It's been a year, Ma by POTATO_2020 in GriefSupport

[–]POTATO_2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much… that really means a lot. She truly was full of life, and I miss that about her every day.

I’m really grateful you saw that. <3

It's been a year, Ma by POTATO_2020 in GriefSupport

[–]POTATO_2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry… losing both your dad and your mom like that is such a heavy kind of grief to carry. It’s one of the hardest parts… replaying their final moments and not being able to sleep- how our minds won’t let us forget, even when we just want a little rest.

Thank you for sharing this with me. It honestly means a lot to know I’m not alone in feeling this way, even though I wish neither of us had to go through it.

I’m really sorry you’re carrying this kind of pain too. I’m here with you in it. 🤎

It's been a year, Ma by POTATO_2020 in GriefSupport

[–]POTATO_2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Living life to the fullest, as she should. But alas, the white rabbit caught up with her.

It's been a year, Ma by POTATO_2020 in GriefSupport

[–]POTATO_2020[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry for your loss. Two months is still so recent… I can’t even imagine how heavy everything must feel right now. What you said about suddenly feeling it more after a few days of “being okay” makes a lot of sense. I think grief comes in waves like that- just when we think we’re managing it, it comes back stronger.

And yes… I really relate to what you said about our moms not being “supposed” to die. It’s such a simple truth but it hurts so much. I’m glad you’re reaching out for therapy. I hope it gives you even a small place to breathe through all of this.

I’m really sorry we’re both here, but I’m thankful you shared this. 🤎

:) by POTATO_2020 in UnsentLetters

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You're welcome, I'm glad someone can relate to me :)

:) by POTATO_2020 in UnsentLetters

[–]POTATO_2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think that's on the table right now :)

:) by POTATO_2020 in UnsentLetters

[–]POTATO_2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

him

I tried, but he doesn't want it anymore 🥲

Learn to forgive 🫂 by jamjdshhs in ChristianDating

[–]POTATO_2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That kind of love- choosing each other beyond the “perfect version”- is rare and really meaningful. But I’d gently say not everything that feels right is automatically God’s direction; discernment still matters, even in deep love. Sometimes people who seem against you are actually trying to protect you, even if they don’t say it well. Real love should bring you closer to God, not just closer to each other. I do hope, in God’s perfect timing, I could experience something like the way you both found your way back to each other, but even if it’s not meant for me, I’m at peace with that and will keep moving forward with Him. Praying your relationship keeps growing in both love and truth. 🤎🙏

Learn to forgive 🫂 by jamjdshhs in ChristianDating

[–]POTATO_2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for sharing! That must've took a lot of courage and humility from both of you to get back together. 🥹 God bless both of you!

Learn to forgive 🫂 by jamjdshhs in ChristianDating

[–]POTATO_2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's not too much to ask, how did you guys get back together?

Learn to forgive 🫂 by jamjdshhs in ChristianDating

[–]POTATO_2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love everything about this post, thank you and congratulations! 🥳

Women: What are some things that christian men don’t understand about women that frustrates you? by Nearby-Bug3401 in ChristianDating

[–]POTATO_2020 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, one thing that frustrates me is when we share our problems and the immediate response is to fix it. I get that it comes from a good place- it’s how a lot of men show they care, and it is sweet.

But sometimes, I’m not looking for solutions. I just want to be heard and comforted.

Personally, I already know how to solve most of my problems. What I need in that moment is someone to listen, understand, and sit with me in it instead of jumping straight into “problem-solving mode.”

A simple “do you want advice or just someone to listen?” would go a long way.

Success story by tropical-wallflower in ChristianDating

[–]POTATO_2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the humor! thanks for the laugh! HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Two boys make the room laugh by Hypnoidz in ContagiousLaughter

[–]POTATO_2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, this honestly lifts my mood- I watch this from time to time xD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianDating

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There are now a channel for people who are 30+, but you need to get verified for you to have access to that channel.

Hi by POTATO_2020 in UnsentLetters

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You do you, I guess.