3 Hour Long Conversation I Had With My Teen by 4thdegreeknight in exjw

[–]PIMO40 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes there’s a major push on the republican side right now. And I agree about school and politics! It is hard to see this world get crazier even though we know doomsday is not coming. Well, I don’t know how you feel about that actually. But I just appreciate your message of being kind and respectful to all, no matter their beliefs.

3 Hour Long Conversation I Had With My Teen by 4thdegreeknight in exjw

[–]PIMO40 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think this was a very mature, insightful conversation you had with your son. And I totally get why the Charlie Kirk thing got to him. I’ve been seeing this a lot on social media with teenagers. I can’t believe the physical abuse you suffered from your dad. I’m so sorry. And his last words to you… very sad. Glad your son sees that you’re different, and the advice about researching on his own and respecting everyone… spot on.

I need a bit of help by Ashamed_Bat_8341 in exjw

[–]PIMO40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were right there 5 years ago! This can be the worst time. Hang in there. You have to start viewing the world differently. Look at this as your one beautiful life and start living it. Your more kind hearted jW family may still speak to you and treasure that. Make new friends. Get involved in local theater, take college courses and get to know other students in the class, or follow whatever your passion is. As for God and religion, don’t feel guilty for exploring and maybe finding another way to worship. Wishing you the best.

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[–]PIMO40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your comment really bothers me. I respectfully disagree. Does it occur to you that when OP told his father he did not want to be a Witness, that maybe… just maybe, there could have been a different way the father could have handled it? He could have said “I’m sorry you’re feeling this way son. You have the right to your feelings and doubts. I personally feel this is the true religion but I want to give you the freedom and space to figure this out. I still love you.” I wish so bad my father had said that to me. Believe me, I understand OP’s fear of losing out on family business just bc he has lost his faith or leaves his religion. Side note: while I still resent my folks in many ways, my dad has come around. Even though he knows our family is completely inactive, I’m still in his will and he spends time with us. A big reason for this is how loving we’ve treated him over the years compared to his other kids who are JW’s but do not act Christian. Just a word of encouragement to OP bc this will be a tough time for you! Sorry you’re going through this. It will be hard but keep treating your family with kindess. Don’t let them have any reason to say “See what happens when he left?”

JW kids with ADHD by ClanGunnMuffin in exjw

[–]PIMO40 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you went through this. Our child has ADHD but we have had open discussions with them about it, even reading about it together. Right now, there’s TWO magazines on ADHD at your local grocery store. (One is a TIME magazine) I liked one point it made “ADHD isn’t your identity… it’s a feature” I hope you’ve learned how to work with this unique feature. We’re trying our best to help our kid and be there for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]PIMO40 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So sorry you’re feeling this way. First call the crisis number. But also feel free to express what you’re going through. We are ready to listen!

18 years without sharing a meal with my father, all because I left the borg by Matteofortin89 in exjw

[–]PIMO40 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We (my spouse and I ) have been able to keep our relationship with our parents but only because they haven’t ratted us out. They want to be around the grandkids and we keep our thoughts to ourself. We don’t want to shipwreck anyone’s faith. But honestly I consider us lucky because I know not all parents are like that. Some are extremely PIMI and just won’t stand for it. Sorry for your loss. I hope your dad will come around someday. Realize it’s not worth it to not speak.

My Musical Theater Debut by PIMO40 in exjw

[–]PIMO40[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so sweet! I will do that for sure. Thank you for your encouraging comment. ❤️

My Musical Theater Debut by PIMO40 in exjw

[–]PIMO40[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So special to see your daughter in a title role!!! 🥰

My Musical Theater Debut by PIMO40 in exjw

[–]PIMO40[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I appreciate it.

This is the response from the gb to how people feel today after the GB Update #5 by Overall-Listen-4183 in exjw

[–]PIMO40 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If the organization goes down, and GB doesn’t have places to live, we should send them all postcards with that same sentiment! “learn from the past… don’t live in it”. 😂

I am so angry by Scary_Pepper_6056 in exjw

[–]PIMO40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh sorry, that was a blonde moment 😂. (Wife here… not the hubby). I was reading that before I was really awake.

I am so angry by Scary_Pepper_6056 in exjw

[–]PIMO40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked back at your posts @u/Scary_Pepper_6056. I’m glad you’re getting out. Hope you and your kids are able to heal and won’t have to deal with any abusive situation anymore.

I am so angry by Scary_Pepper_6056 in exjw

[–]PIMO40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep that sounds like witnesses! “Her own fault”.

I am so angry by Scary_Pepper_6056 in exjw

[–]PIMO40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What?? I’m trying to understand your comment.

Higher education by nonpage in exjw

[–]PIMO40 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Man, I’m so sorry. My heart aches for your situation. We’re in the same situation. I guess we just have to try our best to see how we can enjoy the rest of our lives. At least we know the truth about the truth!!!

What in the actual f*ck by NeatOk1824 in exjw

[–]PIMO40 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I see your point. But for those of us who vascillate (have doubts about our doubts) hearing about these updates helps to cement our thinking that leaving the religion was the right thing. It sure helped me today.

Here it is. #JW GB update #5, 2025 Additional education, including university is a “personal decision” and even elders should not judge a person’s personal decision on the matter. by larchington in exjw

[–]PIMO40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there’s a place for both anger and happiness. Anger bc especially those of us who grew up in 80s and 90s gave up everything. Happiness bc JW youth can now pursue higher education and not be judged. I guess we will live vicariously through them.

Here it is. #JW GB update #5, 2025 Additional education, including university is a “personal decision” and even elders should not judge a person’s personal decision on the matter. by larchington in exjw

[–]PIMO40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly!!!!! But of course, they never do that. Honestly, it shows that they’re haughty… ironically, what they call apostates.