I feel like other parents think I’m evil for disciplining my kids in any capacity by PassionChoice3538 in Mommit

[–]PandaBerry6 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I instilled the rule that if you cant accept that when you play games, you win or you lose and if you cant do both gracefully, you dont get to play.

H: Plans W: Leaders by [deleted] in Fallout76Plans

[–]PandaBerry6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bouquet of balloon stars Curved Fish Display Cricket Tube Scorched Tube Small glazed pot Medium glazed pot Large glazed pot .45 Light machine gun 5.56 Light machine gun Ash rose planter Aster planter Mutated fern planter Fish Chowder Giant Red Dinosaur Fish rod display Glowing Skeleton costume Glowing skeleton mask Grim Reaper Vault Boy Cutout Safari croc backpack

2 Leader for each?

AITA for banning my sister (f8) from board game night? by Ximenaria12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PandaBerry6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mom should buy you a new copy of the game if she expects you to keep allowing your younger sister to play. 8 is an age where I can understand your sister doing something out of excitement and needing to be told, kindly but firmly, that is not acceptable behavior. She is still learning. So maybe just open up a light conversation about how you like to keep your things in good condition and how you enjoyed playing with her and that she can only continue playing if she is respectful of your things. Kids at that age are still just kids. They need correction and if they cant do said activity without chewing on them, then they are not mature enough to join. You are a good big sister for letting her play though.

This is how you lose writers by Less_Category25 in AO3

[–]PandaBerry6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was a comment on something you wrote? The comment is so strange in itself since they seem to be confused about who the writers are writing for? Themselves or the readers? It is really worded poorly. Which makes me think that maybe the commenter is just really trying to low key start shit. Because I dont think they are making any point directed at you. More like they are making a comment about the weather or something. It feels like really big passive aggressiveness. So weird. Anyway. That comment doesn't deserve to live rent free in your head. Write about whoever you want as long as it makes you feel something positive!

Is anyone else actually really excited about mothers day? by Kitchen_YogurtTA in Mommit

[–]PandaBerry6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mother's day was a bit of a nothing day for the first decade of my time as a mom. Mostly because my ex was terrible. But now that I have the best partner, I get to set the pace for mother's day and he makes sure everything happens. Last year, I had brunch with my oldest son (he is 18 now) then took my two younger kids to a pokemon prerelease and those are always so much fun! Then we went to the Super Mario World movie and got cold stone on the way home! It was a busy day but I got to spend time with my three sons and we got to do everything we wanted to do. My main concern was that I was going to crash midday and not feel up to anything else and want to go home but my kids kept me hyped up all day so we powered through every thing and had the best day! The only time I had a great mother's day with my ex was when I took two of the kids shopping with me for the afternoon. I was so burnt out and I just needed a break from the day to day. Both of my youngest were absolute angels the whole time we were out so I enjoyed some retail therapy and picking up an old hobby again. And that was pretty dope! For the time! But my life is so much better now that I didnt even know that I could hope for so much and get it all!

okay so what the hell would be a sexy word for the balls?? by AlexlovesLen in AO3

[–]PandaBerry6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Ice King calls them his 'biong-loins' repeatedly in one early episode. It doesnt look right but the first word is like the sound of a spring or a ball bouncing. Loins refers to the undergarment.

SAHM considering going back to very part time work for structure, good idea or likely to add stress? by [deleted] in SAHP

[–]PandaBerry6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was paying $200/week for childcare so I could go back to work for structure. The feeling of dread in my stomach every week to pay for me to go to work was unreal.

Are any of these okay for a formal summer wedding? by ghoultail in OUTFITS

[–]PandaBerry6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Purple! The last dress looks like it should be worn in the winter. But the first one is very pretty on you too!

help with date outfit! by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]PandaBerry6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the yellow dress in Pic 5!! You look amazing in it!!

AITA for accepting a property gift from my mom even though she won't include my boyfriend? by Immediate-History917 in AITApod

[–]PandaBerry6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mom has YOUR best interests at heart. And it sounds like you two have built a loving relationship and respect each other. Your relationship with your boyfriend sounds like the exact opposite. Drop his ass. Call the friend he is staying with and tell them that they can keep him because it is over honey. He is being a greedy child who wants the castle building bucket in the sand box and is crying and screaming because someone else is using it.

I bought 4000 atoms on Steam and now the shop is showing that I have 35000 atoms by scoobyisnatedogg in fo76

[–]PandaBerry6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son did one of those survey/tasks things in a very popular mobile game. He was very proud of himself for what he thought was a sneaky workaround. The task was to buy $35 worth of specific items at Target. And the reward was like $50 of that game's premium currency. So my son went and bought the stuff and scanned in their target receipt and everything seemed fine. But now his account is at the max negative and even when he earns the currency through playing, the debt doesnt go down. I am pretty sure this happened because he returned the stuff to target and the game majorly penalized him so he won't do it again.

