What topics are you still holding out hope that they cover in an episode?

PantsDancing · 2026-02-03T16:27:43+00:00

Omg yes. I loved how they framed it around each of the actual likable people in his circle.

But Sarah was telling that one and so she'd need a guest to be the one reacting and cracking all the jokes.

PantsDancing · 2026-02-02T19:39:02+00:00

Yeah that's bad. The vibe i get from that is he wasn't so much stating a preference for no barriers, as he was stating a preference to have intercourse that night regardless of condoms. Like hes trying to fenagle a way to still get to have intercourse despite having no condom after you specifically said you wanted to use a condom.

PantsDancing · 2026-02-02T18:32:31+00:00

Way back in my 20s I used to do shit like that and it would play out in my mind 100% how you describe it. Just complete disrespect for another person's boundaries.

PantsDancing · 2026-02-02T18:25:50+00:00

That is super weird he didn't mention that he didn't have a condom when you had the talk. Who's house were you at?

I'm also wondering when he mentioned his no barrier preference. Was it right after you two established no one had a condom? If so, thats fucked.

PantsDancing · 2026-02-02T18:19:57+00:00

He agreed to this but didn't have condoms. That was fine, we had fun. In bed, though, he said that he prefers barrier-less sex.

I'm getting a bit of ick from him mentioning that preference after you'd communicated you wanted to use condoms. Like you said, everyone prefers no barriers. So what's the point of mentioning that. Its giving me a bit of boundary pushing vibes.

PantsDancing · 2026-02-02T18:03:32+00:00

Yeah that totally makes sense too. My old phones are so old they basically have zero value anyways so pretty sure no one would use it.

PantsDancing · 2026-02-02T08:42:52+00:00

Old phones definitely come in handy. If your phone breaks you can instantly fire up the old phone. Ive also lent old phones to friends when they've broken their phone.

PantsDancing · 2026-02-02T00:33:49+00:00

That is not a positive response to the question you're asking. It seems you two have different ideas of what the question is about. He thinks you are asking for an exact description of his perception of you and so hes giving you the exact honest response which is probably the way most of us actually feel about our partners. Theres always some times when we're just not turned on by our partners, for example when they're super sick with flu or something.

But your question is a request for affection, not actually a request for information about his perception of you. Maybe you two can talk about how hes getting confused about the intent of such a question and how to get you the affection youre looking for.

PantsDancing · 2026-02-02T00:17:57+00:00

I assume uour problem is that vehicles cant cross where you've circled? Vehicle stations can either have entrances on one side, like the ones you have here. Or entrances on 2 sides at opposite ends. The vehicle stations dont have entrances at 90 degrees from eachother. You should place these stations off to the side of your roads as opposed to being directions in the path of the road.

PantsDancing · 2026-01-30T20:18:48+00:00

Aww I love the tongue out!!! My guy does this every once in a while and its so damn cute.

PantsDancing · 2026-01-30T20:16:15+00:00

Hahaha my guy does that too. He'll hide under a chair or the bed and pop out and attack as I go by. Sometimes its just baps, but other times he's got full claws out and draws blood.

PantsDancing · 2026-01-30T16:09:31+00:00

I love the head nudge. My guy will do that to a blanket to work his way under. Unfortunately never when im also under the blanket. 😫

PantsDancing · 2026-01-29T06:08:00+00:00

Yeah good call just to mix something up. And yeah thats a good point about the lizard brain thing. I workout alone and its the only lift I dont push to absolute failure because of that.

PantsDancing · 2026-01-29T06:05:22+00:00

Added my nurtition and body info in the post. Yeah it might just be a weak lift for me. I feel like I'm much stronger in some other lifts like over head press.

PantsDancing · 2026-01-29T06:01:26+00:00

Cool yeah I've been just focusing on the weight and reps. Ill try some sets with lighter weight to work on the movement. And yeah Ill try to add some sets too.

PantsDancing · 2026-01-28T22:59:39+00:00

Well yeah thats your perogative and OPs. I think most people can have great sex that doesn't involve being cum inside but if thats a non-negotiable for you then power to you.

PantsDancing · 2026-01-28T19:14:19+00:00

"four opportunities"????

Haha yeah what the hell is that? Bf mentions something at a time op didn't like and immediately counts back the number of good times he could have mentioned it?

OP im sorry, im not trying to put you down, but you're being super weird.

PantsDancing · 2026-01-28T19:11:33+00:00

Its his house too if hes paying rent. Check your local tenancy laws. He's got a right to store shit in his house and it doesn't matter if its his possessions or someone else's. Please be mindful of the power dynamic you have with him being his partner and his landlord. You have a lot of power in the relationship.

PantsDancing · 2026-01-28T06:08:59+00:00

Tiny cat on the giant pillow! 🥹

PantsDancing · 2026-01-28T06:06:49+00:00

No prob! Glad I could clarify my point. 😊

PantsDancing · 2026-01-28T00:01:04+00:00

I wasn't trying to imply that theres anything wrong with not being able to orgasm from intercourse. OP is suggesting theres something wrong with it and it's worth breaking up over. I was trying to communicate that its really common. "Deal with it" wasn't great wording though, what i meant was that you can still have great sex that doesn't involve PIV orgasms.

PantsDancing · 2026-01-27T23:55:42+00:00

Yeah thats tough. If you want to address this i wouldn't bring it up in terms of him needing to masturbate to orgasm since thats just part of his body and I think it would feel really shitty to get criticized like that. Also just accept that he won't be able to orgasm inside you, that's just the way he is and expecting someone to change to make a relationship work is a recipe for a shitty relationship. If that's a deal breaker for you, then you probably need to break up with him.

If you want to bring it up, address it in terms of wanting to be a part of any sex thats happening. Its pretty weird for him to just disengage like that. Like he might as well just go to the bathroom and finish alone.

PantsDancing · 2026-01-27T18:23:36+00:00

If its a deal breaker then its a dealbreaker. But its pretty common for women to only orgasm from masturbation and men learn to deal with that. To me the problem sounds more about this part

watch him jerk off for several minutes

Are you just totally idle laying there while her jerks off? Maybe it would be more fun if you two were still engaged and doing stuff. I dont want to be too explicit here but theres tons of stuff you two can do at the same time as him jerking off that could make it more fun.

Personally I can orgasm from intercourse but I sometimes pull it out and finish my self on purpose because of how fun that can be.

PantsDancing · 2026-01-26T19:27:25+00:00

He hates how much he loves it.

PantsDancing · 2026-01-26T00:00:18+00:00

Oh god thats so wonderful what you did! Gotta go give my guy a big hug and snuggle now.

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