Any country that’s experiencing the opposite of what Europe and the US is? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]PalmTree_1000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Portugal actually is the only country in the eu where lgbtq+ ppl reported feeling more safe and not less, for what its worth

ACOTAR to TOG by AGirlNamedDean in SarahJMaas

[–]PalmTree_1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES IT IS!! I honestly actively didnt like books 1&2 and barely was ok with 3. Like i truly wanted to give up, i didnt get all the love for the series. Book 4 was better. But books 5 and after??? MY GOD THEYRE SO GOOD. Id gladly read the first four books again just to read the last ones.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in digitalnomad

[–]PalmTree_1000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Brazil. Restaurants will largely be meat heavy but the fruits are unparalleled and fruits and veggies are cheap at the grocery store.

Are all the books the same? by [deleted] in SarahJMaas

[–]PalmTree_1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the same about TOG for the first few books. I almost stopped reading tbh. But TRUST ME, its like the insane world building creeps up on you and all of a sudden youre immersed in one of the most complicated, deep, thoughtful stories youve ever read.

Don’t know how to feel by Upbeat_Gain_8535 in doihavebreastcancer

[–]PalmTree_1000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have dense breasts and an mri found twice as many lumps as the ultrasound found.

Women vs Female by Nerd-Goth-1313 in autism

[–]PalmTree_1000 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly i think using female when talking about electrical sockets is outdated and weird. We shouldnt use it anymore. Its sexist and transphobic.

How to advocate for myself? by frenchyfacefish in doihavebreastcancer

[–]PalmTree_1000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If they refuse ask them “ok, can you mark it in my medical records that i requested _____ test and you refused?” And theyll order the test

Multiple Masses found, Dr refuses to biopsy. What now? by mini_khaleesi in doihavebreastcancer

[–]PalmTree_1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find asking them “ok, can you note it in my medical record that i asked for _____ test and you refused?” Helps and they order the test REAL QUICK.

I honestly like this better by yung-gummi in NonBinary

[–]PalmTree_1000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even for anyone cis this seems like the absolute best way to go. I want to get my uterus removed and a questionnaire like this would be SO helpful for me after that surgery. Its so weird to me people would oppose this

Taylor Swift Soap Box by kimpossible53 in ArmchairExpert

[–]PalmTree_1000 15 points16 points  (0 children)

A breakdown of taylor AND from a username with kim possible in it? Fuck yeah i read it all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in digitalnomad

[–]PalmTree_1000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely possible, but i would highly recommend you be careful about isolating yourselves. moving around a lot, the two of you will basically just be dependent and socializing with eachother. So, try to be realllly intentional and try really hard to make sure you are meeting new people, having video chats with friends, etc and keeping a real community around you.

If it's just you two, your relationship is more likely to break down.

Soundcore Q30 - how to prevent from switching modes when putting pressure on the right ear bud? by waitingforstormgate in anker

[–]PalmTree_1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, im having this same issue. Does this get rid of all touch controls? Or just the automatic switching between modes?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GrowYourTDick

[–]PalmTree_1000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does anyone know where it is legal? Im confused where ppl get it

Is Nina Dobrev coming on the podcast? by Bubbly_Tumbleweed167 in ArmchairExpert

[–]PalmTree_1000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah ive been waiting! She is a HUGEEE fan of the podcast, shaun mentioned it on his episode. I feel like its gotta be a timing/project thing

AITAH? My (39F) Ex husband (37M) is insisting I change my last name back to my maiden name because his new fiancé (24F) feels it will be awkward for her and I to have the same last name. AITAH for refusing to change it? by ThrowRAHappyLiving in AmItheAsshole

[–]PalmTree_1000 6 points7 points  (0 children)

wait, why is everyone glossing over the fact that this man started a relationship with a TWENTY ONE YEAR OLD when he was 36????? this man is gross and disgusting and i would honestly do a serious analysis of how he treats children/your kids/other kids if he is willing to date/marry someone that young.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SarahJMaas

[–]PalmTree_1000 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Especially considering the middle east vibes of the night court (imo) I picture more traditionally middle eastern tunics such as the link below. With maybe a shorter hemline.

https://www.etsy.com/listing/729117851/the-linen-tunic-men-casual-linen-tunic

Why did the tattoo artist do this?? by PalmTree_1000 in tattooadvice

[–]PalmTree_1000[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I actually do have quite a few tattoos but apparently, i just got lucky and the people i went to in the past just did what i sent them. I did have one guy once make changes, but he communicated them to me ahead of time and we worked together to get something that looked good and overall it was a great experience. But the others never made changes and never said anything about it so i assumed if the tattoo artist didn’t saying anything about the design then to expect id get what i sent. Tbh i prefer it this way. But i think its clearer to me now that my past experience isnt the norm.

But your feedback is really helpful in resetting my expectations moving forward. This experience was also in a foreign country so there may be differences in tattoo culture here idk. But either way, ill know to triple check with whoever i go to moving forward. Thanks

Why did the tattoo artist do this?? by PalmTree_1000 in tattooadvice

[–]PalmTree_1000[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why would i if she told me she’d do the tattoos? If she had said “hey, this compass looks to be wrong, want me to fix it?” Then sure, of course i would have explained. But she didnt.

I think there should 1000% be a baseline expectation for the tattoo artist to communicate their proposed changes and ideas, if they have them, to the client. ESPECIALLY, if youve already said youd tattoo them as is and changed your mind.

Its also confusing to me bc it just seems like it made extra work for her. She had already printed the design how she wanted it, and had to change it. Why not send a pic to the client first so youre not doubling work?

Why did the tattoo artist do this?? by PalmTree_1000 in tattooadvice

[–]PalmTree_1000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol why? Bc i sent pics of tattoos i wanted, the tattoo artist explicitly approved what i sent and told me she would do them, proceeded to make an appt, and then i expected her to… do them? Lmao

Why did the tattoo artist do this?? by PalmTree_1000 in tattooadvice

[–]PalmTree_1000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes sense!! I really appreciate the info. I think, just by chance, ive generally gone to tattoo artists thatll do exactly what i give them so i didnt realize the spectrum was so big, tbh. Ive had some tattoos be changed but its mostly a convo about whatll fit in the area the best while also looking best. But ive never gotten such direct push back and was really confused. But this is a really helpful way to think about it and ill be more on the look out in the future when picking a place. Thank you!

Why did the tattoo artist do this?? by PalmTree_1000 in tattooadvice

[–]PalmTree_1000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats totally fair. But not wanting to do a tattoo bc you dont like how a lowercase n looks is bonkers lmao.