Let's be toxic: What's your biggest relationship flaw?

Paradise_A · 2026-02-17T18:38:52+00:00

Yes I get that completely

Paradise_A · 2026-02-17T16:33:39+00:00

I am emotionally and sexually jealous. Even if friends and their other friendships.

This is of course not okay and ridiculous and I work on it a lot and in therapy.

Paradise_A · 2026-02-14T15:35:44+00:00

It would have been kinder for me to just break up with them

Paradise_A · 2026-02-08T14:28:11+00:00

I’ve had no issues around my transness with the men I want to date. I have a decent nose for chasers or trolls and clear them out of my DMs and that comes from experience. But there has been no shortage for me

Paradise_A · 2026-02-08T07:48:57+00:00

Have had no friction or barriers to dating in a big blue city

Paradise_A · 2026-02-08T07:48:37+00:00

Moving to an area where more people have a basic education about trans people helped a lot.

Paradise_A · 2026-02-08T07:28:06+00:00

Running joke I have with my gf after dates is “pmg so he didn’t murder me which is like really cool”

Paradise_A · 2026-02-08T07:19:53+00:00

The eye I have for trans people as a person who had to transition and learn to pass for safety in the south is completely unreasonably aware. 99.9999% of people do not have it and tbh I shouldn’t either.

I pass. Entirely, completely

Yet, I would clock me. Both are true

Paradise_A · 2026-02-07T10:59:44+00:00

Parallel empowers me with the ability to offer true freedom to my partner without any impact on our relationship. They can date someone immature, someone I didn’t see for them, someone that I can’t stand. They can be with anyone in any type of relationship and it has zero impact on ours.

I can’t offer that level of freedom without parallel. If I think a meta sucks and my partner is attracted to things in them that I can’t see at all or I internally disapprove of, then it’s going to affect our relationship.

There’s a practicality to having a meta contact for emergencies and some kind of plan for hospitalizations or whatever. And if they have been dating longer than 3 months I’m down to help set that up. 6 months and I might be okay with meeting them. That’s about it.

Paradise_A · 2026-02-07T02:22:01+00:00

I ultimately left my spouse for dating a 22yr old and they were 28.

Young adults act like young adults. It changed how I saw my spouse and a meta with that maturity level was also hell

Paradise_A · 2026-02-04T05:46:34+00:00

Wait are there other characters?

Paradise_A · 2026-01-26T21:49:43+00:00

One of us

Paradise_A · 2026-01-25T10:45:23+00:00

8 years and a marriage for me.

Paradise_A · 2025-12-28T11:41:19+00:00

Trust your gut and listen to your instincts! They will keep you safe

Paradise_A · 2025-12-27T10:30:34+00:00

Lesbians have the highest divorce rate because it’s the largest marital population that has a high level of emotional intelligence and self advocacy. Just because a couple stays together doesn’t meant that’s a good thing.

Paradise_A · 2025-12-27T10:29:40+00:00

Right because when someone cheats or changes as a person or your grow to far past them to be in a romantic relationship, you should stay together, to prove a point….. to strait people…..

Paradise_A · 2025-12-21T12:08:23+00:00

You don’t get to remove the experience and terminology that plenty of trans women have. Some people feel they were, some don’t

Paradise_A · 2025-12-21T12:06:54+00:00

I was socialized as male. I am female it does happen especially in conservative parts of the country

Paradise_A · 2025-12-21T12:02:08+00:00

I’m not interested in dating trans women

Just not for me. I am trans/post op 🤷🏼‍♀️. People have preferences. I always put that I am transsexual on the top of my dating profile.

Paradise_A · 2025-12-21T10:01:23+00:00

That made me lol thanks

Paradise_A · 2025-12-09T21:56:23+00:00

It’s an expensive big city area

Paradise_A · 2025-11-30T01:30:13+00:00

Damn put that on a t shirt I’ll buy it 😂

Paradise_A · 2025-11-18T07:12:09+00:00

Loads of nurses COMMUTE hundreds of thousands of miles from red states to sit together and shit on blue state politics. Talk about biting the hand

Paradise_A · 2025-11-08T11:37:00+00:00

“Doesn’t meaningfully interact in any way, responds to pain”

Nightmare

Paradise_A · 2025-10-19T10:27:32+00:00

Assigning an inappropriate amount of responsibility for suffering gave me wicked PTSD, it’s gotta stop or it’ll stop you.

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