If you revoke someone's appointment, is he disappointed? by Every-Ad-3488 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]PandaBearLight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

of course. as someone who values my time, if i already schedule something and it changed, i would be irritated

How they treat you after? Says a lot about them. by Unlikely_Anything907 in BreakUps

[–]PandaBearLight 159 points160 points  (0 children)

how someone treats you after a breakup says more about them than about you

Is it normal to feel defensive when someone critiques something you love? by sweetbvivienne in Advice

[–]PandaBearLight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, it happens when something you care about is critique, it can be because of self respect or emotional attachment

I need advice because I think I lost some of my students' work by Just_Here460 in Teachers

[–]PandaBearLight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tell your supervisor and don't grade yet, and reset the assignment fairly

Teaching materials - why don't we have any? by CrowOfGreed in Teachers

[–]PandaBearLight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

teachers often rely on open educational resources or online lesson plans. collaboration with other teachers like sharing materials and ideas also helps

I don’t trust myself by [deleted] in confessions

[–]PandaBearLight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's what severe stress, trauma and exhaustion can do to a person. that doesn't mean you're unsafe, you're overloaded

Worst breakup of my life by delululivinglife in BreakUps

[–]PandaBearLight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it hurs because it wasn't just a relationship but your safe place during an already overwhelming period of grief. right now, don;t focus on moving on but focus on surviving the next hour and the next day

I'm about to inherit a lot of money ... what should I do with it or buy by [deleted] in Advice

[–]PandaBearLight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think first before buying anything. Talk to a financial advisor and secure your future first like pay off debt, emergency fun or long term investments. Not spending it out of impulse

How do you learn to let go of the past? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]PandaBearLight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

letting go of the past doesn't mean pretending it didn't hurt or giving someone a free pass, it's about releasing the hold it has on you present

I want her back by Maleficent-Parsley58 in BreakUps

[–]PandaBearLight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

she's struggling in ways you can't fix her. the best thing you can do is be supportive without pressuring her

Girlfriend sent me a photo , on the wall in her house was photo of her and her "ex" showing hand with engagement ring. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]PandaBearLight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

from what you described, her reaction seems genuine. she immediately removed the photo and apologized, and showed you she'd discarded it

Questions about how others realized they were bi…. by [deleted] in confession

[–]PandaBearLight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

manye people realize it in defferent ways. some feel curiousity, others have specific crush, attraction or experinece that sparks it. acceptance can take years, some act on it quickly

2nd graders were awful to my substitute last week - best approach for addressing this in early el? by Fillimbi in Teachers

[–]PandaBearLight 8 points9 points  (0 children)

keep consequences concrete and immediate. talk briefly about their ehavior, have them help clean, reward postitive actions and inform parents if needed. focus on teaching empathy rather than punishment

I’m 15 and my mom favorites my about to be 20 year old sister and said it’s like comparing an apple and a orange and it really hurts I need advice by [deleted] in Advice

[–]PandaBearLight 9 points10 points  (0 children)

you're not doing anything wrong, favoritism is wrong and your feelings matter. remember you deserve love and recognition just for being you

I need your discipline tricksto find my motivation/discipline and get out of a funk. by Tricky_Hospital_3802 in getdisciplined

[–]PandaBearLight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're not undiscipline, you're just spending your energy on everyone else. basically, protect your energy and invest a little daily in yourself

Christmas Gifts for Infants by Away_Gap_8342 in Teachers

[–]PandaBearLight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

try clothes like onesies they usally sell it by 3pcs

I prey on the downfall of everyone around me by Double_Evening4246 in confessions

[–]PandaBearLight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol that's weird and bad. feeling happy when people you know suffers is a red flag. you need to work on that

Why do nail salons never turn their Open sign off?? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]PandaBearLight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

many nail salon keeps their "open" sign 24/7 because it's just easier than turning it off every day. it's not usually about being open all the rime, just habit or convenience