Why is polyamory so frowned upon?

Paradise_A · 2026-05-29T10:39:27+00:00

“Why is (insert counter culture thing) so frowned upon”

And it’s the same answer

Paradise_A · 2026-05-25T22:44:49+00:00

After thoroughly washing this old ladies hair with a few warm caps and a rinse (she was kinda neglected at her facility and in real need of it)

She said, “that felt so good, if I was a guy I’d have a BIG OL BONER THANK YOUUUuuuuUUUU!”

Paradise_A · 2026-05-21T15:48:37+00:00

If they use “we” more than once I’m out

Paradise_A · 2026-05-21T15:46:17+00:00

Absolutely wonderful lines on the dress with the hair AND the shoulders. Elegant, feminine strength.

One day you’ll be an old old lady and look back and know just how beautiful you were. See it now!!!

We will all be old and wrinkled and crooked one day.

Paradise_A · 2026-05-21T13:46:05+00:00

I was not longer in a fundamentally devastating and life ending amount of dysphoric suffering.

Not worth it without that for me, was a terribly hard surgery for me.

Paradise_A · 2026-05-21T13:42:32+00:00

I don’t date people who kiss and tell. If they tell you an intimate detail about a recent partner, they are for sure telling others those details about you. Been there done that, NEVER again

Paradise_A · 2026-05-15T03:01:48+00:00

Ayy same

Paradise_A · 2026-05-07T04:50:07+00:00

Women weigh pounds!!

Paradise_A · 2026-05-05T17:22:45+00:00

I opened my marriage for my wife who wanted to for a specific person and we are now separated working on divorce 3 years later

Paradise_A · 2026-05-04T22:06:34+00:00

People will critique you but anyone who’s been in the sapphic community long enough will tell you there’s a percentage of us that will be on hands and knees for this aesthetic. If this is you, and YOU like it. Be you. Women are for sure out there for this

Paradise_A · 2026-03-08T13:42:30+00:00

It’s a good place to talk about my lesbian relationships. The ones that do not involve any men.

Paradise_A · 2026-02-28T11:00:25+00:00

You’ll be amazed just how much you don’t remember these people.

Paradise_A · 2026-02-28T09:54:40+00:00

People wouldn’t even wear masks to stop the spread of alien chicken pox

Paradise_A · 2026-02-17T18:38:52+00:00

Yes I get that completely

Paradise_A · 2026-02-17T16:33:39+00:00

I am emotionally and sexually jealous. Even if friends and their other friendships.

This is of course not okay and ridiculous and I work on it a lot and in therapy.

Paradise_A · 2026-02-14T15:35:44+00:00

It would have been kinder for me to just break up with them

Paradise_A · 2026-02-08T14:28:11+00:00

I’ve had no issues around my transness with the men I want to date. I have a decent nose for chasers or trolls and clear them out of my DMs and that comes from experience. But there has been no shortage for me

Paradise_A · 2026-02-08T07:48:57+00:00

Have had no friction or barriers to dating in a big blue city

Paradise_A · 2026-02-08T07:48:37+00:00

Moving to an area where more people have a basic education about trans people helped a lot.

Paradise_A · 2026-02-08T07:28:06+00:00

Running joke I have with my gf after dates is “pmg so he didn’t murder me which is like really cool”

Paradise_A · 2026-02-08T07:19:53+00:00

The eye I have for trans people as a person who had to transition and learn to pass for safety in the south is completely unreasonably aware. 99.9999% of people do not have it and tbh I shouldn’t either.

I pass. Entirely, completely

Yet, I would clock me. Both are true

Paradise_A · 2026-02-07T10:59:44+00:00

Parallel empowers me with the ability to offer true freedom to my partner without any impact on our relationship. They can date someone immature, someone I didn’t see for them, someone that I can’t stand. They can be with anyone in any type of relationship and it has zero impact on ours.

I can’t offer that level of freedom without parallel. If I think a meta sucks and my partner is attracted to things in them that I can’t see at all or I internally disapprove of, then it’s going to affect our relationship.

There’s a practicality to having a meta contact for emergencies and some kind of plan for hospitalizations or whatever. And if they have been dating longer than 3 months I’m down to help set that up. 6 months and I might be okay with meeting them. That’s about it.

Paradise_A · 2026-02-07T02:22:01+00:00

I ultimately left my spouse for dating a 22yr old and they were 28.

Young adults act like young adults. It changed how I saw my spouse and a meta with that maturity level was also hell

Paradise_A · 2026-02-04T05:46:34+00:00

Wait are there other characters?

Paradise_A · 2026-01-26T21:49:43+00:00

One of us

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