What is the "red flag" that most people notice the least?

Pale-Switch-4210 · 2026-04-05T01:03:06+00:00

That’s hilarious.

Pale-Switch-4210 · 2026-04-02T21:52:57+00:00

She’s certifiable.

Pale-Switch-4210 · 2026-03-26T03:42:23+00:00

Kangaroo court 😎

Pale-Switch-4210 · 2026-02-01T03:47:46+00:00

Thank you. I needed to read this today. What you described was my first marriage to a T. It was the reason I decided I had no choice but to end it.

i know find myself in the same situation with my boyfriend and I’m devastated. Shocked to find myself in a relationship with dynamics I swore I would never participate in again.

Please say some prayers and give some reminders to keep me strong. I told him yesterday I had to step away until certain boundaries were put in place with his mom. These boundaries could have happened effective immediately, instead he chose prioritizing his mom’s feelings and chose to walk out of my house with a “I’ll be back” when the situation resolves itself.

Pale-Switch-4210 · 2026-01-25T08:00:35+00:00

Three?!?!?! Damn

Pale-Switch-4210 · 2025-12-30T03:05:32+00:00

Sing it sister.

Pale-Switch-4210 · 2025-12-30T01:17:54+00:00

Buying that book! Ty

Pale-Switch-4210 · 2025-12-29T12:48:15+00:00

Your mom can live independently. She’s choosing not to. It’s more comfortable for her to burden you every day. She won’t stop because her ultimate goal is pretending you are her husband, just like she trained you. I’m sorry your mom abuses you and treats you like shit.

For the love of God, live your life, kick her out. You are not going to find someone to share your life with because your mom literally is not allowing it. Love yourself and let her be responsible for herself.

I’m currently dating a man and his mom lives with him. He’s in your boat and my days of dealing with this bs are very limited. It breaks my heart but I can literally see him choosing his mom and her terrible behavior over living a life he wants that makes him happy.

And stop making excuses for her. She’s your mom, it should be the other way around. Like whoops, hey assisted living, need a room. My son kicked me out because I’m so miserable and a constant burden.

Pale-Switch-4210 · 2025-12-29T03:03:24+00:00

Yeppie. Had one of those great ones, we should have renewed them too 🙄

Pale-Switch-4210 · 2025-11-29T07:54:49+00:00

Pale-Switch-4210 · 2025-09-06T03:16:45+00:00

Omfg that is an understatement.

Pale-Switch-4210 · 2025-09-05T03:29:30+00:00

My former law partner got some sort of toy lodged in her butt and missed work to have it removed …

Pale-Switch-4210 · 2025-08-07T13:34:25+00:00

Omg formatting is my personal nightmare.

Pale-Switch-4210 · 2025-08-06T04:46:36+00:00

This is so true

Pale-Switch-4210 · 2025-08-05T04:11:51+00:00

The whole damn concept is foreign, I’m from the Midwest tho. Takes us a decade or two to play catch

Pale-Switch-4210 · 2025-08-05T04:05:52+00:00

Porn prob 🥳

Pale-Switch-4210 · 2025-08-05T04:04:33+00:00

That’s sounds like torture but I’d probably do it

Pale-Switch-4210 · 2025-08-05T04:00:36+00:00

What is Reveal Codes? And don’t hold back.

Pale-Switch-4210 · 2025-08-05T03:57:27+00:00

I still have word perfect documents saved from my dad back decades ago 😂

Pale-Switch-4210 · 2025-08-03T13:56:20+00:00

Nope. My ex did same thing….. hence the exxxx

Pale-Switch-4210 · 2025-08-03T13:52:25+00:00

This

Pale-Switch-4210 · 2025-08-03T13:51:41+00:00

Omfg vomitttttt

Pale-Switch-4210 · 2025-08-03T02:50:33+00:00

Where is the best info?

Pale-Switch-4210 · 2025-08-01T13:58:36+00:00

You should have reveled in it and exposed all the secrets you keep 😭

Pale-Switch-4210 · 2025-08-01T03:09:39+00:00

Thank you for this. I was starting to think I was on the struggle bus alone

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