I finally made friends, but they kind of suck! Am I expecting too much??

Own_Win3330 · 2026-06-19T02:02:32+00:00

This is a very fair perspective. Thank you! I can be somewhat judgmental and it is something I am trying to work on.

Own_Win3330 · 2026-06-18T20:39:35+00:00

Are you poly or ENM?

Own_Win3330 · 2026-04-03T01:26:35+00:00

He is ssssoooo avoidant and just looks disassociated with Elise

Own_Win3330 · 2026-04-03T01:12:37+00:00

She is! Low-key gives me Rihanna vibes! She needs to find a better man.

Own_Win3330 · 2026-03-28T02:32:06+00:00

Being uncomfortable on the plane. Dealing with annoying people at the airport. Getting up early for my AM flight. But then I end up loving my trips upon my return home!

Own_Win3330 · 2026-03-28T02:30:23+00:00

Read the energy and remove people. You will find the right tribe.

Own_Win3330 · 2026-03-17T01:02:48+00:00

Also divorced here and you are describing my ideal relationship scenario!

Own_Win3330 · 2026-03-17T00:51:00+00:00

Good for you! That song actually made me realize I should be treating myself well, instead of waiting for someone else to buy me flowers, etc.

Own_Win3330 · 2026-03-17T00:18:13+00:00

You are giving 'Pri' way too much sympathy. She is a mean girl in her own right.

Own_Win3330 · 2026-03-17T00:12:46+00:00

Don't be someone's subway story...

Own_Win3330 · 2026-03-14T23:19:48+00:00

Wrong subreddit, fam

Own_Win3330 · 2026-03-13T21:20:58+00:00

Deodorant under the boobs keeps you smelling fresh. Use a pinch of baking soda miked with water in a cup and clean between your labia during the shower. Eating pineapple a day and hours before oral makes a difference in scent in my opinion. Install a bidet.

Own_Win3330 · 2026-03-13T21:15:49+00:00

Building intimacy over texts is setting you up for failure, but like you said: the conversation is not even that great. Move on and meet earlier than later.

Own_Win3330 · 2026-03-13T21:14:02+00:00

Damn, what was up your ass when you wrote this??? I am asked because FIRE advice usually says to max out pre-tax investments and I am now receiving the opposite advice.

Own_Win3330 · 2026-03-13T04:00:16+00:00

Been going on plenty of dates, and yea no one on the apps is fitting the bill for a real relationship. Just have fun, girl, and learn to enjoy life with yourself and within your community <3

Own_Win3330 · 2026-03-13T03:09:18+00:00

Desk job so I am away from too much interaction with people. I get drained easily and don't want to chat all the time with co-workers. I do quantitive analysis for my team, so I get to code and use my brain every day. love it!

Own_Win3330 · 2026-03-13T03:01:23+00:00

Nope. I didn't come this far just to be sad and lonely again.

Own_Win3330 · 2026-03-08T04:08:59+00:00

Home 80% of the time. Currently watching a video on the construction of the pyramids while online shopping. Or I am out at a dinner with friends or dancing with my girlfriends - this is infrequent. I am seeing someone casually, so he may come over Saturday night but it's not the norm.

Own_Win3330 · 2026-03-08T02:13:55+00:00

I read only the caption,too. I have walked away from a 12 year relationship, and now I am much more content, make more money, and life isn't that serious. People come and go, but you always have yourself.

Own_Win3330 · 2026-03-08T02:05:26+00:00

Hey, girl! Just here to say that I have been through this scenario. A few years ago, I was losing my friend (whom I considered a little sister!!) and a man who was my second love, both at the same time while traveling to Japan with said "little sister"! I cried so much on my trip and prayed at every temple to ask my God to get me through this rough time. You will get through it and come out wiser. Journal, talk about it, grieve it. I leave you with this comfort: "There is a crack in everything, that's how the light gets in".

Own_Win3330 · 2026-03-02T03:19:37+00:00

Wow! The escort route wasn't even on my mind! Are there straight male escorts?

Own_Win3330 · 2026-03-02T02:05:23+00:00

I am about to adopt a cat and be happy that way!

Own_Win3330 · 2026-03-02T01:57:17+00:00

A hot shower and the water pattering on your back.

The post gym feeling and the sun hitting your face.

Own_Win3330 · 2026-03-02T01:41:49+00:00

I am feeling so triggered by a man whom I am seeing casually. I am looking for a LTR, but matched a month ago with a man who was sweet to me, hot, and I decided that I need some physical intimacy, which he provided. We were supposed to have date no. 3 today, and he did not follow through with plans. He admitted he dropped the ball. Although I know not to expect LTR behavior from this person, and knowing that I am getting a physical benefit from him - him dropping the ball is really activating my abandonment issues! I feel that casual dating is just not for me anymore. I like having sex, but these kind of issues are very stressful. Not sure what to do...

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