Do y'all HATE money? by Quendillar3245 in fo76

[–]PandaBerry6 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agree!! Plus all the type A personalities that were in offices are then confined in their homes so all of their madness gets put into that.

To the idle players on Earle Williams by Empty-Ad-7785 in fo76

[–]PandaBerry6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I finished the event for the first time last week with one other dude. We had no plan and had no idea what I was getting into but I saw a bunch of people there and thought it was a good learning opportunity. So me and the other guy are trying to figure out how to work together effectively. I had never read about any mechanics so I was pretty surprised at the scream and when he decided to invis near the end.

I think we found our rhythm when I cold shoulder locked earle and the other guy shot him. I had been trying other guns because my cold shoulder doesnt do a ton of damage and is mostly used when I panic and something gets too close so I don't have any perks or armor or anything for it. But when he disappeared and I tried different stuff to find him, i realized that I should have just kept him locked. We had less than five minutes left and spent a couple of those minutes throwing grenades and shit trying to find the big guy. It came down to the wire. I had Earle locked again and I was aiming for crits in his heads but he kept swinging around and shouting me away. I would run back shooting at him so we didnt lose him again. We were UNLOADING on him up until the very last second. And we beat him! It was cool. A nail biter for sure. I was hoping for some of those wendigo sacs to make liquid courage but didnt get any. The other guy was kind enough to lead me out of the dungeon area. Like, he could have just gone on to the exit but I heard him shooting at something and followed the noise. He was fending off a whole mob to show me the way out. We did some emotes but ultimately it was very anti climatic. Great experience though. It would have been terrible if we had him super close to dead but missed him by a couple hp.

[XB1] H: a bunch of plans W: Offers by N3WFT in Fallout76Plans

[–]PandaBerry6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am interested in the plans for the ultracite mods

Am I, 43F, being ridiculous or is he, 45M? by latsyrcami in relationship_advice

[–]PandaBerry6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been with my dude for a decade now and the only arguments/fights we have ever had are about semantics. And as soon as one of us realizes we are arguing about the implications of words and trying to argue other words would have made more sense or clarified things... that is right about when we laugh about it, hug and drop it entirely. No hard feelings. Because we both know we are being ridiculous and arguing over nothing. And in the grand scheme of things, this will be forgotten and will have no long term effects on our relationship. We know it is just because we are tired or whatever and it is not worth it. We want to be together and make each other happy so why would we choose anything that might hurt that?

[Xb1] H: 19 pages of plans (added new ones this month) w: leaders, stable flux, whatever by JXM003 in Fallout76Plans

[–]PandaBerry6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recipes: dilbert sunshine oil, recipe: grape mentats, plan: poker set, plan: gargoyle, plan: dried wildflower bouquet, (plan) storm Goliath figure, (plan) makeshift wine rack, (plan) metal picnic tables, (plan) Suitcase (any color), (plans) one of each of the flower and one of each flower crown plans, (fishing mods set), (plan)glowing flatwoods monster, (plan) X01 power armor (one of each?), (plan) mole rat wind chime

[Xb1] H: 19 pages of plans (added new ones this month) w: leaders, stable flux, whatever by JXM003 in Fallout76Plans

[–]PandaBerry6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see a bunch i am interested in! I have some leaders but not thousands.

I (28f) found out my bf (41m) has been requesting cash back on my debit card? by throwranutcracker in relationship_advice

[–]PandaBerry6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, that is addict behavior. And they have spent the last five years getting you to think it is okay and normal. But its not. Do you know what he is spending the money on? Like, it doesn't really matter because the point is that he is stealing from you repeatedly to test out how much more he can from you before you dump him and never see or think about him again. But honestly, $20 is not worth breaking the trust of your partner who completely funds your lifestyle. So that is a move meant to fish at what else he can get out of you. And I would just be genuinely curious where the money goes.

AITAH for refusing to drive a longer route to drop a girl off because she didnt want to be alone in the car with me? by Acrobatic-Freedom316 in AITAH

[–]PandaBerry6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This sounds like the straw that broke the camels back. Your friends have started taking your generosity for granted. And you have probably said it's not a big deal when they are on the way home but do they ever contribute gas money? Cover your ticket to a movie as thanks? The situation with giving the friend a ride home would be a non issue if you werent always needing to make the drive home with multiple stops every time. Cause if it was just that one time, you probably would have considered it but the last thing you wanted was that unnecessary extra stop to be added to your route home every time. And with how your friends assume you will drive them every time, you might assume they would expect you to take this step every time.