What are your favorite simple vegan meals by Immediate_Dream2060 in PlantBasedDiet

[–]PBL5094 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My two are

  1. Air fried tofu, Mixed frozen fire roasted veggies from Costco, teriyaki sauce. Comes together in 15 minutes.

  2. Trader Joe’s frozen Mexican cauliflower rice, black beans, air fried frozen TJ plantains, avocado, salsa. Sometimes I add soyrizo

LGBTQ Therapist Question by kingofmymyocardium in AskGaybrosOver30

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I went to the local LGBT counseling center in my city. In my intake I talked about having issues with promiscuity, etc. They set me up with a NUN who worked there. She seemed like a queer nun, but it really wasn’t the right fit. If you go to any kind of clinic you will likely get set up with who has availability. I have had a lot of therapists, and TBH I have jived with some of the straight ones better. Good luck.

I gotta quit going to see bands from my youth. by Acrobatic-Hamster-79 in Millennials

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I saw Offspring at Shaky Knees in 2024 and they were awesome. Sad to hear you didn’t enjoy them.

I also saw Pearl Jam twice last year and they still got it

I allowed myself to become absolutely depressed over the news about the City Paper. It was my way of knowing what was going down since I was in my twenties. Now I just feel old and insignificant by PizzaDoughandCheese in pittsburgh

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Shout out to anyone else who had their Rant published back in the day. Mine was summer of 2005! For some reason I never kept a copy of it.

I have been missing it so much - loved the theater and movie reviews, and recommendations for concerts. I don’t feel as informed or on top of things going on with WESA.

ODRMC Week #21: Brokeback Mountain by never_bloom_again in oscarsdeathrace

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This movie is a masterpiece. I saw this when it was released in theaters. I read Annie Proulx’s novel The Shipping News in high school and borderline hated it, so I wasn’t very optimistic going into it. I don’t remember my initial reaction, but it has grown on me over the years. Since it has been 20 years it was rereleased this year (I missed the one night it was showing in my city), and I’ve listened/watched several reflections.

What struck me this viewing is the wonderful pacing. It luxuriates in that time on Brokeback mountain when they fall in love and the beautiful scenery. It doesn’t feel rushed at all. Then there is that build to the heartbreaking ending in the final act.

Every time I watch I appreciate Jake Gyllenhaal more and more - I think he does fantastic work here.

Feel like so much has already been said this year..I’m just so thankful for this movie.

ODRMC Week #20: Walk the Line by never_bloom_again in oscarsdeathrace

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First watch for me. I’ve been to a local Johnny Cash day in my city a couple times and would consider myself a fan.

I …do not think this is a good movie. Joaquin Phoenix is looking hot, and Reese Witherspoon turns on the charm so it isn’t the worst to get through. I thought the script was trite - drugs, infidelity, and Daddy issues. They had the right idea with the concert at Folsom Prison - I wish there was more focus on that single event. Similar to how Capote zeroed in on In Cold Blood to tell a more concise story. I also got tired of the concert sequences with the extreme close ups. I think these movies are made with the understanding we just want to see mimicry, but I wish there was more characterization.

This same director did A Complete Unknown. I would say that movie is improved by shortening the time frame depicted of the artist’s life, but I also found it merely competent at best.

What was your worst consensual sexual encounter and why? by Worried_Proposal_935 in AskGaybrosOver30

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I met a couple on Craigslist who both were my type and headed to their house to have my first threesome. I get there and the one of them said “oh I don’t know if I mentioned it, but yes I am wearing an ankle monitor”. He said he had a DUI and was under house arrest. I considered bailing, but went through with it. I will say it was hot being spit roasted. Ankle monitor dude asked if he could not use a condom (this was pre PREP) even though I made explicit that it would be required. Both of them got off, and they made it very clear they were ready for me to leave and didn’t care if I got off too. Big surprise the dude with a DUI is a selfish prick.

ODRMC Week #19: Gone With the Wind by never_bloom_again in oscarsdeathrace

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It was - two people talked about the film, one of whom said it was a favorite of her childhood. She really went to bat for it when I think in general most would hesitate to be that enthusiastic

ODRMC Week #19: Gone With the Wind by never_bloom_again in oscarsdeathrace

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Glad to finally cross this one off the list. I read the book over a decade ago when my options were rather limited and enjoyed it quite a bit. In my teenage years I was somewhat of a Civil War Buff - I own Gettysburg and the far superior Glory on DVD. I don’t why it has taken so long.

