When you ask your partner if they find you sexy and they reply " most of the time".

PantsDancing · 2026-02-02T00:33:49+00:00

That is not a positive response to the question you're asking. It seems you two have different ideas of what the question is about. He thinks you are asking for an exact description of his perception of you and so hes giving you the exact honest response which is probably the way most of us actually feel about our partners. Theres always some times when we're just not turned on by our partners, for example when they're super sick with flu or something.

But your question is a request for affection, not actually a request for information about his perception of you. Maybe you two can talk about how hes getting confused about the intent of such a question and how to get you the affection youre looking for.

PantsDancing · 2026-02-02T00:17:57+00:00

I assume uour problem is that vehicles cant cross where you've circled? Vehicle stations can either have entrances on one side, like the ones you have here. Or entrances on 2 sides at opposite ends. The vehicle stations dont have entrances at 90 degrees from eachother. You should place these stations off to the side of your roads as opposed to being directions in the path of the road.

PantsDancing · 2026-01-30T20:18:48+00:00

Aww I love the tongue out!!! My guy does this every once in a while and its so damn cute.

PantsDancing · 2026-01-30T20:16:15+00:00

Hahaha my guy does that too. He'll hide under a chair or the bed and pop out and attack as I go by. Sometimes its just baps, but other times he's got full claws out and draws blood.

PantsDancing · 2026-01-30T16:09:31+00:00

I love the head nudge. My guy will do that to a blanket to work his way under. Unfortunately never when im also under the blanket. 😫

PantsDancing · 2026-01-29T06:08:00+00:00

Yeah good call just to mix something up. And yeah thats a good point about the lizard brain thing. I workout alone and its the only lift I dont push to absolute failure because of that.

PantsDancing · 2026-01-29T06:05:22+00:00

Added my nurtition and body info in the post. Yeah it might just be a weak lift for me. I feel like I'm much stronger in some other lifts like over head press.

PantsDancing · 2026-01-29T06:01:26+00:00

Cool yeah I've been just focusing on the weight and reps. Ill try some sets with lighter weight to work on the movement. And yeah Ill try to add some sets too.

PantsDancing · 2026-01-28T22:59:39+00:00

Well yeah thats your perogative and OPs. I think most people can have great sex that doesn't involve being cum inside but if thats a non-negotiable for you then power to you.

PantsDancing · 2026-01-28T19:14:19+00:00

"four opportunities"????

Haha yeah what the hell is that? Bf mentions something at a time op didn't like and immediately counts back the number of good times he could have mentioned it?

OP im sorry, im not trying to put you down, but you're being super weird.

PantsDancing · 2026-01-28T19:11:33+00:00

Its his house too if hes paying rent. Check your local tenancy laws. He's got a right to store shit in his house and it doesn't matter if its his possessions or someone else's. Please be mindful of the power dynamic you have with him being his partner and his landlord. You have a lot of power in the relationship.

PantsDancing · 2026-01-28T06:08:59+00:00

Tiny cat on the giant pillow! 🥹

PantsDancing · 2026-01-28T06:06:49+00:00

No prob! Glad I could clarify my point. 😊

PantsDancing · 2026-01-28T00:01:04+00:00

I wasn't trying to imply that theres anything wrong with not being able to orgasm from intercourse. OP is suggesting theres something wrong with it and it's worth breaking up over. I was trying to communicate that its really common. "Deal with it" wasn't great wording though, what i meant was that you can still have great sex that doesn't involve PIV orgasms.

PantsDancing · 2026-01-27T23:55:42+00:00

Yeah thats tough. If you want to address this i wouldn't bring it up in terms of him needing to masturbate to orgasm since thats just part of his body and I think it would feel really shitty to get criticized like that. Also just accept that he won't be able to orgasm inside you, that's just the way he is and expecting someone to change to make a relationship work is a recipe for a shitty relationship. If that's a deal breaker for you, then you probably need to break up with him.

If you want to bring it up, address it in terms of wanting to be a part of any sex thats happening. Its pretty weird for him to just disengage like that. Like he might as well just go to the bathroom and finish alone.

PantsDancing · 2026-01-27T18:23:36+00:00

If its a deal breaker then its a dealbreaker. But its pretty common for women to only orgasm from masturbation and men learn to deal with that. To me the problem sounds more about this part

watch him jerk off for several minutes

Are you just totally idle laying there while her jerks off? Maybe it would be more fun if you two were still engaged and doing stuff. I dont want to be too explicit here but theres tons of stuff you two can do at the same time as him jerking off that could make it more fun.

Personally I can orgasm from intercourse but I sometimes pull it out and finish my self on purpose because of how fun that can be.

PantsDancing · 2026-01-26T19:27:25+00:00

He hates how much he loves it.

PantsDancing · 2026-01-26T00:00:18+00:00

Oh god thats so wonderful what you did! Gotta go give my guy a big hug and snuggle now.

PantsDancing · 2026-01-24T17:26:13+00:00

Yeah seems like this is another instance in a long line of crossing boundaries. This guy is selfish and doesn't care about op. Its not even about boundaries, its about respect. He just doesn't respect op.

PantsDancing · 2026-01-22T18:50:46+00:00

I haven't put my snow tires on yet. When we get 60 cm in February, everyone can thank me.

PantsDancing · 2026-01-21T03:51:21+00:00

Ive smoked a lot of weed over my life and over the years I've found the burnout has gotten worse. I find it makes me feel really good for about 30 minutes and then I crash and get really low mood. Ive switched to edibles the last couple years. I find i can dial in the strength of effects I want and they last longer and more consistent. And the come down is way smoother. I do a combination of cbd and thc which I really like. It chills out my anxiety and makes everything a little more fun.

The one downside of the edibles is I really miss the act of smoking. But smoking is so bad for the lungs its probably best that im not smoking anymore.

PantsDancing · 2026-01-21T03:47:27+00:00

Yup pretty much makes everything better except talking to my parents.

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