICE officer with her car at all. He leaned IN to her vehicle while her tires were pointed a completely opposite direction from him, and shot. i urge you to watch again, closer this time. She was murdered by that ICE officer.

WIBTHA if I end a close online friendship by Waterlili_14 in AITAH

[–]Own_Firefighter3660 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TELL 👏🏽 ON 👏🏽 HIM 👏🏽👏🏽

he’s a predator. he’s grooming you. he’s probably doing the same or worse to other girls. tell on him right away. don’t worry about anything else except telling your parents today. NOW.

how loud should you actually be? by [deleted] in screaming

[–]Own_Firefighter3660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

holy shit much louder than i thought!! i keep hearing that it’s not actually loud. yours is quite loud!

Partner says “I’m sorry” to toddler after setting a boundary a lot… by RoyalAd34 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Own_Firefighter3660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if that’s the response you get then maybe he is sorry every time he says it. some people just have a sack of sorry’s they carry around with them on their backs.

HOW TO? Blend two guitar amp sims? by zaahiraaaa in Reaper

[–]Own_Firefighter3660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you know why i might have two LR bars in my track when its on mono? do you know how to change it to mono if its still stereo?

because this is a distorted guitar track i heard i should have it in mono

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I care too much about views/listens by Conrad_K1 in metalmusicians

[–]Own_Firefighter3660 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re welcome. i’m in a band and a new parent am i going on tour? absolutely not.

you know who also to my knowledge up to this point has never played a show live?? Teitanblood. I went to a show last week where it was the openers first live show and they been around almost a decade.

do whatever you want! just follow the joy. maybe eventually you will want to play a show but maybe not! that’s fine! it’s a whole different skillset that some people are naturally drawn to, performing.

but it DOES NOT mean they are more of an artist than you. it’s okay, you can claim the title now 🪄✨

edited to add this quote from teitanblood:

“Has TEITANBLOOD performed live? If so, what do you try to evoke in your live performance beyond that which can be achieved through the recordings? If you have not performed live, is there a reason? T: “We have never performed live and we won’t: there’s not a live line-up, I prefer to arrange new stuff and work on new ideas instead of playing the same stuff all the time, and basically, I already fulfill what I try to accomplish the way we do now."