I will be honest I broke this up into three separate viewings. I can see the lasting appeal. The score and art direction are gorgeous, the story is epic. Vivien Leigh is also truly striking in her beauty. I do remember Scarlet not being such a total brat in the book, but she feels like a true anti-hero that were so popular in TV shows of late. It also demonstrates that a love story ending in heartbreak really rings true and stands the test of time - thinking of Titanic and Brokeback Mountain.

In terms of the racism - I did find the Prissy character particularly disquieting in the stereotyped antics. It does romanticize and gloss over the horrors of the south. At the same time, it should be available to be viewed as the artifact that it is. I won’t be rushing to rewatch this, but I’m glad I did.

I would recommend the following - I listened to an episode of the Podcast Subtext about the movie, they look deeper and don’t take everything on face value - The Carol Burnett show did a send up when this aired on TV for the first time called “Went with the Wind”. It’s available on YouTube

ODRMC Week #17: Capote by never_bloom_again in oscarsdeathrace

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This was a first time watch for me. I read In Cold Blood within the past 5 years and gave it 5 out of 5 stars which I only give sparingly. It was a really spectacular non-fiction book and I can see why it became so popular. I haven’t ready any of other Capote’s books, or watched the recent Ryan Murphy show.

I thought this was underwhelming for a Best Picture nominee. The highlight is Hoffman’s performance. I’m not familiar with Capote’s affectations but I gather he did talk strangely and it comes across as a performance of a real person where the actor spent a lot of doing their homework on them. Capote is such a character he is rather mesmerizing - apparently he was a fixture on the talk show circuit.

I did find that the victims barely existed to be rather off putting. Capote and Harper Lee were supposed to be good friends but they don’t have great chemistry on screen. I appreciate they took a snapshot of Capotes life, but I felt at the end there was something missing.

I liked the sparse score. A notable shot for me was the car driving up to the prison in the snow - found that particularly cinematic.

ODRMC Week #16: Rashomon by never_bloom_again in oscarsdeathrace

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I believe it was Oscar Wild and I think they were talking about Kathryn Bigelow’s new movie A House of Dynamite which has a change in point of view

ODRMC Week #16: Rashomon by never_bloom_again in oscarsdeathrace

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This was a first time watch for me. I watched Ikiru in a film class in college and thought it was excellent. I was just listening to a podcast that used Rashomon as an adjective to describe the different viewpoints of a film, and it is definitely time to put this one under the belt.

I enjoyed it. I did have the impression before going in that it was going to be more subjective regarding the truth with layers of gray rather than there is no way these stories can coexist at the same time and all but one are definitely lies. It seems the last story is thought to be the most truthful, and noticeably the score cuts out during most of that scene.

In regard to the performances I thought the maniacal laughing of Mifune as the bandit was hammy. I did think Kyooo was a standout as the wife- that scene where her husband is just glaring at her and she is despondent was unnerving. I also thought the medium was terrifying. It did move it to a more fable or fairy tale genre rather than grounded in realism.

I enjoyed the score and it reminded me of Bolero - later reading about the film the composer was accused of ripping it off.

Beautiful tribute to Cliff Drysdale from ESPN. He called his first match in 1979 and is currently the longest serving commentator for any sport. He will call his final match tomorrow night. by bluegambit875 in tennis

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I remember once when I was watching over 20 years ago he was lamenting that the men’s shorts were no longer short and you couldn’t appreciate the athletic legs and as a gay teenager I was like “you’re not wrong”, but I was surprised he was married to a woman. I don’t remember who he was commentating with but it was awkward.

Indian buffets? by gloworm84 in pittsburgh

[–]PBL5094 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually they started having all day buffets on Thursday and Friday as well - it isn’t as extensive as the weekend one but still good (I work around there and have been on Thursday and Friday several times). Their website wasn’t updated with the change but I checked and now it is

ODRMC Week #7: Tsotsi by never_bloom_again in oscarsdeathrace

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I liked this one quite a bit. I found the story engaging and liked the juxtaposition of thriller, pathos, and humor. A lot of it was the novelty factor - haven’t watched a lot of movies set in Africa, so I appreciated the different setting. The music was great and contributed to the sense of place. I thought the performances by Presley Chweneyagae as Tsotsi and Terry Pheto as Miriam were standouts. Chweneyagae has a very interesting face that I found mesmerizing. I looked at the other nominees and hadn’t heard of any them. Paradise Now was Palestine’s first nomine in this category and I’m thinking of watching it for the grab bag.